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spiffilicious05
post Feb 17 2005, 08:04 PM
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Okay so for the majority of last year I had this guy who started out as just someone who sat at the same lunch table as me. But as the year went on he started to flirt with me and I thought he was nice until he started continuously iming me, and calling me, and following me around school (as well as outside of school functions). He also never ceased to stop asking me what colour my underwear were... blink.gif

So after tactfully avoiding him and telling him I'm not interested for a while I finally thought I was rid of him. I hadn't seen much of him until this new semester where I have a class with him. He's always asking me out, or for ways to get a hold of me and I'm starting to loose it.

I don't want to be mean but I just can't seem to get through to him that I'm not interested.

And yes, I've said straight out "I'm not interested" as well as "I have a boyfriend."

How do you guys get through to the common village idiots in your towns? Besides beating them over the head with a frying pan that is.
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post Feb 17 2005, 08:11 PM
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Talk softly and carry a bit stick.

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Seriously, I don't really know. Maybe showing him a picture of you and Ri together might do the trick. Maybe keeping a can of mace on your keychain and jingling it obviously when he talks to you might work. And, of course, you could always beat him to the punch next time you see him and ask him if he and his girlfriend want to go on a double date with you and your boyfriend. That might throw him for a loop and possibly make him realize how pathetic he's being. Of course, then you run the risk of him agreeing.

I'd deffinitely keep mace with you, though. He may seem harmless, but lots of harmless guys go bad when they finally figure out that they don't have a shot in hell.


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post Feb 17 2005, 08:14 PM
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Maybe keeping a can of mace on your keychain and jingling it obviously when he talks to you might work.


lol nice laugh.gif

Pleasantly noted -- but I don't think I would ever need to use it.


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post Feb 17 2005, 08:51 PM
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You could try telling him you're a lesbian, though that might egg him on with the way guys are today. You could also carry around a really big bible with you and tell him you're going into a nunnery.

Just a thought. tongue.gif


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post Feb 17 2005, 11:04 PM
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abuse works quite well, tell him to f'off and leave you alone, but do it with your friends around you in case he goes off on one.


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post Feb 18 2005, 04:30 AM
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lol I like the nunnery.

Reminds me of Hamlet

"woman get thee to a nunnery!"
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post Feb 18 2005, 08:47 AM
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You could try telling him you're a lesbian, though that might egg him on with the way guys are today. You could also carry around a really big bible with you and tell him you're going into a nunnery.

Just a thought. 


Telling them you're a lesbian doesn't work. I've tried it. wink.gif I'd suggest the book trick though. A text book is even better, because if he doesn't get the hint.. a clean smack to the head should drive it home.


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post Feb 18 2005, 01:56 PM
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Option A: the frying pan method seems like a good idea.

Option B: On a more practical note, I think it's time to be very blunt and tell him loudly to 'F off and stop stalking me you psycho', preferably within earshot of lots of people. If that doesn't get the message across then you need option A.


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post Feb 18 2005, 02:41 PM
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You could ask him if he a stalker in training. tongue.gif
But I think it's definatly got to the point that you've got no choise bu to be rude.


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post Feb 18 2005, 08:30 PM
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I could always make 'the face...'


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post Feb 19 2005, 02:01 AM
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Perhaps you could ask an intiminating black guy to take a picture with you so you can scare the stalker dude away.
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post Feb 19 2005, 02:03 AM
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Or you could slowly look him up and down slowly...then laugh. "Sorry but...*laugh more*"


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post Feb 23 2005, 02:50 PM
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or stop wearing low cut tops? I only said to wear one for your college interview! tongue.gif


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post Feb 28 2005, 01:21 AM
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lol sps.

I just wore one that time to the college interview, I sware! laugh.gif wink.gif

lol Thanks guys for all your suggestions, I really don't want to be mean but I guess it's the only way to get through. Sorry, I would've replied earlier but I was at a training camp in Orlando all week. And no, I didn't really get to see Righteous at all. *pouts*

Although I did practice being not so much mean as strict while I was there. Some girls just kept ignoring me or talking about me and when I started to get more attention from girls from other teams I had about had it. I finally told a few or my team mates off and they've been nice to me since....

maybe I scared them? >_< unsure.gif


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