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NummyNums
post May 19 2003, 03:46 PM
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hey guys-
this weekend i saw my boyfriend friday night he brought me home we said our very long goodnight and he left.. he didnt call me all day saturday ... so saturday i found out where he was and went up to see him.... his freinds got mad that i showed up at the cabin.. that i wasnt invited and i shoulndt be there bla blah blah... so i see him for like 5 minutes hes all kissy and stuff then we leave.. he doesnt call all day sunday..... sunday night i finally get a hold of him... he brekas up with me.. says our personalitys clash...... i find out after i get of the phone with him that he cheated on me all weekend multiple times.... i feel like my heart got rippe dout of my chest and stepped on.. i cant stop cryiong.. why does it hurt this much.... i feel so betrayed.. so now everyone is all mad at me that i wnet up to the cabin...... so basicly im just stuck in a rut..... sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif its not supposed to hurt this bad sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif


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post May 19 2003, 03:51 PM
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I'm really sorry for you...guys suck sometimes.

It sounds harsh, but you should try to forget about him...find someone new who appreciates you.

Hope you feel better


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post May 19 2003, 03:58 PM
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I feel for you, Nummy. People are really cruel sometimes. >hug<
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NummyNums
post May 19 2003, 04:01 PM
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thnxs i still cant help feeling soo used... i mean i dont have a mean bone in my body i always see teh good in everyone and the use me...... i dont know why?.... sad.gif sad.gif


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No one will ever love cheese as much as i do.. always and forever...
Commies my husband.... whuts it to yah huh? hehehe *hugglez commie*
my boobs are named Aidan and Nadia.. wes owns them now, he also owns me we are engaged and i love him and sex him with all my heart and umm.... soul.. hehehe

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post May 19 2003, 04:01 PM
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i know all about that, sister...

boys are jerks. they come and go. i still cry sometimes over getting dumped over a month ago, i cant help it that i miss him... but trust me, we're all young and much better boys will come our ways... It's alright that you feel sad, and bad, and mad, just realize that you can't live in that sadness/badness/madness forever, or you will just be a sad/bad/mad MESS. But again, its ok to feel like you do. Emotions are part of what makes us real. If you can't feel sadness like this, then you will never feel joy, happiness, excitment, and the essential, "love".

Life is like a swing; sometimes it goes forwards, sometimes it goes backwards. But its not fun if you get down off of it.

So hang on, remember its ok to cry, and remember its even better to smile. Realize that appartantly he didnt care for you like you thought he did, if he cheated on you. You should never stay with someone who doesn't treat you 100% like a princess. Because in your own right, you are. We all are...

So get all your girls together, order some pizza, watch some movies, and eat lots of ice cream. Talk about how boys are stupid and just surround your self with the happiness that friends bring.

Girls rule and boys drool!!!

Keep that in mind, and stay happy... Anytime you can just force yourself to smile. It will chancge your mood in no time...

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post May 19 2003, 04:03 PM
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thnxs... *sigh* i dunno it still hurts........ because the thing was he treated me like a godess while we were togeather....


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No one will ever love cheese as much as i do.. always and forever...
Commies my husband.... whuts it to yah huh? hehehe *hugglez commie*
my boobs are named Aidan and Nadia.. wes owns them now, he also owns me we are engaged and i love him and sex him with all my heart and umm.... soul.. hehehe

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post May 19 2003, 04:05 PM
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QUOTE (SuperKathoid @ May 19 2003, 11:01 AM)
Life is like a swing; sometimes it goes forwards, sometimes it goes backwards. But its not fun if you get down off of it.

That's deep... I like it...
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post May 19 2003, 04:11 PM
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Its pretty pants, but sooner or later that sort of thing will happen to everybody. It can be somewhat cheering to think that it will happen to *them* soon enough too.

I always find it helps to imagine horrible revenge.

P.S Try not to carry out the horrible revenge - in many ways if you do they 'win'


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post May 19 2003, 05:16 PM
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I think what happened to ya is really horrible, nummy...

I'm guessin that the people at the cabin all knew what he was up to? If they did, then if I were you I'd just leave 'em to it, why mix wi people who are perfectly happy to see ya get hurt?

There's not a lot I can say ta make ya feel any better, hon... I wish there was... but I can give ya a virtual hug. I can do those!

/me gives nummynums a great big hug


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post May 19 2003, 05:20 PM
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Sorry nummy, just be glad that he's out of your life. If he is going to treat you like that then a relationship with him is pointless. Also feel glad you know now, instead of finding out a lot later that that went on and he just kept lying to you about it.

Vent your frustrations in thinking of ways to castrate him, or just suck it up and say thats life and move on. I like the first idea better, thats what helped me when my relationship ended with my exbf for the same reasons yours did.


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post May 20 2003, 12:32 AM
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damn nummy, im really sorry that something like this happened to someone as great as you... you deserve much better then him... much MUCH better... stay strong, the right person will come to you, and you will forget all about that guy, my thoughts and prayers are with you


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post May 20 2003, 01:19 AM
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im very sorry nummy, breakups can be really hurtful even a few weeks afterwards. i also am sorry that guys in general are so aweful, id say start out not trusting them a bit and test them to see if they really do love you. its so sickening to see guys treat girls like the way he treated you. i cant tell you anything but that time will heal and a new guy will come your way and maybe the next time you will be treated like a goddess and he wont be an ass to you, but your young, you'll find someone you really love and that really loves you


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post May 20 2003, 11:37 AM
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QUOTE (SuperKathoid @ May 19 2003, 05:01 PM)
So get all your girls together, order some pizza, watch some movies, and eat lots of ice cream. Talk about how boys are stupid and just surround your self with the happiness that friends bring.

i agree with this 100%. real friends are so much better that nasty boyfriends/girlfriends. so badmouth this sad excuse for a human being with your friends, burn all those things he gave you (unless some are nice, athough i doubt it). if he did'nt realize what he had he did'nt deserve it, so take comfort in the fact that if this is how he treats people he will eventually die a sad and lonely death.
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post May 20 2003, 11:44 AM
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From my experience, all I can say is - try not to get bitter. There's probably a lot of negative thoughts going through your head at the mo. But the guy cheated on you, he doesn't deserve you.

There's probably a part of you that wants to punish yourself - don't give in, don't let this guy CHANGE you for the worse.

Take comfort in your freinds, and a few weeks from now you'll probably wonder why you were ever so upset about such a fool!
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post May 20 2003, 01:04 PM
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oooooooo that's made me angry at him....i don't even know who he is!!

i think, if he did that to you, he isn't worth the pain....and you're far too good to be treated like that! men that do stuff like that are scum, they should be bashed with a spiky mallet (i can feel a recurring theme coming on here!)

eat some maltesers, some b&j's phish food, go shopping....i don't really know what else to say apart from bad stuff about him, so...if you don't feel better soon, tell everyone!!

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