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acid_rain_child
Posted on: May 5 2007, 09:59 PM


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QUOTE (Mata @ May 3 2007, 11:48 PM) *
I've got my PhD... I'm working for EA Games in Guildford... Err... The moon isn't made of cheese, instead it's breeze-blocks and a thin layer of that plaster stuff they put on ceilings.


Sorry to spam your thread, but...

Oh, Mata, that's so exciting! The moon isn't made of cheese?! Where have I been? tongue.gif I'm just kidding -- I'm very happy for you, Dr. Mata. I hope you're having fun being all... computery biggrin.gif

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Pixiegoth, sorry I can't welcome you back or anything. I just started snooping around myself.
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Posted on: May 5 2007, 08:46 PM


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Oh, congratulations on quitting! That's amazing, I'm so jealous. Recently, I've realized my love/hate relationship with smoking, and to be honest, I hate it a lot more than I love it ($4.35 a pack AND lung cancer?!). And yet I can't imagine my life without a cigarette between my fingers. I am thoroughly addicted, and what a filthy habit to have! I hope one day to be able to have the willpower of y'all who've quit.
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There are a lot of ways you can go about helping your friend. I had a friend, once upon a time, who was 15 years old, getting plastered all the time on anything he could get his hands on, and selling coke to people twice his age. When he confided in me that he'd started doing coke too, I knew I needed to do something.

I cared about him like a little brother, and one day I skipped school, went to his house (he'd been expelled for possession of a deadly weapon and spent his time selling easy rock out of his home) sat him down and had a serious talk. At first, I was calm, and assured him that I loved him very much, honestly wanting nothing but the best for him. In addition to calming my own nerves on what I had to say next, it made him feel better, even though he didn't know what was going on. From there, I told him he was ruining his life, he was disgracing himself and his poor mother, his brother, and everyone else who cared for him. Not only was he hurting himself, but he was proving everyone who told him he was a failure, fuck up, low life right, that he was falling into the trap everyone always said he would. "You're out of control! You can't handle your own life anymore. The drugs and lifestyle you love so much are eating you, and you're too beautiful to be taken that way." All this was met with what I expected, a big "F*** YOU! Who do you think you are, telling me how to live my life?!" Every time he said this, he started walking away, but I'd grab him, throw him back on the curb and keep him there. I told him I wouldn't be saying this unless I really meant it, unless I cared, and even if he didn't care about himself, how could he possibly be so selfish as to fuck with the lives of the people around him who DID.

We ended up talking for about an hour, maybe longer. He told me (like Sarah, I'm supposing) that not only was he afraid to get out of the business, but his higher dealers would be none too happy to say the least, and he wouldn't have any money and he'd been in this lifestyle of getting wasted for so long and and and.... excuse after excuse. With every excuse I shot him down, until finally he became silent and just nodded. Within 2 days he'd stopped selling coke and wasn't doing it anymore. He actually got a day job to occupy himself, and he'd made a promise to his mother he'd help with their money situation. I was completely shocked. I knew I'd made an impression, but not so much. He never stopped smoking weed or drinking, but he cut out all the heavy stuff.

i suggest you take a similar approach with Sarah. Keep her calm when you begin to talk, and then ease into why you're really there. She will likely get angry (you said she was defensive) and will try to leave, or tell you to leave, or blow it off, but whatever you do, don't let her. You should be in control the whole time, because the person you're talking to definitely isn't. Every time she makes an excuse, give her another option, show her there's another way to make money or occupy herself. Make it exceedingly clear that you and many others care about her and are worried, and don't want to see her destroyed by something so terrible. Just, whatever you do, don't let her leave. Keep talking until she calms down and actually listens to what you have to say. I'm an addict, and I was given the same speech... many many MANY times before, and let me say from experience, when someone tries to talk to you about it, the first thing you start thinking is "Who are they and what do they know about MY life? Nothing. They can't tell me what to do, hell, they don't even know what they're talking about. F*** this and f*** them." It isn't easy, but it's definitley possible. *Phew* I'm typing a lot.

As for her physical addictions, after you talk her into maybe changing her life for the better, I agree. Lock her in a room Trainspotting style and don't let her out until she's good again. This is emotionally difficult, I know, but it's for the best and everyone will come out of the situation for the better.

I hope this helps. In my experience, simply yelling at a person (especially an addict) to change and how much of a screw up they are only makes them feel worse. You need to nurture them back to some kind of mental security before you try anything. Preaching is not the answer, only logic and love will do.
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Posted on: Jun 5 2006, 08:48 PM


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QUOTE (michael1384 @ Feb 14 2006, 10:48 PM) *
i knit.


yes, thats right, i knit, what? why are you staring at me?



I knit too. The therapeutic value of knitting is very underestimated. I can be having the sh**tiest day, but if I go home and sit down, watch something mind-numbing like Mad TV or Cops, and pick up those two needles, all my anger, depression, frustration etc. goes right into a scarf or hat or whatnot, and by the end of the hour of television, I've completely come to terms with whatever was bothering me. That and getting high. The therapeutic value of pot is also heavily underestimated by most. Oh yeah, Sublime and Incubus will also ALWAYS put me in a good mood; you know those CDs you just have an association with cause you listened to them in some good times? 40 oz to Freedom and Make Yourself are my CDs, man.
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Posted on: Jun 5 2006, 08:13 PM


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A few years ago, my mother me gave an old laptop from her work, where she was constantly dumped with old machinery. It's a Magitronic, weighs about 15 pounds (maybe an exaggeration) and I've had nothing but problems with it. I only used it as a typewriter, really, and isn't more useful than that, but in its defense, I have to say it was a little trooper; when it's screen conked out, I put a clip on the side and it was fixed at the despense of most of its color. When it overheated (which only took about 5 minutes) I let it cool off. It didn't work with floppys and I couldn't listen to music because the speakers didn't work, but game disks did. Another big problem was that the battery would only charge to 50% and that 50% lasted maybe 4-5 minutes if I was lucky.

Still, I dutifully wrote every night on that little machine until one day the power cord refused to be jiggled into commission (a huge problem I'd been having). I determined that not only was the little plug that went into the back loose, but the small cord that went into the transformer was still attached, but something wasn't connecting in the little box. If I put an incredible amount of pressure on the little cord and twisted it just so, it worked, but when I went to go get something to keep it in that position, I couldn't get it back the way it was.

One may sneeze at the problem I'm having, and normally I would too, but years of writing was on that computer! I actually cried. With the battery power left, I would be able to save everything to a floppy and transfer it, but that's not an option, and I think going on the internet would take every last ounce of strength the poor thing has in it. It's so old that taking out the harddrive and putting it into a working machine may not be possible, either.

I have a few questions: If I bought another battery would it have enough time on it to email my work to myself, or would buying another power chord be the best option? Is there any other way any of you could see to fix my poor lappy? I've looked on Ebay, and they've got a few super cheap Magitronics... could I transfer the hard drive and how difficult would that be if I were to try that with another, older machine?

I'm shooting for the battery idea, but I don't know the availability of my model and if they come charged. I'm pretty sure Magitronic is out of business, and I swear mine has to be one of the first laptops ever made.
Someone help me sad.gif
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Posted on: May 11 2006, 07:32 PM


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Beyond his total disregard for the environment and our pathetic excuse for an economy, my major beef with Bush is that he's undermining democracy and the fundamentals that this country was based on. Somehow, he's managing to screw us royally, without feeling the consequences, without the approval of his people or even, now, his senate. I talk with people all the time about their opinions on Bush, and they all basically say the same thing, "Yeah, everything sucks and we're digging a crater of a hole for ourselves, but what are you gonna do? He's president."

For some reason, everyone's forgotten or been tricked into thinking that we can't do anything about a sh**ty president. Either that, or people are too scared to raise a hand and say, "Um, excuse me, I don't want to pay for this war, and I want to breathe clean air, and I want other countries to like us, and I want to be taken care of when I'm old, and I want our ports to be-our-own, and I want a leader to take care of his people when they're in need, and I want my brother/father/uncle/sister/cousin to just come home, and I want..." etc. WHY?! We can do something! We are a democracy! Our voices matter, especially now, when we have enough power behind us so that we couldn't possibly be ignored. But, and this scares me to death, people don't think they can, or won't, or don't know how. I mean, not nearly enough people even v-o-t-e for Christ's sake.

Sure Bush blows and the state of things is nothing short of disastrous, but the people of the United States are also to blame, even if they're only ignorant to their own power.
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Posted on: Apr 13 2006, 07:17 PM


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Grits are made from corn, cheese and butter, if I'm not mistaken. I think there's some egg in there somewhere. They're disgusting, but like most gross foods, they look like they should be great.
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Posted on: Apr 13 2006, 07:07 PM


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QUOTE (candice @ Apr 13 2006, 01:42 AM)
QUOTE (acid_rain_child @ Apr 12 2006, 02:45 PM)
A quilt is knitted and a comforter is a big fluffy blanket, usually stuffed with down. A douvet is like a throw, thin with ruffles and whatnot around the edges.
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...that's just crazy. A quilt is quilted, not knitted. It involves backing, a middle (usually fluffy) bit, and a (usually) pieced top. The quilting is what holds the layers together -- like quilted toilet paper. tongue.gif A knitted or crocheted thing is an afghan. A duvet is another word for comforter. The thing you described as being a duvet is clearly a bedspread.


No no no. Quilts are knitted, as are afghans. Well, maybe I'm wrong by society's standpoint, but that's what they're called in my family; my great grandmother made all these things everyone calls quilts, and they're the knitted dealies with holes, made from dozens of squares. Or maybe I've just not been paying enough attention unsure.gif

And what is this "bedspread" of which you speak? Isn't that the thing you put over the mattress but under the sheets?
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Posted on: Apr 12 2006, 09:45 PM


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QUOTE (candice @ Apr 9 2006, 11:04 PM)
QUOTE (Clatterpop @ Apr 9 2006, 02:52 PM)
Quilt - Comforter
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That's a regional thing in the US, I think. Or maybe just a personal preference thing. Some call it a quilt, some a comforter, some a duvet. (On a technical note it's only a quilt if it has intricate stitching binding the layers. If it just has little ties every few inches, it's a comforter)

As for the bumbag/fanny pack thing...syuu is right in her quote from the quotesite. If you wear one, no matter what you call it, you aren't getting laid this year. biggrin.gif
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A quilt is knitted and a comforter is a big fluffy blanket, usually stuffed with down. A douvet is like a throw, thin with ruffles and whatnot around the edges.

What about chemist vs. pharmacist? I could never call my pharmacist a chemist... when I think of a chemist, I see a man with two test tubes filled with colorful liquids inside laughing maniacally. Or chemistry class *puke* A pharmacist puts pills ina bottle at Walgreens biggrin.gif
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Posted on: Apr 11 2006, 03:43 PM


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I would rather have people dissect my body than transplant my organs. It's entirely selfish, and I don't know why, but I wouldn't donate my organs. I feel to attached to them (harhar... christ, I hate puns) and giving them to someone else just kinda freaks me out.

I've donated my hair to cancer patients, my clothes, old toys, books and food to poor people, and I've done a considerable lot for different charities, from Maryland to f'ing Africa. I've planted trees and picked up trash, saved animals, and I care for my environment.

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Just don't take my organs.


EDIT: Oh, and beyond that, I can't consider that many of my organs would be worth taking. My lungs and heart aren't doin' so hot, and lord only knows the condition of the rest.
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Posted on: Apr 3 2006, 08:06 PM


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I've not spent a lot of time thinking about intersexed people, or what I'd do if I had an intersexed child. I have a lot of questions that maybe y'all could answer because I'm blocked from any sites having to do with such things.

How does puberty work? If you made your child a girl, would she grow a beard, or if you chose a boy, how does feminine puberty effect them?

Wouldn't any surgery result in deformed genitalia? Would any of it be functional, and would the person be able to have sex or children after surgery?

If you left your intersexed child alone, what negative effects could that have on surgery in the long run? Do both genitals develop normally and at the same time?

How common is intersexuality?

My major dilemma, if I were to choose the sex, would be "Are the years of ridicule and torment from my child's peers worth saving them the pain of wanting to be the other gender?" Either way, it seems their life would be hell.
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Posted on: Apr 3 2006, 07:17 PM


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I so inexperienced in this kind of thing, because everyone I know, myself included, has always turned to drugs and alcohol to deal with break ups or losing someone important. That is what I'm experienced in, so all I can say is MAKE ABSOLUTELY SURE HE DOESN'T GET INTO THAT KINDA SH*T TO DEAL WITH HIS PAIN. It will ruin everything and make his depression twice as bad.

Beyond that, there's nothing you can do but be supportive. And keep a very very very close eye on him, without being intrusive because that might piss him off. Best of luck unsure.gif
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Posted on: Mar 27 2006, 08:16 PM


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I'm not quite used to Oblivion, compared to Morrowind, but it's not stopping me. I've waited too long.
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Posted on: Mar 21 2006, 08:25 PM


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I'm wearing my favorite green sweater in all the world; it's so fuzzy and warm and looks like it should be on a librarian. Then my red velvet skirt, and my boots. I get compliments on this outfit all the time, especially whn I wear the red scarf I knitted. And you know how much it cost? $20 bucks for the skirt AND sweater at Walmart. Yey-ah. I feel like I beat the system every time I wear this outfit.
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Posted on: Mar 17 2006, 08:15 PM


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I have a step mother, a step father and two step grandmothers.

I truly dislike my stepfather, so I refuse to call him "Dad" or any variation thereof, so I call him Eddie. They've never pressed the issue.

I call my stepmother Ms. Sandy because my father told me to when we first met about 12 years ago, because he called his stepmother Ms. Rita, and I guess he found it proper.

My step grandmothers are stange, I guess. The one, I just call Susan, but her husband, my real grandfather, I call Dadin, and his first wife, my real grandmother, I call Mams. So I don't have conventional names for my grandparents anyway. The other one I call Meemaw, but that's because it goes with Papaw so nicely.

It's really up to you to decide what you want to call your stepmother, but if you like her and she has a preference, maybe it'd be better to do as she wants.
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Posted on: Dec 8 2005, 09:13 PM


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I am so very sorry for you, LGG. sad.gif *Hugs*

My cat Vigo died a few years ago, and when I think about it too much, I still cry. He died in front of me because I was too lazy to open my door to let him out. One second he's scratching the door and the next he's on his side. With 3 HUGE breaths (his entire stomach blew up) he stopped breathing. I don't know what killed him, but I think it had something to do with our other cat. We'd found her earlier that year trick or treating, a small kitten infested with everything you can imagine. After nursing her to health, she started fighting for attention, and the stress must've been too hard for him. Vigo was a very regal, noble and loyal cat, and none could replace him.

Not too long after he died, Spooky, the cat we found, brought home another kitten, and we adopted him as well to keep her company. We've still got both and we're very careful about their health.

I also watched my stepmother's cat, who I loved very dearly, be put down. I had to go into the waiting room while they cremated her because I couldn't take it -- I felt bad because all the dogs came up to me to see what was wrong and people were giving me funny looks >_> It's horrible when such good friends die.

Make sure, though, when you get another cat to get it from the pound so you can save a life at the same time. No other cat will be as loyal to you as one you save.
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ARC Goes to the Maryland RenFest?!?! You didnt see me?? =( Do you ever hang out around the blowguns stand? Where'd you get your bodice and dress from? We should meet up next year! *extatic*


Uhm , I went for Pirate Invasion (pirates are sexy) and the weekend before that, so we might've just not gone at the same time. I got my clothes from the Purple Unicorn I think? I dunno. It's just a simple dress that cost a load of money, and the bodice was $100 but toally worth it because, well, duh, I'm beautiful!

I usually hang out at that bar with the white deer or horse or whatever it is, the big one where when people get drunk enough they start singing pub songs. I like people watching, so I usually just meander around.

Definitley, we're so hooking up next year biggrin.gif
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Gadzooks, Kitty! You go to the Maryland Ren Fest? I go to the Maryland Ren Fest! Woah... it's such a very small world... blink.gif Good job representin'.

Sorry, I haven't been on for a while, but I was following the creation of your wings before I took my hiatus, and the thread has grown, my dear. I can't see the final product because of my (ludicrous) parental controls >_> but I'll see them at the library. I'm sure you look gorgeous happy.gif I bought $200+ worth of bodice and dress cause I was far too lazy to make my own, so I'm very proud of you.

Go on with your talking, people...
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Posted on: Oct 31 2005, 09:00 PM


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I agree that marriage is a natural thing; it's found in most cultures. I feel the need to get married, though I've been through two failures and have seen many more falling apart.

It's also religious for a lot of people. They get married so they can have sex and you know, a family. I feel, for my self, that there's finality in marriage. I don't think couples necessarily have to be "intimate" with one person their entire lives just because they're married. I hope to find someone who agrees with me so we can have an open sexual relationship, you know, a safe one of course. But I'd feel secure in knowing that my partner and I always come home to the same person every night, and that any other relationships are purely physical but ours is something much deeper. I know a lot of people disagree with that entire philosophy, but whatever. Who knows, I may change my mind in the future, but that's how I deal with my less serious relationships right now.

The security is what seals the deal. Sure, when you're not married, you should still be faithful to your lover, but being married is like saying, "I am ready to go through thick and thin with you, no matter what. I want to stay with you forever." There's no question after marriage. My idea for marriage is that I will stay with that person until the day I die (excluding if, say my man were beating me or abusing our children etc.) no matter what hardships come our way; we'll make it work or spend our lives trying. I think there's something safe and romantic in all of that.

EDIT: My goodness, I missed my second Mataday...
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Posted on: Sep 12 2005, 11:00 PM


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I know a surprising amount of Brazillian adults who love not having clothes on. I'm convinced it's a cultural thing. I babysit for one such woman, and she was getting changed upstairs and the baby ran into her room but I stayed behind because I didn't want to embarrass her, but she told me to come on in, with nothing more than skin. It doesn't bother me to see other people naked, big or small. While the Brazillian lady had a perfect body, I also have step great aunt (don't ask) who's as big as_a_house and walks around as comfortable as can be in her body. I envy her a lot, because I'm not at that point in my life yet. I think if you're comfortable with yourself, more power to you. I think some people would like it if only the "beautiful" people lost their clothes, but I don't agree.

The extent of my nudity is maybe, going topless in front of my friends. We change clothes an awful lot when we're with each other, and so I could be over my friend's house, borrow a bra and put it on in front of god and everyone. It doesn't bother me. One of my friends likes to give fashion shows and takes her underclothing off in front of me all the time. I'm used to it and don't even notice, but some people may think that's weird. While I'm comfortable with my top, I couldn't show my bottom, I don't know why. Probably something beaten into me with a stick at a young age. In front of my mother, I can see her get naked, but can't change in front of her. It's odd. I feel more comfortable in front of my friends than my family.

But I love nudity. I think it's comfortable. I stay naked after I get out of the shower and usually have a nap. Sleeping in the nude is much more comfortable and it's proven that it's healthy for girls to... "air out their bits" at night time and not wear panties. When I'm alone in my room, I'll usually be naked, and if no one's around, I won't run to put on pants or anything.
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I don't know, I really dig the corset without a shirt. What would fairies need with shirts anyway?

The poofy sleeves would be the way to go, though. But if you could hook the wings just directly to the corset, I think it would look really nice.
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i bet most men are smart enough not to degrade them selvs to get piad money.
if you potray women like that, they look like whores to me.


I'm kinda confused about yout argument, OTA, and I'm definitely confused by in you general, TV with legs. Are you afraid that if advertizing like this continues that women will only be thought of as pretty things, or that their worth will be measured by their beauty and not their intelligence or personality? Do you find it degrading because these women are prancing about in tight clothes for the amusment of others?

When models are put in ads, they're chosen for their beauty and sexuality. Simple as that. Besides catching someone's attention, the role of an ad is to make whoever it's directed to say "If I buy [insert product here] then I'll look like/will have friends that look like/will be cool like that model in this ad." Of course they're going to use good looking, barely dressed people!

And to add on to what some others have said about why men can be half naked in an ad while women can't... how do you defend that? A man can be tan, muscular and oiled up, wearing a Speedo that goes up his crack, but that's less degrading than a woman in a bikini?

And thank you Commie; I now know what "dichotomy" and "addendum" mean.
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Posted on: Aug 12 2005, 09:56 PM


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QUOTE (Snugglebum the Destroyer @ Aug 12 2005, 08:34 PM)
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After everything women have worked for, what is the point of turning around and making themselves more ignorant then ever before?


Yet these woman chose to do this. In fact, in my opinion, these woman are exerting the power they actually DO have. With all due respect, men are pretty base beings - visual aids work better then anything else if you want to encourage them to do something.

So a woman is gorgeous and sexual. Why should she not use this to her own means? That's what's she's doing. So she happens to be selling something? Bet she got paid more in one shoot then most men get paid a month.
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Rock on, sister.

These women are choosing to do what they do. Maybe it's for the money or adoration or attention... who cares? The fact is, they're selling product. When I see those ads you linked, I didn't say, "Oh, I need to look like that... it's the ONLY way people will find me attractive and will want to be around me. If only I were long-legged, blond and 34 pounds *sigh*" No, I laughed. I laughed because it's true... men like sexy, scantily clad women, and they want to see them. If anyone's being exploited it's the men; these sexy women are exploiting mens' one-track minds, and making big money from doing it. In reality, like Snuggle said, it's more empowering that women are using mans' weakness for sex to make googobs of dough than it is exploitation.

I forget who said it, but yeah, we need to stop being so uptight about nudity too. The human body is beautiful man, embrace it.
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Posted on: Aug 10 2005, 09:10 PM


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... blink.gif Okay, I've been here almost two years and I never knew Mata's real name was Matazone.

... Matazone? Really? When/How could I have missed this? That's really convinient seeing as how you have a site, and Matazone would imply to someone like me that it was because this was Mata's Zone. I'm so verily confuzzled.

I joined Matazone because at the time I was a girlscout having some trouble selling my cookies, and I thought a broader variety of customers was in order. Little did I know I'd ever come back.
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