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post Aug 14 2009, 08:38 PM
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I wouldn't call this a game, exactly, but it IS really fun to do!

What is your dream life?
Forget reality, for awhile - it doesn't matter if you're working in fast food right now, ect. What do you want your life to be like?

What career do you want to have, and why?
What kind of house do you want to have?
Do you want to be rich?
Where would you live?
Married? Children?

I love learning about people, so this should all be really interesting to me - remember, it doesn't have to be realistic - if you want a gigantic mansion with 1,000 sex-slaves at your service, go for it!

So, what's your dream? smile.gif


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post Aug 15 2009, 03:11 AM
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I would like to have a career that would be rewarding, beneficial to the world/public well being and health/the environment/all of the above. It is a huge goal of mine to make a positive impact on the world and reverse some of the damage that has been done. I would like to be able to travel frequently, but not to the point where I would be jetlagged all the time. More like: for the next month or so i'd live in a country to develop a project there. I want to see the world and I think living in a country and experiencing what life is truly like there is the best way to do it. In terms of houses, I would want to have a medium sized house. I would want there to be enough room for me to spread out and feel comfortable but not have a house that is big enough that I get creeped out if I am there alone. I really don't like big houses anyway. I feel like everyone would like to be rich, or at least have financial stability and the option to have some luxuries. I would be happy being well-off but not rich. Enough so that I have everything I need and can work for the things I want, but not so much that I become lazy and take things for granted. I have no idea where I would live because although I have done a lot of traveling I feel that there is still so much more for me to see before I can make that decision. Marriage is an option but not a necessity. A deep, committed relationship doesn't need a contract to be meaningful. I don't like kids all that much and I would rather not experience pregnancy and childbirth, but I will probably end up having them anyway due to family pressures and my future partner's wishes. Or as everyone keeps telling me, once I turn 25 I'll suddenly get goo goo eyes whenever I see a baby and start wanting one of my own. Who knows.


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post Aug 15 2009, 03:54 PM
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QUOTE (craziness @ Aug 14 2009, 08:11 PM) *
Or as everyone keeps telling me, once I turn 25 I'll suddenly get goo goo eyes whenever I see a baby and start wanting one of my own. Who knows.


Dude I'm 30 and still haven't had that happen to me. I say if you don't want children, stand by your convictions and don't have them. Whenever you get in a relationship you could have that talk early on with your partner so that they know how you feel. You can always keep your mind open about it, but perhaps you could compromise and adopt? Sorry I just get kind of uppity on the subject because I've heard the same arguments from people for years.

Also just a quick note that I find interesting, is that in your ideal fantasy life, you see yourself giving into the pressures of the family. I'm not meaning that to sound mean, like it has come out sounding, I just think it's kind of funny. I know when I was thinking about my dream life I kept erasing things that were making fun of myself for having those dreams and had to keep reminding myself that it's an ideal, so what if it sounds silly and outlandish.


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- voices_in_my_head   What's your dream life?   Aug 14 2009, 08:38 PM
- - CheeseMoose   I'm not very good at this game, 'cos what ...   Aug 14 2009, 10:54 PM
- - LoLo   I've been working for years to become a graphi...   Aug 14 2009, 11:30 PM
- - craziness   I would like to have a career that would be reward...   Aug 15 2009, 03:11 AM
|- - LoLo   QUOTE (craziness @ Aug 14 2009, 08:11 PM)...   Aug 15 2009, 03:54 PM
- - elphaba2   But...but...why do you have to MAKE a baby when th...   Aug 15 2009, 03:30 AM
- - gothictheysay   I want to be able to write, preferably creatively,...   Aug 15 2009, 04:21 AM
- - voices_in_my_head   Why didn't I think of pets!? Well, since...   Aug 15 2009, 08:10 AM
- - I_am_the_best   Ooh this sounds fun. Ok. Ideally, I would like to...   Aug 15 2009, 08:46 AM
- - Daria   I want to be financially comfortable- living a lif...   Aug 15 2009, 11:53 AM
- - elphaba2   Daria, if my genes were half as sexy as yours I...   Aug 15 2009, 03:27 PM
|- - Daria   QUOTE (elphaba2 @ Aug 15 2009, 04:27 PM) ...   Aug 15 2009, 04:16 PM
- - Yannick   Wooo, okay, here we go. Jobs? Gross. I don't...   Aug 15 2009, 07:19 PM
- - Ashbless   I have always wanted a small house on a lakeside. ...   Aug 15 2009, 07:48 PM
- - MrTeapot   As for kids I was very firmly not going to have an...   Aug 16 2009, 10:23 AM
- - gothictheysay   Ah Teapot how I love thee re: Dreams: at times v...   Aug 17 2009, 02:38 AM
|- - MrTeapot   QUOTE (gothictheysay @ Aug 17 2009, 03:38...   Aug 18 2009, 11:40 AM
- - Pixiegoth   I pretty much have my dream life...apart from losi...   Aug 21 2009, 12:48 PM
- - Mata   Aww *hugs Pixie* For me... Well, life is pretty g...   Aug 21 2009, 12:59 PM
- - Yannick   Okay, so here's the floor plan for the top flo...   Aug 21 2009, 04:06 PM
- - Mata   Woah... You've clearly put a lot more thought ...   Aug 25 2009, 07:08 PM
- - funked)out_frog   What career do you want to have, and why? no idea,...   Aug 26 2009, 02:06 AM
- - voices_in_my_head   I love asking my friends this question - Along the...   Aug 31 2009, 06:33 PM


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