What A Guy Likes To See In A Girl Options

[I_am_the_best]

I have started this thread for two reasons:
a) I felt that we needed a corresponding thread to the 'would like to know what a girl likes to see in a girl' thread.
b ) I have a huge crush on my boy mate and don't know what to do because I'm scared to ruin the friendship. I also don't know if he likes me in that way, sometimes I see him just staring at me then he looks away when I look his way. But it's not as if I'm pretty. He's just a really kind, friendly person, and very huggable.

So yeah, what does a guy see in a girl and how can I try and move the friendship further?

[PsychWardMike]

Alright, I can tell you what I dig in a chick.

1) Good musical tastes. Music says a lot about girls - if they're really into Jessica Simpson or those kind of people, I tend to find their substance overall lacking. However, if a girl were to listen to... jazz or Mozart, that shows a lot of class and depth in personality. That doesn't mean that one can't enjoy pop or rap - having a good time is equally important - but as much as I hate to admit it, style and substance need to work hand in hand.

2) Mind. Simple - if I can't have a conversation with you, I won't bother with a relationship. Period.

3) Spirit - this isn't a must, but a similar belief system tends to make a relationship easier.

4) Body. I won't lie to you; guys notice if a girl has a particularly nice set of tits. It's a fact of life. Sure, we're pigs and all that jazz, but it's true. It's not extremely high on the list, but it's true.

5) Similar interests. Yeah, this kind of goes along with point 1, but whatcha gonna do? A little contrast is nice (and necessary!) to a healthy relationship, but ther ehas to be some common ground as well.

6) Someone who's a good lover. Here we go - the down and dirty nitty gritty sex. If you put on an air of sexual confidence, guys'll eat out of your hand. If you're good in the sack, that's a definite plus.

Anyway, those are just a few randome things bopping around my brain. As for hooking up with that mate of yours, I'd say talk to him about it. Ask him out to something kind of casual. Don't worry too much about breaking the friendship, but be careful. Have a good time!