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post May 21 2005, 05:45 PM
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Here is the news story from the Beeb, down the left hand side are their older aarticles about it.

What do you think? Were they paid? Should they have continued thier relationship after she was convicted? Are you happy for them? Are you angry that they have been able to marry, have their children and now set up home? Have you ever had a relationship with a tutor/ teacher/ lecture? Did you, as a teen date a person old enought to be your parent, or vise versa? What do you think? Tell us wink.gif


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post May 23 2005, 11:24 AM
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Well, they're both consenting adults, so why the hell not? Sure, it's all a bit twisted and weird, but that's people for you. Ain't nowt queerer than folk.

As to getting paid, would you invite paparazzi to your wedding without a good reason (like a wad of crisp 50 dollar bills)? No, me neither.


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post May 23 2005, 01:43 PM
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QUOTE (Jonman @ May 23 2005, 07:24 AM)
Well, they're both consenting adults, so why the hell not? Sure, it's all a bit twisted and weird, but that's people for you. Ain't nowt queerer than folk.

As to getting paid, would you invite paparazzi to your wedding without a good reason (like a wad of crisp 50 dollar bills)? No, me neither.
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Yeah I am with you on this one. It may be twisted but they are of legal age and can do whatever they want. I don't condone what she/he did, but if they are still together today after going through all that then maybe it was "love". Who knows..

Actually in the past it was very common for this type of thing to happen. Back in the 1930-50's it was not unusual for an older man to marry a 12-13 year old girl. If a girl was unmarried by the time she was 18 she was considered a spinster. My own parents for example; my mom was 25 when she married my dad who was 50 at the time. He used to babysit her and she always had a crush on him. While it is a little creepy they have been together almost 30 years now.


BTW here is a much better artical about this.
http://www.crimelibrary.com/criminal_mind/.../1.html?sect=19


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- funked)out_frog   Us Teacher Marries Boy She Raped   May 21 2005, 05:45 PM
- - Aislinn Faye   What, what, what?! She married him? Omg...I ...   May 21 2005, 08:00 PM
- - Snugglebum the Destroyer   Really hard to say from the story. The eternal ro...   May 21 2005, 10:29 PM
- - Jonman   Well, they're both consenting adults, so why t...   May 23 2005, 11:24 AM
|- - ravein   QUOTE (Jonman @ May 23 2005, 07:24 AM)Well, t...   May 23 2005, 01:43 PM
- - Museum Girl   I think it's odd and on her part at the time i...   May 23 2005, 03:30 PM
- - believe   The initial abuse is disgusting and was rightly pu...   May 23 2005, 04:00 PM
- - ravein   I think one of the things here that bothers me, th...   May 23 2005, 04:51 PM
- - believe   He was 12. Maybe a 'mature' 12, but 12. We...   May 23 2005, 05:23 PM
- - sarcastic150   You've gotta think when the children ask how t...   May 23 2005, 06:09 PM
|- - Hobbes   A teacher in my old sixth form college was fired, ...   May 24 2005, 08:56 PM
- - beccareb   I think in some way it proves she wasn't just ...   May 26 2005, 12:54 AM
|- - Calantyr   QUOTE (beccareb @ May 26 2005, 01:54 AM)I thi...   May 26 2005, 01:58 AM
- - believe   The lifespan in medieval cultures were much, much ...   May 26 2005, 04:20 AM
|- - Calantyr   QUOTE (believe @ May 26 2005, 05:20 AM)The li...   May 26 2005, 05:50 PM
- - believe   QUOTE I know that, and that raises a point I think...   May 27 2005, 09:38 AM
|- - Hobbes   This thread has moved a little further into the re...   May 28 2005, 11:47 PM
- - believe   Hobbes, do you mean with each other or with adults...   May 28 2005, 11:50 PM
- - artist.unknown   My younger brother is the same age as this boy was...   May 30 2005, 11:29 PM
- - Ashbless   Just raising a point that I believe she was marrie...   May 31 2005, 08:40 PM
- - Museum Girl   QUOTE (Calantyr @ May 26 2005, 02:58 AM)Even ...   May 31 2005, 09:56 PM
- - CommieBastard   QUOTE (Museum Girl @ May 31 2005, 10:56 PM)Th...   May 31 2005, 10:20 PM
- - Museum Girl   QUOTE (CommieBastard @ May 31 2005, 11:20 PM)...   May 31 2005, 11:53 PM


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