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post May 1 2009, 11:28 PM
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A producer at work, in an email that was cc'd to several other very important people, was passing some work on to me. In the email he referred to me as 'Mr. Haggis'. I didn't say anything, but I felt very tempted to correct him to point out that it's 'Dr. Haggis'.

I couldn't decide how to say this without sounding like a really arrogant pillock, which is mostly why I didn't say anything, but it does bug me when people don't use my correct title. I worked damn hard to get that and I'd prefer that people use it. He didn't mean any harm by what he typed, so am I wrong to get a little miffed about this or should I have said something? If so, how are should I have said 'Oi! It's 'doctor'!' without making myself look bad? I realise it would have to be done with humour, but I couldn't think of a way in which the humour wouldn't come across as thinly veiled prentension.


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post Jun 6 2009, 03:11 PM
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You've gotta go totally over the top; don't just wear a stethoscope, wear a laminated copy of your PhD around your neck at all times and correct people by clearing your throat loudly, holding it up and pointing to it. You could even have it printed onto a shirt, possibly with the caption "That's DR. Haggis to you." Saves you from having to actually correct anyone while still allowing you to make it funny. Seems foolproof to me biggrin.gif

(also agree that it seems kind of pretentious to leave it as an email signature, though I also am totally unused to people addressing anyone as Dr, even a medical doctor, outside of their professional capacity. Then again, I don't know any doctors personally)
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- Mata   Pretension and titles   May 1 2009, 11:28 PM
- - candice   Honestly, I can't really see any way of saying...   May 2 2009, 12:45 AM
- - LoLo   You buy yourself something like this stethoscope n...   May 2 2009, 01:34 AM
- - elphaba2   If you have an official email sig (eg, Mata Haggis...   May 2 2009, 02:05 AM
- - Daria   Grow a moustache, wear a pince-nez and mutter and ...   May 4 2009, 12:05 AM
- - Mata   Hmm... I suspect having it as a signature on email...   May 4 2009, 10:11 AM
- - CheeseMoose   The majority of British doctors don't actually...   May 4 2009, 02:59 PM
- - Faerieryn   My friend who teaches latin at the school is calle...   May 4 2009, 05:49 PM
- - Mata   Cheesemoose: That would likely explain why she sai...   May 4 2009, 10:39 PM
- - candice   Huh. I knew that the dentists here aren't (us...   May 5 2009, 12:03 AM
- - leopold   It's a tough one. I think people automaticall...   May 5 2009, 09:02 AM
- - Smiler   Working with academics from the civil engineering ...   May 5 2009, 12:01 PM
- - Mata   To me it feels more pretentious to put PhD after a...   May 5 2009, 12:39 PM
- - Cath   QUOTE (candice @ May 2 2009, 01:45 AM) Ho...   May 5 2009, 01:20 PM
|- - candice   QUOTE (Cath @ May 5 2009, 02:20 PM) I nev...   May 5 2009, 02:03 PM
- - Mata   Maybe Lo's right and I should just wear a stet...   May 5 2009, 10:21 PM
|- - snoo   QUOTE (Mata @ May 5 2009, 11:21 PM) Maybe...   May 6 2009, 09:04 PM
|- - Mata   QUOTE (snoo @ May 6 2009, 10:04 PM) QUOTE...   May 7 2009, 12:28 PM
- - leopold   Make it a kids' plastic stethoscope, that shou...   May 7 2009, 08:29 AM
- - crazymat   Mata, if you're not wearing this stethoscope n...   May 7 2009, 11:26 AM
- - Smiler   Yep, seconded, Mata now forever more when in publi...   May 7 2009, 12:14 PM
- - Pixiegoth   I don't put MA after my name although I'm ...   May 7 2009, 12:23 PM
- - DarkInferno   IMHO, if somebody is refering to you as Mr. Haggis...   Jun 6 2009, 08:48 AM
- - gerbilfromhell   You've gotta go totally over the top; don...   Jun 6 2009, 03:11 PM


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