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Jul 9 2003, 06:45 AM
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![]() I have measured out my life with coffee spoons ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: New Members Posts: 807 Joined: 15-June 03 From: Sacramento, California Member No.: 383 |
This topic was inspired by some comments I read on page 7 of the A/S/L topic in Daily Life. What does everyone think about people who identify with a certain country of origin or ethnicity? Do you think it's ridiculous when people proclaim "I'm French" or "I'm Norwegian" when they haven't even visited their country of ethnic/racial/cultural heritage? Particularly in the case of Americans who were born in America and have never been outside of America but still claim other ethnic heritage... What's your opinion?
-------------------- And when I am formulated, sprawling on a pin,
When I am pinned and wriggling on the wall, Then how should I begin To spit out all the butt-ends of my days and ways? And how should I presume? ~T.S. Eliot, "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock" |
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Jul 9 2003, 06:47 AM
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![]() I have measured out my life with coffee spoons ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: New Members Posts: 807 Joined: 15-June 03 From: Sacramento, California Member No.: 383 |
To answer my own question...
If the topic comes up, I proudly proclaim that I'm Norwegian regardless of whether I've been there or not (I haven't, by the way). Where I grew up (in Minnesota), people of Norwegian descent are in the majority. The Norwegian culture there seems to be alive and well, and everyone in that area seems to take much pride in their heritage. It doesn't necessarily indicate one's location to me; it's just a label for the culture and heritage, and I see nothing wrong with it. I think it's rather harsh to negatively judge the people who claim to be of a certain country and yet they haven't been to their country of origin. As far as I'm concerned, visiting the country your ancestors were born in is something for the rich to do, and most people I know from Minnesota are far from financially able to travel within the states, let alone taking an expensive overseas vacation. I think that claiming the label of "Norwegian" is just one of the many ways that these people try to reconnect to their country of heritage. Cherishing and embracing one's ethnicity should not entail a mandatory visit to the country of origin, in my opinion. There are lots of other ways to embrace ethnicity. -------------------- And when I am formulated, sprawling on a pin,
When I am pinned and wriggling on the wall, Then how should I begin To spit out all the butt-ends of my days and ways? And how should I presume? ~T.S. Eliot, "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock" |
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Jul 9 2003, 06:49 AM
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![]() suggestive cupcake ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Admin Posts: 6,435 Joined: 21-April 03 From: Las Vegas, NV Member No.: 260 Gender: Female |
I don't spout off my bloodline, I typically say I'm just white when asked. But now that it's come up..
French, Irish, German, Swedish, Scottish, British, Swiss, and a pinch of Russian. ;D -------------------- i'm like oh kimosabe, your body is my hobby ![]() the official 'you bitch' count: a whole lot last updated 11/05 |
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Jul 9 2003, 06:58 AM
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Ai Ravana-hime ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: New Members Posts: 1,834 Joined: 30-June 03 From: Satomi Tadashi Member No.: 421 Gender: Male |
My whole theory on this type of thing is I have certain things in my bloodline, but that doesn't matter...I'm a full blooded American.....yippy. There's practically no ethnicity there. That's just my own opinion. We have a so called "boiling pot" or whatever of cultures, but yet there is so much disrimination and stuff like that, how can we even BEGIN to say we're the land of the free? Indeed. Ok this is quickly becoming off topic. Basically for me.....I don't really know anymore what my descendents were because the beautiful US of A has taken that from me. I am now a part of the money making machine and that's all I need to worry about, right?
-------------------- Pimping Lolo and ridin' teh Trout since 2003. Dominated by Tigersong, e-hubby, since 2004.
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Jul 9 2003, 04:11 PM
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![]() Kiefer > Jason ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Admin Posts: 9,698 Joined: 26-February 03 From: UK Member No.: 51 Gender: Female |
When people ask me where I'm from I always say California. If they ask me what I am I say a Californian born and bread. lol
I see nothing wrong with identifying with your ancestors but it starts to become complicated after awhile. Me for example........french/german/english/scottish/lil bit of everything else. Now my nephew since we have to add in his mothers side.....well her bloodline wasn't tainted like ours haha........so he gets to say hes 1/2 french/german/english/scottish/lil bit of everything else and 1/2 navaho. If I had kids it would probably be a long long thing for them to say. haha If someone is interested, I'll tell them and then say something like........yeah I'm really white **rollseyes** lol The way I see it though, I've lived in America all my life, I've never been out of it to my knowledge, so I am a Californian. I don't like calling myself an American. Side note to prince aries: if you want to trace your lineage, go to your local mormon church and ask to use their geneology library. I believe they have computers to help you trace everything back, but I wouldn't know cause I never did it myself. My family is mormon (not me but them) and geneology is very important to mormons, which is why they have one of the most extensive libraries around. My aunt did my geneology and I have a binder the size of a dictionary tracing back my ancestors quite a ways back. I have so many kings and queens as ancestors, along with a sherrif of naughtingham, and the inventor of coors beer. -------------------- ![]() Being Pimped By Aries Since 2003 |
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Jul 9 2003, 04:50 PM
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![]() Duck Hunter S Thompson ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Admin Posts: 3,417 Joined: 28-February 03 From: Lovely, rainy, Seattle Member No.: 71 Gender: Male |
It's a bit of a nonsense really. I could claim to be Danish, as my surname is of Danish origin. But that's plainly ridiculous, as I'm English. Grew up in England, sound English, think and behave like an Englishman - yup, that'll be me being English.
It's OK if folk say, "I'm American, but of Irish decent", that makes sense. Claiming to be Irish, when you can't (for instance) name the Prime Minister of Ireland is clearly ludicrous. -------------------- Nearly two years in - about time for a new AV
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Jul 9 2003, 05:03 PM
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![]() ever-hopeful since 2003 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Moderators Posts: 6,037 Joined: 27-February 03 From: Midwest US Member No.: 54 Gender: Secret |
My mother is adopted. I have one huge question mark getting in the way of claiming an ethnicity... *sighs*
Perhaps it's a bit off-topic to say this, but I really wish I could know what I am. I mean, sure, I'm hardcore suburban American (rock on, kids), but hey, it'd be nice if I could at least know where my ancestors fled from. In that respect, ethnicity is a really important thing... I don't really think it's wrong to claim your ethnic heritage, as long as it doesn't take precedence over your current way of life... Americans who say being Liberian (for example) is more important than the fact that they've grown up here is pure silliness. |
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Jul 9 2003, 05:09 PM
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![]() not forgotten ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Established Members Posts: 1,871 Joined: 24-May 03 From: Fife, Scotland Member No.: 323 Gender: Female |
ok ... well ...
i call myself scottish pretty much - if someone ask bout my last name i tell them its flemish cause thats where my family hail from (french bit of belgium) just a few generations back but we also have french, english (yes i see a difference but i still lurve english ppl) and german heritage. one of my aunts married a greek guy and the other married an iranian and we have lots of family friends who are indian, african, all sorts of european and id say that i was affected by all of these cultures too as my family not only celebrate easter and christmas like most uk families (and i know there are exceptions) but also diwali, greek orthodox easter, midsummer and god knows what else inbetween (including drinking lots of ouzo, eating lamb on a stick and smashing plates every summer i dont claim to be any of these things but im just saying that your blood isnt all that makes up your ethnic background ... your environment and personal choices have a lot to do with that too -------------------- Little solace comes to those who grieve
When thoughts keep drifting As walls keep shifting And this great blue world of ours Seems a house of leaves |
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Jul 9 2003, 05:18 PM
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![]() Duck Hunter S Thompson ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Admin Posts: 3,417 Joined: 28-February 03 From: Lovely, rainy, Seattle Member No.: 71 Gender: Male |
QUOTE (porcelainwarrior @ Jul 9 2003, 11:09 AM) i dont claim to be any of these things but im just saying that your blood isnt all that makes up your ethnic background ... your environment and personal choices have a lot to do with that too That's exactly my point. I'm English, because I was raised in England. Had I been raised in Australia (where I was actually born, incidentally), I'd not doubt consider myself 1st generation Australian, of English extraction. -------------------- Nearly two years in - about time for a new AV
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Jul 9 2003, 05:21 PM
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Technically a giant, intellectual midget. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Established Members Posts: 4,319 Joined: 29-March 03 From: Enger-land Member No.: 197 Gender: Transgender |
Well more recently i have scottish blood in me from my Grandad (on my mum's side) but i think my family has been traced back to France...apparently we came over a little after...that time when the French actually beat the engish....anywho, this is of great shame and i don't share it with a lot of people....I'm English and proud
-------------------- He's a freak of nature, but we love him so.
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Jul 9 2003, 07:12 PM
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![]() Candbrush Threepwood ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Established Members Posts: 5,391 Joined: 28-May 03 From: Derby Member No.: 345 Gender: Female |
QUOTE (Jonman @ Jul 9 2003, 09:50 AM) It's a bit of a nonsense really. I could claim to be Danish, as my surname is of Danish origin. But that's plainly ridiculous, as I'm English. Grew up in England, sound English, think and behave like an Englishman - yup, that'll be me being English. It's OK if folk say, "I'm American, but of Irish decent", that makes sense. Claiming to be Irish, when you can't (for instance) name the Prime Minister of Ireland is clearly ludicrous. EXACTLY, jonman. i don't have a problem at all w/ ppl saying "my great grandpa was from germany"...or whatever. just when someone asks you "what nationality are you?".....you shouldn't say "german" if you've never been to germany. you can say "i'm american, but my ancestors were from germany" if you like, because that is actually true. i'm sorry, saying "i'm german" or "i'm irish" or whatever else gives the impression you are from those countries, which just isn't true. i happen to be very proud of my family's heritage as well..and would like to find out more about it....but i still say i'm american when asked, because i was born here, so yeah..that IS what i am. it's the only country i'm a citizen of, so it's the only country i can claim as my nationality. oh and asking ethnic origin is a whole different story...that question implies "where were your ancestors from?" i think. i'm just speaking of nationality. -------------------- I love you in a way that is mystical and eternal and illegal in 20 states.
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Jul 9 2003, 07:52 PM
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![]() oooh yeah,shake that nasty hamster ass! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: New Members Posts: 535 Joined: 5-March 03 From: Merry Ole' England Member No.: 98 |
ummmmm M.S.T,didnt u kinda go against everything u said in the first post in ya second?
Wonder if anyone out there shares my heritage,try and figure it out by the paragraph which follows: Shw'mae ane!Sut'dach chi?Mae hi'n iawn diolch.Rwyn dod o Llaneli,Cwymru. hee hee and YES i've been there many a time,and take lessons at college on my native language.i'm very proud of my heritage,and speak it with pride -------------------- <span style='font-size:21pt;line-height:100%'><span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'>If you're happy and you know it clap your hands...............................</span></span>
I'm not hearing any clapping! go Scotty,go! |
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Jul 9 2003, 08:11 PM
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![]() Candbrush Threepwood ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Established Members Posts: 5,391 Joined: 28-May 03 From: Derby Member No.: 345 Gender: Female |
ermmm...is that welsh, simply?
-------------------- I love you in a way that is mystical and eternal and illegal in 20 states.
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Jul 9 2003, 08:17 PM
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![]() oooh yeah,shake that nasty hamster ass! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: New Members Posts: 535 Joined: 5-March 03 From: Merry Ole' England Member No.: 98 |
also have Irish,Russian and a teeny bit of German in me -------------------- <span style='font-size:21pt;line-height:100%'><span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'>If you're happy and you know it clap your hands...............................</span></span>
I'm not hearing any clapping! go Scotty,go! |
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Jul 9 2003, 08:18 PM
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![]() oooh yeah,shake that nasty hamster ass! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: New Members Posts: 535 Joined: 5-March 03 From: Merry Ole' England Member No.: 98 |
-------------------- <span style='font-size:21pt;line-height:100%'><span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'>If you're happy and you know it clap your hands...............................</span></span>
I'm not hearing any clapping! go Scotty,go! |
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Jul 9 2003, 08:27 PM
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![]() Candbrush Threepwood ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Established Members Posts: 5,391 Joined: 28-May 03 From: Derby Member No.: 345 Gender: Female |
lol..my grandmother is welsh. i was born and raised in america though, and have never been there. i'd love to go all over europe sometime. *sigh*
anyhow...hrm i hope none of my comments on nationality came out offensive. it's just how i feel. i have a good friend from ireland who constantly has conversations on the internet as follows: chatter: so where are you from? my friend: ireland chatter: oh yeah? i'm irish! my friend: oh yeah? cool, what part? chatter: i'm from chicago, illinois. my friend: erm...ok. =/ see it'd go much better like this: chatter: so where are you from? my friend: ireland. chatter: oh yeah? my family is from ireland, but i was born in chicago. my friend: oh cool. have you ever been here? chatter: nope but i'd like to.... see, now doesn't that just make much more SENSE? -------------------- I love you in a way that is mystical and eternal and illegal in 20 states.
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Jul 9 2003, 08:46 PM
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![]() I have measured out my life with coffee spoons ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: New Members Posts: 807 Joined: 15-June 03 From: Sacramento, California Member No.: 383 |
QUOTE (simply @ I'm a spastic,Jul 9 2003, 12:52 PM) ummmmm M.S.T,didnt u kinda go against everything u said in the first post in ya second? Uhh, the first post was the question, and the second post was my response. What's there to go against? -------------------- And when I am formulated, sprawling on a pin,
When I am pinned and wriggling on the wall, Then how should I begin To spit out all the butt-ends of my days and ways? And how should I presume? ~T.S. Eliot, "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock" |
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Jul 10 2003, 02:38 PM
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I don't need no stinkin' title ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: New Members Posts: 977 Joined: 26-February 03 From: midlands, england Member No.: 38 |
well, I'm 5/8 Irish 2/8 English and 1/8 scottish. in blood
i was born and raised in England but have always benn made aware of my Irish ethnicicity (sp?) i guess it depends of whether you believe more that bloodlines count, or the place you were raised counts. it really annyos me however, when you have to fill in froms about your ethnics, and they say white irish or white british. i am both. there are many both, so what am i supposed to put? -------------------- I'll sleep when i'm alive and live when i'm dead.
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Jul 10 2003, 06:27 PM
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![]() Candbrush Threepwood ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Established Members Posts: 5,391 Joined: 28-May 03 From: Derby Member No.: 345 Gender: Female |
i usually just put "decline to respond" on questions like that...especially when filling out forms that include my husband. i hate that there are no "mixed" options most of the time. you apparently HAVE to be either white/black/hispanic/etc....you can't be more than one.
on some forms i've filled out though...it states that the person evaluating or whatever can assume your ethnicity from physical observation or from your surname. my surname is hispanic, but i am not. (these forms are for my housing authority).....even when i do mark white, they've still put me down as hispanic. i guess they're trying to prove to someone that they don't discriminate or something. -------------------- I love you in a way that is mystical and eternal and illegal in 20 states.
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Jul 10 2003, 08:37 PM
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I plug directly into my computer ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Established Members Posts: 3,641 Joined: 1-March 03 Member No.: 80 Gender: Female |
I just say American... if they ask me to be more specific, I tell them I'm a mutt... lol Honestly, I'm not really sure what all I am... I know that my mother's side has a lot of French... but I don't know about my real father's side at all... I know a lot about my dad's though...
QUOTE i usually just put "decline to respond" on questions like that...especially when filling out forms that include my husband. i hate that there are no "mixed" options most of the time. you apparently HAVE to be either white/black/hispanic/etc....you can't be more than one My niece is half white and half filipino... my brother-in-law says that he thinks they should just fill out whichever is more convenient at the time... lol |
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Jul 10 2003, 09:32 PM
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![]() Roger Rabbit, having hit the skids, is now busking for a living. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Moderators Posts: 8,645 Joined: 4-March 03 From: In front of the screen Member No.: 95 Gender: Male |
I think it's nonsense... I hear some people go on about how they are "half this an a quarter that" an I say "but where were ya BORN???"
Some people pull that "Oooh, I'm 5/8 Norwegian on me mothers side", an I jus wanna go "But it dun stop ya bein English, does it?????" Sometimes I get the impression that this country ain't good enough fer some people an that they try an invent some coolness to make 'em more interestin or summat. I dun care fer all that, I love this country an I think people who wanna be a fifth German should go frickin live there /end rant An the form - "Ethnic Origin"... it's not important. If yer white an born in England, yer White English, no matter how much Irish or French or Scandi-bloody-navian ya have in ya... -------------------- The author of this post is entirely fictional and is intended for entertainment purposes only. The views of the author are not necessarily representative of the views of Matazone, Mata himself nor any of his assorted cronies, friends, allies, associates or hangers-on. Any resemblance to other posts, alive or dead, is purely coincidental and is not intentional. Except when that's the point of the post, in which case it is intentional and no coincidence is applied, inferred or otherwise described by another long legalese term which temporarily escapes me. No animals have been hurt in the production of this post, although I did kick the cat before I sat down at the computer. |
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Jul 11 2003, 03:10 PM
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put the aerial on your head ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: New Members Posts: 320 Joined: 3-March 03 From: Either Aberdare or Swansea (Wales) Member No.: 89 |
QUOTE (simply @ I'm a spastic,Jul 9 2003, 08:52 PM) Wonder if anyone out there shares my heritage,try and figure it out by the paragraph which follows: Shw'mae ane!Sut'dach chi?Mae hi'n iawn diolch.Rwyn dod o Llaneli,Cwymru. hee hee and YES i've been there many a time,and take lessons at college on my native language.i'm very proud of my heritage,and speak it with pride Shw'mae simply, I didn't know you were from Llanelli, do you still live there?...I live in Aberdare, not far away from you then. Any way, I'm proud of my heritage, I consider myself Welsh as I was born in Wales and I think most of my family is welsh, but I think there may be one or two english ancestors but thats going back a few generations. My family are mostly from the valley where I live and have lived here for generations and I am proud of that. -------------------- ~I'm missing your bed, I never sleep, avoiding the spots where we'd have to speak, and this bottle of beast is taking me home. I'm cuddling close to blankets and sheets, you're not alone and you're not descreet. You make sure I know who's taking you home. I'm reading your note over again, there's not a word that I comprehend, except when you signed it "I will love you always and forever"~
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Jul 11 2003, 03:32 PM
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I don't need no stinkin' title ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: New Members Posts: 977 Joined: 26-February 03 From: midlands, england Member No.: 38 |
i disagree leo.
i was born in england and am white. both my parents were born in england and are white. im not english. my dads not english. i am part english perhaps. if i was english i would say so. i am proud of my roots and am not going to say i am english, conveniently forgetting that the majority of my ancertry is irish, for anyone. -------------------- I'll sleep when i'm alive and live when i'm dead.
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Jul 11 2003, 09:12 PM
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![]() Roger Rabbit, having hit the skids, is now busking for a living. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Moderators Posts: 8,645 Joined: 4-March 03 From: In front of the screen Member No.: 95 Gender: Male |
QUOTE (spuglet @ Jul 11 2003, 04:32 PM) i was born in england and am white. both my parents were born in england and are white. im not english. my dads not english. i am part english perhaps. erm... strictly speakin, if yer born in England to English parents, that pretty much makes ya English, spugs... The way I see it, yer country of origin is where yer born. Now where yer descended from, that's yer heritage (or roots or whatever...) So yer only Irish if yer born in Ireland... Sorry if that upsets ya. But I really can't see how ya can say yer not English... -------------------- The author of this post is entirely fictional and is intended for entertainment purposes only. The views of the author are not necessarily representative of the views of Matazone, Mata himself nor any of his assorted cronies, friends, allies, associates or hangers-on. Any resemblance to other posts, alive or dead, is purely coincidental and is not intentional. Except when that's the point of the post, in which case it is intentional and no coincidence is applied, inferred or otherwise described by another long legalese term which temporarily escapes me. No animals have been hurt in the production of this post, although I did kick the cat before I sat down at the computer. |
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Jul 12 2003, 10:55 PM
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![]() Shut up, noob! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Established Members Posts: 5,760 Joined: 7-June 03 From: The Dina, No Flo Member No.: 367 Gender: Male |
I was born in America. Because of my mixed lineage, I always fill the "other" bubble on forms. My father was born in Jamaica back when it was a British colony. His mother was half Chinese and half English while his father was Scottish. My mother is American.
-------------------- With every breath...and all that I am...I will make a stand...until the end. |
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