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Posted by: LoLo Dec 1 2003, 06:49 AM

The site is done and up and ready for viewing. Well done for the most part. I've hit a little snag with space and audio, which my friend Kyle is so kindly trying to help me out with by hosting it, but I'm having some troubles uploading tonight for some reason. So without the audio the sites done and ready for viewing.

I want to give a great big thanks to Cand for all the help she contributed to this site. Without her I don't think I would have been able to get through making it already.

http://home.comcast.net/~memdayan/Dayantributemain.htm

There is also a support thread which can be found http://www.matazone.co.uk/forums/index.php?showtopic=6370

Posted by: candice Dec 1 2003, 06:53 AM

QUOTE (LoLo @ Nov 30 2003, 10:58 PM)
I want to give a great big thanks to Cand for all the help she contributed to this site. Without her I don't think I would have been able to get through making it already.

It was my pleasure. The least I could do, for Dayan. smile.gif

Absolutely wonderful site, Lo. I adore it. smile.gif

Posted by: leopold Dec 1 2003, 10:31 AM

Nice work, you two. It's a wonderful site and a great tribute to him. He may not be here in person any more but he'll always be with us in spirit.

Once I get the chance (and the puter out of the garage) I'll post a link to it on me site.

Posted by: Pixiegoth Dec 1 2003, 11:45 AM

I'm glad to see my memories and some pictures I remember from the Meet and I'm really glad to see the link to the Darkness song. Wherever you are Dayan I'm sure you're suitably embarrassed about this attention. We miss you honey!

Thanks LoLo and Cand! Sterling work old chaps wink.gif

Posted by: the lil' pie fairy Dec 1 2003, 12:08 PM

brilliant...one day, when i can do something this nice for someone, i'll feel a lot better about myself smile.gif

Posted by: porcelainwarrior Dec 1 2003, 12:20 PM

hi - i thought the website was great, thanks for including my memories and stuff smile.gif

Posted by: Mind_Kybitz Dec 1 2003, 03:40 PM

I don't believe it... the school filtering thingie, "Bess," won't let me see the memorial site. What a load of bollocks... I should hack the system and make Bess block everything EXCEPT porn sites, see how THEY like it...

Posted by: LoLo Dec 1 2003, 04:20 PM

The audio all should be working now with the exception of fake plastic trees. I ran out of room on both the accounts I was using to host them, and well freewebs isn't working correctly right now so I can't seem to host it through there either.

Posted by: leopold Dec 1 2003, 04:26 PM

Lo, I'll see if there's any way I can host it for ya... not sure I can at the mo, cos I have no proper access to me webspace (stoopid proxy I set up won't pass FTP traffic, annoyingly...) I'll shout ya when I get it sorted, if ya still need it.

Posted by: CrissiLove Dec 1 2003, 05:33 PM

The website looks really nice....

Posted by: WeeJ Dec 1 2003, 05:53 PM

Its very fitting. Well done Lo smile.gif

Posted by: MistressAlti Dec 1 2003, 05:55 PM

it's beautiful, Lo.

Posted by: phoenix Dec 1 2003, 06:00 PM

lo, like i said last night, its really nice. you always do beautiful work.

Posted by: Oni Usagi Dec 1 2003, 07:24 PM

It's great Lo. And now I'm off to find out what this Chinga thing is all about.

Posted by: Cath Dec 1 2003, 08:51 PM

Nice one! you done good! biggrin.gif

Posted by: elf Dec 2 2003, 05:11 AM

Wow, I'm included. I'm honored, even though I said something completely useless. sad.gif Well, at least I could make a contribution, no matter how small.

Great job, Lo smile.gif

Posted by: sizzlieswix Dec 2 2003, 05:34 AM

a very good job well done

Posted by: LoLo Dec 2 2003, 12:49 PM

QUOTE (elf @ Dec 1 2003, 09:20 PM)
Wow, I'm included. I'm honored, even though I said something completely useless. sad.gif Well, at least I could make a contribution, no matter how small.

Great job, Lo smile.gif

If you would like your memory to be something else, or would like that one removed just let me know and I'll change it. What is on there is just a seires of things that were cut and pasted from the boards. I'm willing to change/add/remove anything that people want.

Posted by: monkey_called_narth Dec 2 2003, 07:11 PM

its wonderfull lolo (just like you) good job

Posted by: Kristian & Philip Dec 2 2003, 09:20 PM

This is the most difficult thing I have had to write on the internet. I don't know how to start.

My father was walking down my street and he saw a funeral procession with the name 'Dayan' written out in flowers. I was only told that an hour ago and so although the possibility of it not being him was little - as the name is so rare - I didn't know for sure, so I decided to type his name into Google and see if anything came up and it lead me here. It was such an awful shock.

I (Kristian) knew Dayan through Primary school and when he lived next door. Me and my brother would always play and go around to his. When he moved out we kinda lost contact but we always met up once a year for his birthday party. I can't say I/we knew him well seeing him only once a year but I would call him a great friend without hesitation. I don't know what this board is about or what it deals with but thank you for letting me know and it feels good to know that the person who always seemed bubbly and full of life when I saw him once a year had a set of true friends that loved him.

Kristian and Philip.

Posted by: Tarantio Dec 2 2003, 09:43 PM

Thankyou for going to the effort to track this down and especially to post. Dayan, I hope, would be equally as pleased that you cared for him as well. Forgive the bluntness of this post, but Im still very emotional over this thing.

Posted by: Polocrunch Dec 2 2003, 09:46 PM

Lolo you rule. Fin.

Posted by: ravein Dec 8 2003, 04:56 PM

Lo, good job with the site. Dayan would have been proud...

Posted by: LoLo Feb 7 2004, 02:26 AM

Since I needed more room for the family album I had to move Dayan's website to it's own account. Well 2 accounts because the mp3's are so big. So there's a new url if you want to bookmark it, but I'm going to keep the main page uploaded to the other account and it will just transfer you to the new page by clicking on any of the buttons. All the audio works now and all the pictures work now too. I think I got all the bugs out this go. About freaking time huh. This page just is hard to work on so I kept putting it off. Anyway here is the new url

http://home.comcast.net/~memdayan/Dayantributemain.htm

Posted by: craziness Feb 11 2004, 03:50 AM

um...hi....im just saying hi and i really wanted to talk to dayan...what happened to him?

edit: jicama is here and i PMed her....she told me the news. im really upset and crying. he was such a great guy. i wish i had a chance to really say goodbye. he was one of my best friends here and a main reason why i came back today.

Posted by: LoLo Feb 11 2004, 04:39 PM

Thanks to SPS there are now 3 more pics of Dayan on the website. They're the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th links to pics on the picture page, if you want to check them out. Thanks SPS. I think this one is my fav:


Posted by: WeeJ Mar 1 2004, 07:32 PM

This is probably a daft thing to post about, but I was sat in the car with Mat the other day on the way home from somewhere and 'Hear You Me' by Jimmy Eat World came on and it just made me think of Dayan. I wish I knew him more and I wish I had the oppertunity to meet him more than once. I'd get him back for that damn eyeball trick for a start! I guess he's just in my thoughts as I'm sure he's in everyone else's.

Posted by: Pixiegoth Mar 2 2004, 01:49 PM

QUOTE (WeeJ @ Mar 1 2004, 07:31 PM)
This is probably a daft thing to post about, but I was sat in the car with Mat the other day on the way home from somewhere and 'Hear You Me' by Jimmy Eat World came on and it just made me think of Dayan. I wish I knew him more and I wish I had the oppertunity to meet him more than once. I'd get him back for that damn eyeball trick for a start! I guess he's just in my thoughts as I'm sure he's in everyone else's.

You're not wrong WeeJ! Everytime I hear the new Darkness single I think of him. In fact any Darkness song reminds me of him and the Birmingham Meet.

Ahhhh memories.....

Posted by: LoLo Mar 5 2004, 03:17 AM

Thanks to Oni for the idea and e-mail, along with Pab and SPS for the work put into it, we now have the song "Debaser" by the Pixies playing on the main index page of the memorial website. Go check it out and rock on everyone.


Posted by: poppa.moo Mar 17 2004, 11:50 AM

As I have only just come back to these forums, this was a bit of a shock to say the least. The work on the website is fantastic, and a wonderfu testament to the cheeky little chappie. At first I thought it was a joke, because he'd left the forums or something, but the sadness quickly set in as I realised what this was all about. I can't say I knew Dayan that well, but I can say I'll miss him, and all the filth he used to spout on chat!

Posted by: LoLo Sep 14 2004, 07:07 PM

There was a note left on the guestbook for the memorial site and I was wondering if anyone knew or wanted to respond to this gentleman. The link to the guestbook is here : http://dayantribute.signmyguestbook.com/ , which has the post and the email of the guy.

His post reads :

QUOTE
Is one of your oldest friends, I feel betrayed by the fact that you would kill yourself a week after we lost met. Most people here do not now whom i am or from where i am coming from. But most people here have no idea about Dayan or who he was. While I went to school with him, he was taking anti-deprants. Until the last year of school. If anyone who does read this has any idea of what he lst thought of his school friends please email me.

Posted by: LoLo Nov 22 2005, 02:22 PM

<3 and Kiefer > Jason.

Posted by: Mata Nov 22 2005, 03:02 PM

I was looking through the site only a couple of days ago for the first time in a while. Happy memories of the silly bugger.

Posted by: candice Nov 22 2005, 03:49 PM

I was wondering when someone would bring this up today. WeeJ sent me a message early this morning and told me to send everyone her love in the inevitable discussion since she's up to her eyeballs in work.

Two years...wow. I was looking through the memorial site awhile back as well, and giggling at memories I'd almost forgotten.

QUOTE (LoLo @ Nov 22 2005, 06:22 AM)
Kiefer > Jason.
*

Oh silly, silly Lo. When will you ever admit that WE ARE RIGHT? tongue.gif

Jason > Kiefer. Always. wink.gif

Posted by: Pab Nov 22 2005, 04:02 PM

nanight debs

Posted by: LoLo Nov 22 2005, 04:09 PM

QUOTE (candice @ Nov 22 2005, 07:49 AM)
QUOTE (LoLo @ Nov 22 2005, 06:22 AM)
Kiefer > Jason.
*

Oh silly, silly Lo. When will you ever admit that WE ARE RIGHT? tongue.gif

Jason > Kiefer. Always. wink.gif
*



Pffttt never, because I'm not.

Queenie made a nice post on the guestbook on the site, and yeah it's nice to go through the site and just remember how fun Dayan was.

Posted by: Sir_Psycho_Sexy Nov 22 2005, 04:55 PM

*salutes*

Posted by: WeeJ Nov 22 2005, 06:02 PM

One of the coolest guys on the planet and he's left an enormous hole in many people's lives.

Love to Dayan, the little bugger.

Posted by: syuu Nov 22 2005, 11:51 PM

drinking a toast to you, tonight. see you around sometime, debs.

Posted by: MistressAlti Nov 23 2005, 04:08 AM

thinking of everyone, always.

Posted by: ravein Nov 23 2005, 04:27 AM

just love.

miss you all.

-selmisha

Posted by: porcelainwarrior Dec 7 2005, 03:02 PM

Love you Dayan, sorry I didn't post before but you know I had a vodka and B&H for ya x

Posted by: syuu Nov 23 2006, 01:44 AM

Some of you may or may not know that today/yesterday is the anniversary.
I just figured something should be said on here, so that people would remember.

Posted by: Sir_Psycho_Sexy Nov 23 2006, 02:03 AM

It's always 10th December that sticks in my head...and tequila at the Worlds End, and Big Tasty's from McDonalds, and getting of the tube 3 stops early for a whizz...and whizzing (again) in Sean's mum's fish pond.

...and Sean with Barry's snuff... I laughed so hard I cried...

We tried our best at a suitable send off *salutes*

Edit: Awesome pictures on the site, such fun.

Posted by: Mata Nov 23 2006, 12:31 PM

He was a silly bugger, but I miss him.

I read through the site again a few months ago. Has it really been three years? It usually feels like more, and sometimes it feels like a lot less.

Posted by: Pixiegoth Jan 5 2007, 11:37 PM

QUOTE (Mata @ Nov 23 2006, 12:31 PM) *
He was a silly bugger, but I miss him.

I read through the site again a few months ago. Has it really been three years? It usually feels like more, and sometimes it feels like a lot less.


I was talking about him the other day, how I felt sad and angry all at the same time and how I wished he was still around. I'm sorry I missed the anniversary. I do remember thinking 'why does today ring a bell' on the 22nd and now I remember. You're always there Dayan.

x

Posted by: Mata Nov 22 2007, 12:31 PM

I'll be drinking a toast to the fella tonight. He's been on my mind a fair bit over the past month for some reason. Best wishes to everyone else thinking of him today. Don't forget - today is a reminder of Dayan, but it also tells us to appreciate who we've got now. Remember your friends and family, tell them you care about them. As the sage Ferris Bueller said: 'Things move pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss them.'

Posted by: syuu Nov 22 2007, 04:57 PM

yesterday i made a point to go through a good chunk of his total posts (great feature, isn't it? stalking made easy) and was happily surprised to find that instead of being absolutely miserable, i was cracking up half the time. no wonder i love Debs so much, he's hilarious.

but yes. toasts, as always, are in order..
if anyone else is having any trouble or feeling down, i use most messengers (except yahoo), so if you need anything, PM me.

Posted by: candice Nov 22 2007, 06:55 PM

Jason > Kiefer. biggrin.gif

I am such a sap, I still have the last 2 PMs that I sent him. I don't have any that he sent me, cause I cleared out my inbox a day or so before I heard the news. I can't believe it's been four years...wow.

Posted by: Mata Nov 23 2007, 01:36 AM

He'd be twenty now, although I'd be just as drunk. The first toast was to him this night, the rest were to him too, but they were said inside. I suspect that there is a line after which I should probably try to stop mourning. Five years might be that point. We'll see.

The fact that I can type is a testimony to will over the body. I am deceptively pissed.

Posted by: syuu Nov 23 2007, 06:43 AM

i, too, am extraordinarily drunk. like, very very drunk.
but i had a woman buy me some captain morrigan's today. thus far, no toast has been said aloud. i love that boy. loved him. i could care less what tense you use, he is the most wonderful, wonderful thing that has ever happened to me. to myself this evening i said, every drink is for you - every one, and every one was. and now, i'll mix myself a rum n' coke, do what i do every year, and go outside to toast the miracle that dayan is, was, am. whatever. i spoke the truth when i said i've never had a better time in my life than when i was with you.

thank you.

Posted by: craziness Dec 15 2007, 01:33 AM

i was going to go to a hot hot heat concert to commemorate him, but my mom wont let me sad.gif
i think i cried more when he died than anyone else. i wish we could have met.
we miss you dayan

Posted by: Industrial Kybosh Nov 22 2008, 09:39 AM

Miss you, cockmonger.

Posted by: syuu Nov 22 2008, 07:25 PM

still love you. you're always here with me anyway, but i do.

Posted by: MistressAlti Nov 22 2008, 11:41 PM

*sigh* sad.gif

Posted by: Mata Nov 23 2008, 10:35 AM

I was thinking about him on Friday, how he managed to look like an evil cherub. It was quite a trick.

Posted by: leopold Nov 24 2008, 10:00 AM

Evil cherub with a glass eyeball. Which was for no purpose other than the joy of just owning one. And scare the bejesus out of WeeJ at the Brum meet, funny as hell, that was.

Blimey, was it really 5 years ago?! Doesn't seem like five minutes. I remember I was in this crappy little transport office somewhere in the Midlands when I got the call from a very distressed Porce to tell me about it. That was a hard conversation to have, and not aided by the fact that the office was literally crammed with very loud people on their phones. I ended up in the kitchen, trying to console her. Bad day.

Nice knowing ya, D-Man.

Posted by: candice Nov 24 2008, 03:08 PM

QUOTE (leopold @ Nov 24 2008, 10:00 AM) *
Blimey, was it really 5 years ago?!

It was, amazingly enough. And yet, one thing remains constant. Jason > Kiefer

Edited by Lo...*snicker*
Kiefer > Jason
Edited by Candice to correct Lo's horrible error: Saw THAT one coming. tongue.gif

I know I'm predictable

Uh huh. Saw THAT one coming, too.

How about that one?

Yup!

now?

I had my suspicions. Do you think we'll ever get tired of this? Also, do you think I look like a crazy person to people who don't know the backstory?
Kiefer < Jason
quite possibly

Oh well, that is a sacrifice I will just have to make. I am not giving up, because WE ARE RIGHT.

nahhh I'm right, I have a sig pic that says so. lol

Even the kittens in your sig know you are wrong. That is why their faces are all scrunched up!

Edited by Leo: You two are bonkers.

Maybe so, but don't think I didn't notice that > sign flipped around, mister!

Actually I flipped the sign around....and I'm disappointed in your for not noticing the hidden Kiefer > Jason in here, that you've missed like 5 times now!

Oh and Leo, there is a Dayan related reason for doing this.


Oh, you are truly devious!

I know I know. tongue.gif

Did you think I had forgotten about the editting?

Yikes! This thing was incorrect for two years! Dayan and I are still RIGHT.

Posted by: craziness Nov 25 2008, 07:22 AM

After so much time has passed and so many things have changed, you still cross my mind and i think of you sad.gif we miss you

Posted by: leopold Nov 25 2008, 10:38 AM

Just so I know, what happened to the memorial site? It appears to have disappeared...

Posted by: LoLo Nov 25 2008, 02:18 PM

QUOTE (leopold @ Nov 25 2008, 02:38 AM) *
Just so I know, what happened to the memorial site? It appears to have disappeared...


I don't know what happened....I didn't close that account. When I get off from work today I'll check into that or rehost it elsewhere.

Posted by: leopold Nov 28 2008, 01:56 PM

I was watching Donnie Darko and Dayan crossed my mind a fair few times. And then something occurred to me. Donnie Darko was released in 2001, but the closing theme - "Mad World" by Gary Jules - wasn't a hit record until 2003. The song played out just as Donnie was in his dying moments. And I considered how prophetic it was that the song itself was being released around the same time as our D-Man's passing.

And the further thought then occurred that it is extremely likely that The Darkness could owe their success entirely to the D.

And it then occurred to me that perhaps all the rain is because he's badgered someone into attempting to drown Rihanna... but that might just be wishful thinking on my part.

Posted by: Mata Nov 29 2008, 12:27 AM

The rain is Dayan sitting on a cloud, peeing on Rihanna's head.

Posted by: LoLo Dec 2 2008, 12:42 AM

QUOTE (leopold @ Nov 25 2008, 02:38 AM) *
Just so I know, what happened to the memorial site? It appears to have disappeared...


I'm not sure why but the link on the page was set to an old web site where the family album was hosted. I thought I had it at it's current location since I put it up, but apparently not. Anyway, links fixed, go listen to Chinga and smile.

Posted by: Industrial Kybosh Dec 2 2008, 12:02 PM

QUOTE (LoLo @ Dec 2 2008, 12:42 AM) *
Chinga


Ahh, the anthem of the old iRC crowd. Never fails to make me chuckle in a nostalgic fashion whenever I listen to it, which is often. Good old 'Pig Latin'.

Posted by: WeeJ Sep 6 2009, 09:21 AM

Stupid glass eye in my drink! sleep.gif

Posted by: leopold Sep 9 2009, 03:25 PM

My heavens, it's a WeeJ! How do Jen, long time no see!

Posted by: VVes Sep 23 2009, 06:28 AM

Some things have changed, but never my missing D... sad.gif

Posted by: leopold Nov 20 2009, 03:13 PM

On the basis that I won't be here between now and the 22nd, I'm going to add my message a tad early...

Miss you, D-Man.

Posted by: Mata Nov 20 2009, 05:46 PM

I was thinking about this a couple of days ago: I'm now twice the age that Dayan was when he died. Twice the lifetime... That's a strange thing to think of. It feels to me like pretty much everything important in my life has happened in the last sixteen years. How dark and strange for his life to have ended at the age that I feel mine really had only begun.

Gone, but not forgotten, or too far in the past to be ridiculed a bit. The silly bugger.

Posted by: LoLo Nov 22 2009, 03:43 PM

Let's see, I'll just throw in a couple of I miss you catch phrases here.

Kiefer > Jason ..... and since Cand's not a mod she can't edit this post. tongue.gif

Glassjaw fucking sucks.

I always find it rather interesting that the songs that make me think of Dayan seem to come up on my iPod and on the radio this time of year. Well even if they don't today I'll have to pull out some Pixies or the Smiths.

Posted by: Mata Nov 22 2009, 03:45 PM

Here's to absent friends.

Posted by: candice Nov 22 2009, 09:10 PM

QUOTE (Mata @ Nov 20 2009, 05:46 PM) *
It feels to me like pretty much everything important in my life has happened in the last sixteen years. How dark and strange for his life to have ended at the age that I feel mine really had only begun.

I have very similar thoughts at times. Especially at this time of year, of course.

Six years. My goodness. Oh, and Lo darling, Kiefer < Jason. tongue.gif Dayan and I are still RIGHT.

Posted by: gerbilfromhell Nov 22 2009, 10:09 PM

I'll admit it; the Pixies ARE better. smile.gif

Definitely not forgotten

Posted by: leopold Nov 23 2009, 08:57 AM

QUOTE (Mata @ Nov 20 2009, 05:46 PM) *
I'm now twice the age that Dayan was when he died.

Now that makes me feel like an old bugger... I was twice his age when he was still alive ohmy.gif

And now I stop to think about it, in the six years since he passed, my life has changed completely. Not suggesting that they are related in any way (highly unlikely, as the changes started happening before the meet in Birmingham) but it's funny how time flies, how things change and so on, and I can't help thinking how his life could've been so very different now too.

Posted by: Cath Nov 23 2009, 12:39 PM

Life does change so quickly and sometime it is just a case of hanging on in there. But I think it's good that people still remeber him and it gives them fond memories.

and of course me and Lo are right Kiefer > Jason tongue.gif

Posted by: Pixiegoth Nov 24 2009, 03:35 PM

I missed the actual day but the sentiment is still there. I have lost too many people recently and it's so sad. RIP Dayan and everyone else I have ever loved and lost sad.gif

Posted by: LoLo Jan 14 2010, 10:25 PM

Holy crap. It's weird to think that Debs would have been 23 today. Really? wow

Posted by: Mata Jan 15 2010, 01:57 PM

It's been six years since he died. He would have left uinversity by now... And now he would be joining us all on the march to bitterness and cyncism that is called normal life wink.gif

Posted by: syuu Jan 19 2010, 04:49 AM

and i could hopefully have told him to go to French even though he doesn't want to during ungodly hours of the morning.

Posted by: LoLo Nov 22 2010, 03:42 AM

Kiefer > Jason.

<3 Miss you buddy.

Posted by: Mata Nov 22 2010, 12:05 PM

Do you think he would have given me a slap because I was playing Rock Band 3 by myself (while quite drunk) a couple of weeks ago and Debaser came on and I started crying? He probably would. I'm such a wuss sometimes.

Silly bugger.

Posted by: MistressAlti Nov 22 2010, 06:22 PM

QUOTE (Mata @ Nov 22 2010, 06:05 AM) *
Do you think he would have given me a slap because I was playing Rock Band 3 by myself (while quite drunk) a couple of weeks ago and Debaser came on and I started crying? He probably would. I'm such a wuss sometimes.

Silly bugger.


Heh. You can join my emotional wuss club. You get props for listening, though. I still can't.

Posted by: Tarantio Nov 23 2010, 01:01 AM

Missy!

*glomps*

/spam

Posted by: Pikasyuu Nov 23 2010, 06:10 AM

QUOTE (Mata @ Nov 22 2010, 04:05 AM) *
Do you think he would have given me a slap because I was playing Rock Band 3 by myself (while quite drunk) a couple of weeks ago and Debaser came on and I started crying? He probably would. I'm such a wuss sometimes.

Silly bugger.


this really made me want to hug you. :<

Posted by: Mata Jan 20 2011, 09:41 PM

You know, I can't remember which Jason is (apparently) inferior to Keifer,

Posted by: Pikasyuu Jan 22 2011, 04:16 AM

the really, really lame one

Posted by: Mata Jan 22 2011, 10:27 AM

So lame he doesn't have a surname?

Posted by: LoLo Jan 22 2011, 07:13 PM

QUOTE (Mata @ Jan 22 2011, 02:27 AM) *
So lame he doesn't have a surname?


Jason Patric

Posted by: Pikasyuu Jan 22 2011, 10:15 PM

QUOTE (Mata @ Jan 22 2011, 02:27 AM) *
So lame he doesn't have a surname?


two first names, like a total loser.

Posted by: Mata Jan 23 2011, 04:37 PM

Oo, Jason Patric, he's awesome wink.gif

Posted by: Pikasyuu Jan 23 2011, 08:42 PM

can i have a ban button please?

Posted by: craziness Jan 24 2011, 02:58 AM

Miss you debaser. It's so awful that your life was cut so short. Thinking back to how many years I have been a member of this site and how much my life has changed in those years, it's truly shocking to imagine that Dayan is missing out on so many things today. How old would he be now? 24? It's unbelievable, there is no greater tragedy than a young life cut short. Life is full of ups and downs but is all around beautiful, I wish you were here to share it with us today Dayan.

Posted by: Sir Psycho Sexy Jan 29 2011, 12:19 PM

Where's my postcard, bitch!?




...too soon?

Posted by: Mata Nov 22 2011, 08:16 PM

Definitely not forgotten, and I've had one of those happy/sad days making sure I appreciate this life.

Posted by: Mata Nov 22 2012, 09:23 AM

Silly, silly bugger.

Posted by: Pikasyuu Nov 22 2012, 08:26 PM

i had something else written up that was too sad/emotional to post, so i'll just say this - i'm glad everyone else on here is alive and safe, because you guys are closer to me than anyone else. thanks for being around to grieve on this day with me.

Posted by: Sir Psycho Sexy Nov 25 2012, 09:18 AM

Y'know, I still don't know what's in a "Cockbasket"! Other than gin of course...

Posted by: Phyllis Nov 25 2012, 10:04 PM

QUOTE (Sir Psycho Sexy @ Nov 25 2012, 09:18 AM) *
Y'know, I still don't know what's in a "Cockbasket"! Other than gin of course...

Pepsi Max.

I have, on occasion, had a Pepsi Max and called it a virgin cockbasket.

...can we say cockbasket on the forums? unsure.gif

Posted by: Mata Nov 27 2012, 06:59 PM

It would be wrong not to discuss cockbaskets on the forums.

I rather like 'virgin cockbasket' biggrin.gif

Posted by: Pikasyuu Nov 27 2012, 10:42 PM

gin is evil. it melts into the surrounding drink like an alcoholic chameleon.

Posted by: Mata Nov 22 2013, 12:43 PM

Ten years.

<3

Posted by: ravein Jan 26 2014, 06:18 AM

QUOTE (Mata @ Nov 22 2013, 07:43 AM) *
Ten years.

<3

Hi all, it's been a while. I was just thinking of Dayan tonight and how much I miss a kid I never met, but still think about all these years later. I told my partner about the glass eye, she thought it was as funny as Dayan and I did.

Anyway, hope you're all doing well. *fist bump*

Posted by: Mata Feb 19 2014, 08:26 PM

Hey smile.gif I'm good. Very busy with work, but creative things are going strong too!

Yeah, I still think about Dayan too. It's strange really, how only a few months leaves such a lasting impression. He was a cool kid.

Posted by: Mata Oct 19 2015, 08:43 AM

The memorial website has disappeared after all these years, but he's definitely not forgotten though.

Posted by: LoLo Oct 19 2015, 01:37 PM

QUOTE (Mata @ Oct 19 2015, 12:43 AM) *
The memorial website has disappeared after all these years, but he's definitely not forgotten though.


My service provider got rid of the web site and my mom (the owner of the account) didn't inform me until it was already gone. Sorry. sad.gif

Posted by: Mata Oct 20 2015, 06:33 PM

Do you have a back up anywhere? I could host it.

Posted by: Mata Nov 15 2015, 11:56 PM

In case anyone still comes here at this time of year, I've put up a new page because the old site went down: http://www.matazone.co.uk/animpages/dayan.html

Posted by: werewolf3361 Dec 13 2015, 07:11 AM

The randomness of Pandora playing Debaser as I folded laundry today, it made me cry and remember the good times here. I can't believe it's been so long. Goes to show that even someone you only know for a short time can make a big impact in your life.



Thanks Mata for getting a new page up, good to see that he is still remembered.




Miss you Dayan, always and forever.

Posted by: Mata Feb 4 2016, 04:53 PM

*hugs*

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