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ravein
post Aug 6 2003, 01:24 PM
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*enters thread with personal pyrotechnics, rainbow streamers and laser light show*

missed me didn't you????
Just wanted to give everyone the 411 on my current situation. If you haven’t noticed, I have been absent for a while and when I was here I was not in the best of moods. Well me and my girlfriend Chris broke up last weekend...which when your with someone for 4 years, live together, have combined finances etc.. it is like getting a divorce. I haven't much felt like talking.. let alone being funny.
With that said, I am working on my recovery and expect to back to normal in a few weeks/months. Our splitting up is for the best and I am comfortable with my choice. I have only had to get completely smashed once smile.gif
If anyone would like to make a donation to the Selmisha Green Batchlorette Bonanza (coming to a town near you) please feel free... laugh.gif wink.gif


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post Aug 6 2003, 01:27 PM
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I'm on IM later if you want to chat...sorry about chris sad.gif

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post Aug 6 2003, 01:39 PM
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(((hugs))) luvs Weej smile.gif
thanks sweetie.. u r awesome... I am not sure if I will be around. I am taking a half day from work so I can go move my stuff out. Everything I own is in the stairwell of my town house. I am just tired from all the trama. blink.gif I have slept maybe 25 hours in two weeks.... I am ready to pass out.... *drooooool*


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post Aug 6 2003, 01:52 PM
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Passing out always makes me feel better too smile.gif


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post Aug 6 2003, 01:55 PM
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Welcome back lovely Ravein! I'm sorry to hear about you and your gf, but if it's for the best then thats what matters. smile.gif

I also hope you can get everything moved out today without too much drama.

Anyways you've been missed hotstuff!


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post Aug 6 2003, 02:24 PM
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I saw another one of your posts a few days ago and guessed that this might have been what had happened. 'Sorry to hear it but as Lo says if it's for the best then at least there is that.

Best of luck with the move!


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post Aug 6 2003, 02:45 PM
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Gah... that's a big barrel of suck, ravein... but yeah, it does sound like it's for the best...

Hope you feel better about it all soon, darlin'.

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post Aug 6 2003, 03:29 PM
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thanks guys smile.gif
It has been an interesting ride.. but sometimes you have to just open your eyes and see the truth..no matter how much it screws up you perfect world. I will be okay.. I feel alive for the first time in a few years...
speaking of which...

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post Aug 6 2003, 04:25 PM
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Aish! WB! happy.gif We missed ya XD


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post Aug 6 2003, 04:28 PM
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Rave, I am so glad to hear that you're back and that your life is looking up, albeit slowly... I'm sure it's been hard on you. You were in my thoughts smile.gif
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post Aug 6 2003, 04:36 PM
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QUOTE (ravein @ Aug 6 2003, 04:29 PM)
for rent*
newly freed lesbian, brown hair, blue/green eyes
hopeless romantic with a taste for the dramatic
a poet that doesn't believe in rhyming
has fantasies of Gina Gershon and Lenny Kravits

Good deal!

Sadly, I lack the correct equipment for such a purchase... But good luck to you anyway... wink.gif


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post Aug 6 2003, 05:37 PM
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QUOTE (Industrial Kybosh @ Aug 6 2003, 01:36 PM)
QUOTE (ravein @ Aug 6 2003, 04:29 PM)
for rent*
newly freed lesbian, brown hair, blue/green eyes
hopeless romantic with a taste for the dramatic
a poet that doesn't believe in rhyming
has fantasies of Gina Gershon and Lenny Kravits

Good deal!

Sadly, I lack the correct equipment for such a purchase... But good luck to you anyway... wink.gif

inky if missy wasnt head over heels in love with you I would make a exception... and thanks Missy... you where on it girl smile.gif anytime you need something... just give a sister a yell...
(((((((((HUGS)))))))))


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post Aug 6 2003, 10:17 PM
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QUOTE (ravein @ Aug 6 2003, 04:29 PM)
for rent*
newly freed lesbian, brown hair, blue/green eyes
hopeless romantic with a taste for the dramatic
a poet that doesn't believe in rhyming
has fantasies of Gina Gershon and Lenny Kravits

Oooh, so does this mean I'm in wi a shot now, hon?? wink.gif laugh.gif

It's pretty rough, splittin up wi someone after so long... I reckon you'll be okay, sweetie, but if ya ever wanna talk or whatever, jus gimme a shout.

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post Aug 6 2003, 11:00 PM
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WB Ravein smile.gif I'm sorry to hear about the breakup, but if it's for the best, then that's a good (albiet painful) thing. Like Mata, I kind of guessed that something of the sort was going on when I read a post of yours on another thread. I always take notice of what you post, cause you were the very first person here to PM me happy.gif

Anyway, take care of yourself. *hugs* We don't talk much anymore, but still let me know if you need anything at all. smile.gif


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post Aug 6 2003, 11:02 PM
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welcome back!!

im sorry to hear that this has happened, but if it is for the best, then im happy for you.


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post Aug 7 2003, 02:27 AM
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Ravein!!! *Hugs* Welcome back! I've missed having you around here! I'm really sorry about the break up with your girlfriend... You are a really great, nice, and funny person... you deserve all the best! Take care of yourself!
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post Aug 7 2003, 08:58 AM
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QUOTE (ravein @ Aug 6 2003, 04:29 PM)
for rent*
newly freed lesbian, brown hair, blue/green eyes
hopeless romantic with a taste for the dramatic
a poet that doesn't believe in rhyming
has fantasies of Gina Gershon and Lenny Kravits

laugh.gif wink.gif

/me wolfs whistles...

thanks for all your help with my little 'issue' smile.gif laugh.gif You've been a great help smile.gif


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post Aug 7 2003, 01:20 PM
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Glad to see you back soldier tongue.gif

*hugs* Get happy soon, that's an order lol j/k take all the time yu need smile.gif


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post Aug 7 2003, 05:23 PM
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Sorry to hear that. You can come and stay with me for a bit, if you need to! biggrin.gif
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post Aug 7 2003, 07:42 PM
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QUOTE (IrishGuy @ Aug 7 2003, 02:23 PM)
Sorry to hear that. You can come and stay with me for a bit, if you need to! biggrin.gif

thanks!! I might need to... we are getting to the point where we are starting to get evil with each other.. I just keep telling myself that it is okay... I have to belive that. It is just going to be awkward living together after breaking up. Thanks for everyones support...


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post Aug 7 2003, 08:06 PM
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Oh man living with your ex after a break up sucks. Luckily I only had to do it for a week. I hope you find someplace to move to soon, or she does whichever.


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post Aug 7 2003, 08:19 PM
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QUOTE (LoLo @ Aug 7 2003, 05:06 PM)
Oh man living with your ex after a break up sucks. Luckily I only had to do it for a week. I hope you find someplace to move to soon, or she does whichever.

true that... problem is when you have been together for 4 years..you share alot of common stuff... like bank accounts... couches, beds, clothes, etc... material stuff.. but stuff all the same.. it just sucks... I cant wait to see what happens when we start to see other people.


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And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. -Anais Nin
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post Aug 7 2003, 08:22 PM
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Yeah my ex and I had that problem. Bout a month before I moved out I got my own account, guess I should have seen the break up coming when I did that. lol

As for stuff I felt it was more important for me to get out so I left any jointly owned stuff for him.

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post Aug 7 2003, 08:25 PM
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yeah that is my attitude with the stuff... we just got a 1200.00 bed.. awesome big arse bed.. I loved it so... *barf* yeah so.. I gave that to her... there went 600 bucks... I am just taking the stuff that means the most to me.. in this case that would be my sanity.


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