Eh Life, big mistake Options

[magikeyes14]

ok so last friday (the 23 of april) i did something i sorta regret and now im getting sh*t about it.

I guess one of the gurls that were with me told everyone what i did and what happened. I didnt find out until monday afternoon when school ended becuase my friend Chris came up to me and yelled at me. "OMG! KRYS! u had sex with KAI! how could you! your a fing slut!!!" and blah blah blah. It was really upsetting becuase i know im not a whore. That was my first time ever doing ANYTHING of the sorta and i never intended on it in the first place. I know, im blabbing my indeciency to the whole forum, but not many people here know me well anymore sence i have disapeared latley. Anyways, so i guess Blair told everyone about me and Kai. I wasnt ashamed of what i did with him becuase he is a good friend and it was really sweet and special to me. So later that night im talking to Sam and he told me that blair is mad at me for something else about friday.
Long story short, Sam got alcohol poisioning and he ended up kissing me for a thank you becuse i took care of him and blair was pissed so she told everyone.
Tuesday im walking to my 5th period and Yazra (blairs best friend) is walking behind me, talking at the top of her voice saying 'god i hate fing ugly whores that can only get guys when the guy is drunk! egh! ugly whores! and i hate people that kiss their friends almost boifrend' and blah blah blah
she did the same thing on the way out of school. and being the non angry person i am i ignored her... when i got on the bus tho, i ended up hurting my hand by punching the metal. I go home and Sam helped a little... so then Wednesday, i was sorta determined to kick Yazra's a$$ becuase what she was doing is immature and pethedic. So she runs up to me at lunch and says 'please dont start any fights.. you need to stop talking to us and dont even hang out with Sam anymore' stuff like that, and im my head im thinking 'wait.. werent you the one calling me an ugly whore?' so i say yea whatever so she will leave. She leaves and Sam tries to come over and talk to me.. but blair and Yaz have this death grip on his wrists and wont let him. Eventualy he got free and came to talk to me.
Thurdsay they left me alone for most of the day.. except at lunch when Sam was hanging out with me, they sent all his friends over to DRAG him away becuase they dont want him talking to me. Later that night, i get on the net and check my LJ and Blair made a post about me! and about how Sam likes me but he is only lieing and she shouldnt worry about me becuase im not compititon and blah blah blah. So i leave it be and end up geting so overwelmed and mad that i passed out from this crazy anxiety/athsma/panic attack.
Friday i come to school and no one did anything, i left and it was ok... but then this weekend me and sam were talking about how blair hates me becuase Sam likes me and all this bullsh**.. im not quite sure what i should do about the situation. IM not sure if i should just ask blair and yazra to shut up and leave me alone, or just not talk to Sam anymore becuse he seems to be the reason why they hate me so much.. but sam is my friend and i dont want to not be his friend.
Any segestions?
$

[Usurper MrTeapot]

To be honest I really don't think that Blair or Yazra can be called good friends anymore.

I'm judging you and Sam are very close, and even if you guys aren't relationship material (not saying you aren't) I think it would be better if you just told the others to shut up, not promoting violence, and tell them to get a life.

Thats all I can say right now really. Just what I'd do *shrug*

[Aria]

Er.... They're calling you a *whore* because you *kissed* a guy? No offense, but those don't sound like friends to me. Keep the guy, ditch the people who are calling you names. Yeesh.

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

Chances are it will all blow over soon enough, ignoring them is the best course of action, sam needs to show them they can't push him about either, for him i suggest giving each a swift backhander across the face followed by "respect my f**kin' authritaah"....well maybe thats not the best course of action....but if sam told them to grow up or piss off they might listen.

In any case, keep the moral high ground....for now at least....

[TigerLily013]

I've put up with people like that, but they weren't friends with me to start. I would tell them to shut up and let them know what they are doing is wrong, immature, pathetic, and if they REALLY cared about you they would just accept it and leave you be. It's not like you cheated with some girl's guy or something like that...

[The Lorax]

i suggest giving each a swift backhander across the face followed by "respect my f**kin' authritaah"....well maybe thats not the best course of action


....but if sam told them to grow up or piss off they might listen.

I like the Cartman/Psycho Sexy approach. They do deserve to be hit if they are harassing you for kissing a guy-even if they do like him.

You just ignore them, or just walk over to them and calmly, like an adult, say not to blow a kiss out of porportion, but if Sam did want to go out with you it would be his decision, not yours so to please back the f*ck off.

Sam also needs to be a big boy and tell the girls to leave him alone about the situation.

...personally i'd get my lead pipe out and give em a *new* soft spot--right in the back of the head...but violence isn't always the awnser...so...^^;

[phoenix]

<hugs magik>
the good news is that it will blow over shortly. in high school they is always some girl being talked about, and its usually the ones who do it the least. im sorry you are this week's pick. you dont deserve to be talked about like that, at all, whether you feel great about doing it or completely miserable. its your life your choice, we all make mistakes and we all do things without a care, the only problem is there will always be someone who back talks, pointing out the "errors" of your ways. i cant say that blair will stop, she probably wont, ever (it seems she like this one girl i went to high school with, when a similar thing happened to me). some peolpe arent happy unless they have someone to be pissed at.

look if you ever want to talk with someone who has been through this and lived, give me a IM, kay love?