 What A Guy Likes To See In A Girl |
 Apr 1 2005, 08:25 PM
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 Dirty Laundry  Group: Established Members Posts: 3,191 Joined: 7-January 05 From: By London Member No.: 1,573 Gender: Female  |
I have started this thread for two reasons:
a) I felt that we needed a corresponding thread to the 'would like to know what a girl likes to see in a girl' thread. b ) I have a huge crush on my boy mate and don't know what to do because I'm scared to ruin the friendship. I also don't know if he likes me in that way, sometimes I see him just staring at me then he looks away when I look his way. But it's not as if I'm pretty. He's just a really kind, friendly person, and very huggable. So yeah, what does a guy see in a girl and how can I try and move the friendship further? -------------------- Emma <3 James <3
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May 11 2005, 05:31 PM
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 'Trouble Down Pit' now online! Group: Admin Posts: 10,141 Joined: 22-February 03 From: Southern UK Member No.: 1 Gender: Male |
I think the point Jon was making was that men are quite crude in their desires, so used crude words to illustrate it. Rude-nearly-offensive words are generally accpeted on the forums as long as they are being used in the correct context, in this case the context was to emphasise the frequently shallow desires of men. He could have said something else, but that wouldn't have conveyed the point as efficiently.
Equally, change the anatomical structures and the gender and I think Jon's post might be quite accurate for women too. Like many people here, I look for a person that I can talk with. I also look for sobriety for the start of relationships: to clarify, I will kiss people for the first time while one or both of us are drunk, but I will not have sex with a person for the first time while drunk. I'm not sure why this is, but I think it's largely to do with ensuring complete consensuality. If a person is sober then there's no way that they could claim that their actions were influenced by anything else. It's sad that I've got this hang-up, but it's also pretty sensible too I think. -------------------- Trouble Down Pit: Still updated every Monday and Friday
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May 11 2005, 08:54 PM
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 dream to make believe Group: Established Members Posts: 2,522 Joined: 12-January 04 From: England Member No.: 863 Gender: Female |
QUOTE (Mata @ May 11 2005, 05:31 PM) If a person is sober then there's no way that they could claim that their actions were influenced by anything else. It's sad that I've got this hang-up, but it's also pretty sensible too I think.  I don't think that in itself it is sad that you have the hang up, I think what is sad is that in our society it is a really sensible hang up to have. Some people will do anything for a bit of publicity and a wadge of cash... it's sick. -------------------- |
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I_am_the_best What A Guy Likes To See In A Girl Apr 1 2005, 08:25 PM
Righteous I still know jack about relationships, but I'l... Apr 1 2005, 09:13 PM
lebigcheeseneit! QUOTE (Righteous @ Apr 1 2005, 05:13 PM)Why d... Jul 4 2005, 09:27 PM PsychWardMike Alright, I can tell you what I dig in a chick.
1)... Apr 1 2005, 09:35 PM funked)out_frog I would have to say, from my experiance that phera... Apr 1 2005, 10:31 PM little_bear Pour moi, it would follow thus:
> Personality ... Apr 1 2005, 11:00 PM saucy_tara Think about what you want/like in a guy, then you... Apr 1 2005, 11:06 PM Snugglebum the Destroyer With all due respect, to every man that ever was..... Apr 1 2005, 11:31 PM MrTeapot QUOTE (Snugglebum the Destroyer @ Apr 1 2005,... Apr 1 2005, 11:42 PM Erin guys tend to be more shallow than chicks...they li... Apr 2 2005, 03:01 PM Righteous I don't know about thin. I'm always afraid... Apr 2 2005, 08:02 PM I_am_the_best I haven't really had a chance to talk to him y... Apr 2 2005, 09:38 PM little_bear QUOTE (I_am_the_best @ Apr 2 2005, 10:38 PM)(... Apr 2 2005, 10:05 PM CheeseMoose Bit late but i thought I'd drop in my tuppence... Apr 2 2005, 09:53 PM Forever Unknown QUOTE I'm always afraid of losing my balance d... Apr 2 2005, 10:00 PM Righteous QUOTE (Forever Unknown @ Apr 2 2005, 05:00 PM... Apr 2 2005, 11:25 PM saucy_tara Go for it!!! There is no reason on thi... Apr 2 2005, 10:02 PM trunks_girl26 QUOTE (I_am_the_best @ Apr 2 2005, 09:38 PM)I... Apr 2 2005, 10:27 PM MrTeapot On that note treat a man like a bee or a wasp. The... Apr 2 2005, 11:12 PM funked)out_frog QUOTE (CheeseMoose @ Apr 2 2005, 09:53 PM)1) ... Apr 3 2005, 03:30 AM Righteous I wouldn't mind a chick who 100% gets how I... Apr 3 2005, 05:51 AM Tarantio Problem with most guys is that they're all ego... Apr 3 2005, 10:22 AM CheeseMoose QUOTE (Righteous @ Apr 3 2005, 06:51 AM)And t... Apr 3 2005, 01:41 PM Righteous I wouldn't mind a chick who doesn't listen... Apr 3 2005, 04:08 PM Polocrunch I have to say, I am feeling very discriminated aga... Apr 3 2005, 04:37 PM CheeseMoose QUOTE (Polocrunch @ Apr 3 2005, 05:37 PM)I ha... Apr 3 2005, 04:41 PM Polocrunch QUOTE (CheeseMoose @ Apr 3 2005, 04:41 PM)No-... Apr 3 2005, 09:46 PM Righteous WHy is that, crunchy one? Apr 3 2005, 04:40 PM neo111 No more silence
BREAKING NEWS FROM THE MENS MOVEM... Aug 9 2005, 03:07 AM Jonman One of two things:
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( A ): Someone who wil... Apr 3 2005, 05:05 PM LoLo QUOTE (Jonman @ Apr 3 2005, 09:05 AM)We'r... Apr 5 2005, 03:19 AM believe *Offers Polo a chocolate biscuit to soothe the pai... Apr 3 2005, 09:53 PM MrTeapot QUOTE (believe @ Apr 3 2005, 09:53 PM)*Offers... Apr 3 2005, 11:23 PM believe A gorgeous man bearing chocolate biscuits? Apr 4 2005, 02:38 AM Polocrunch O Believe! Marry me! Apr 4 2005, 12:24 PM Calantyr Great personality. Seriously. Someone you can talk... Apr 4 2005, 06:17 PM sjbbandgeek The only advice I can offer is that you should nev... Apr 5 2005, 03:19 AM believe QUOTE O Believe! Marry me!
Sure. Do I ge... Apr 5 2005, 08:38 AM Polocrunch QUOTE (believe @ Apr 5 2005, 08:38 AM)QUOTE O... Apr 7 2005, 09:11 AM PsychWardMike Pfft. Believe, I'd shell out the fifty cents ... Apr 7 2005, 12:58 AM believe PsychWardMike: Aw. You say the spiffiest things. *... Apr 7 2005, 12:47 PM uuu two cents
you should do it, unsure, not knowing e... Apr 11 2005, 04:19 PM arachnidoc17 And, of course, if you're going to talk about ... Apr 11 2005, 11:10 PM over_the_aybss QUOTE (Jonman @ Apr 3 2005, 09:05 AM)We'r... May 10 2005, 08:15 PM PsychWardMike Deal. With. It.
It's Jonman, he's a mod, ... May 11 2005, 01:44 AM pgrmdave I look for a willingness to learn, a desire to exp... May 11 2005, 02:52 AM over_the_aybss he's a mod, i didnt even notice
ok, maybe i a... May 11 2005, 04:56 PM Mata QUOTE (snoo @ May 11 2005, 08:54 PM)I don... May 12 2005, 11:19 AM surewhynot QUOTE (Mata @ May 12 2005, 05:19 AM)QUOTE (sn... May 12 2005, 09:53 PM Jonman QUOTE (Mata @ May 11 2005, 06:31 PM)I think t... May 12 2005, 11:45 AM surewhynot i dont care about physicle apperence.....as long a... May 12 2005, 03:45 AM Paranoid Blunt, yes; honest, definitely.
I don't mean ... May 12 2005, 12:10 PM snoo QUOTE (Jonman @ May 12 2005, 11:45 AM)I mean,... May 12 2005, 02:52 PM Jonman QUOTE (snoo @ May 12 2005, 03:52 PM)QUOTE (Jo... May 12 2005, 02:58 PM Paranoid Genius. Pure genius. May 12 2005, 09:27 PM Mata No problem.
I think that we're generally agr... May 12 2005, 10:03 PM little twit I look for personality most.Because you dont want ... Jun 7 2005, 06:38 PM Mata Well, then it was a learning experience. Yes, it... Jul 4 2005, 10:18 PM Faerieryn What I look for in a guy? Hmm. Up until recently I... Jul 5 2005, 01:23 PM Jonman QUOTE (Faerieryn @ Jul 5 2005, 02:23 PM)I sto... Jul 5 2005, 01:47 PM Pab Me too. Funny. Hilarious. In fact, I'm beginni... Jul 5 2005, 02:10 PM Feyliya QUOTE (Righteous @ Apr 1 2005, 01:13 PM)Why d... Jul 6 2005, 12:25 AM PsychWardMike I've come up with a new test for my significan... Jul 6 2005, 06:17 AM Faerieryn QUOTE (PsychWardMike @ Jul 6 2005, 06:17 AM)I... Jul 6 2005, 03:02 PM elphaba2 Oooh, I want Mike Points!
the image is Genera... Jul 6 2005, 05:38 PM PsychWardMike Of course I do! If anyone asks, I'll be h... Jul 6 2005, 10:58 PM trunks_girl26 Actually, I understood his AV completely....... Jul 7 2005, 03:35 AM Faerieryn QUOTE (PsychWardMike @ Jul 6 2005, 10:58 PM)O... Jul 7 2005, 07:02 AM PsychWardMike Well, the doggy character in my picture's name... Jul 7 2005, 04:14 PM elphaba2 Note the small, small type underneath my post. I w... Jul 7 2005, 11:52 PM PsychWardMike Points for elphaba! Redeemable at all sorts o... Jul 10 2005, 02:36 AM oscarhilton QUOTE (I_am_the_best @ Apr 1 2005, 08:25 PM)I... Aug 9 2005, 08:40 AM I_am_the_best No, Oscar. Unfortunately not. I will never even be... Aug 11 2005, 09:38 PM Astarael I'm not going go to get too far into neo111... Aug 20 2005, 01:49 AM silvermoon Don't worry about Neo111, it looks like he was... Aug 20 2005, 04:15 AM Astarael Quirks make us unique, after all. I just don... Aug 30 2005, 01:48 AM |
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