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porcelainwarrior
post Sep 9 2003, 08:45 AM
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OK - so. I think I might leave. I don't really want to but I'm hardly ever around anyways, everything is crap IRL right now and I've really really hurt someone I met here and love and I just read in a blog that he's decided to hate me.

I don't know what I'm going to do...

I just want this person to know how sorry I am, and to everyone else I might not be around again...


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post Sep 9 2003, 08:48 AM
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That sucks, don't go!

Well, I don't know what happened so I'll shut up but you will be missed sad.gif sad.gif sad.gif


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post Sep 9 2003, 08:48 AM
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Words are only words and the net can make things seem a lot more harsh than they really are. I don't know about you, but I've always considered that hate is an instinctive emotion, you either feel it or you don't, so that this person has 'decided' to hate you suggests to me that they are lying to themself about how they feel a little.

If you want to leave then that's up to you but don't make it because of someone else. I hope things work out IRL soon!

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post Sep 9 2003, 11:36 AM
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I think you'd be far better off talking to him than running away from the situation entirely, porce - and yes, I do know who you're talking about.

He's upset now, it's undeniable, but you mean a lot to him, and losing you entirely is the last thing he needs. It's not easy, but it's time to be a friend to him if you really can't be anything more. Besides, when life turns sour, you need all the friends you can muster to sweeten it up again - and that's going to be true for the both of you. From the little I know of your situation, and the considerably more I know of his, you need each other's guidance and support.

Regarding leaving the forums - don't commit yourself to going permenantly. We're a willing support group for any problems you have; we're a captive audience for when you have something to say; we're also of above-average tolerance of the bizarre, the surreal, and the downright wilfully bonkers. You may well find us of aid should you choose to use us - but we won't be offended if you don't.

Take a break, by all means - a number of us, myself included, have suffered forum burnout, and a short hiatus helps considerably - but try coming back afterwards. You'll be welcomed with open arms.

Apologies to either party if I've overstepped my mark...


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post Sep 9 2003, 03:05 PM
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I'm sad to hear that porce, but don't go without resolving any problems you have with the other party, or you'll feel worse...And if they decide they want to carry on "hating" you, surely it's their loss?


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post Sep 9 2003, 09:54 PM
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*hugs* NO!!!!! me will miss you so much..

But hey...words are only words...things will get better...I'm sure no one really hates you...if everytime you told someone you hate them you meant it....then wow....I need to be shot wink.gif but dont worry about it...it'll all be sorted out...*huggles*


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post Sep 10 2003, 12:08 AM
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Oh porce... dun go an leave us all forever. I'm sure he'll get past it, he's just upset right now. I know he thinks the world of ya really, he's told me often enough.

Take a break, by all means, but dun be a stranger sweetie. I know I've not been on much of late, but it'd be sad to think you'd not be back ever when I get me own RL stuff sorted.

/me uberhugs porce

I love ya, honey, an if you ever wanna talk, ya have me email and me phone number.


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post Sep 10 2003, 02:19 AM
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i understand whats going on... and as sad as it makes me, i dont feel you should leave permanatly... we are always here to help you, with anything you need help with....

whether you feel that the situation warrents your permanat leaving or not, know my best wishes and thoughts are with you.


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post Sep 10 2003, 03:25 AM
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*pouts* im sorry to see you go... i dont theink u should leave over a fight, even if that person said they hated you.. hate is a very strong word.... i dont think anyone could hate you... but if you dop decide to leave.. u will be missed much *hugs*


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post Sep 10 2003, 11:02 AM
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Porce, he cares about you a lot...as we all do.

You know where we all are if you want us sad.gif


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post Sep 10 2003, 04:25 PM
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Porce, he does'nt hate you....he's told me countless times that he thinks the world of you, i'm sure he did'nt literally mean it. The one who hurt you I know v. well....so I know if you want to talk I will listen. I'm sure if you two just talk things over it will get better. Just please don't go.
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post Sep 11 2003, 08:59 AM
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ok - thankyou all you guys, you really were of the useful etc *hugs all round*

i dont think im going to leave right now, id rather stay cause i love all you people and i agree that i want to stay friends with this person.

i be sorry


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post Sep 11 2003, 03:36 PM
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QUOTE (porcelainwarrior @ Sep 11 2003, 09:59 AM)
ok - thankyou all you guys, you really were of the useful etc *hugs all round*

i dont think im going to leave right now, id rather stay cause i love all you people and i agree that i want to stay friends with this person.

i be sorry


porce xxx

It's great to know that you're not leaving and that you'll talk to ''the person''. smile.gif *hugs*

Once again, here if you need to talk.
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post Sep 11 2003, 03:49 PM
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Porce, I barely know you, but regardless of that fact , I am happy you have decided to stay.

Welcome back? laugh.gif


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post Sep 11 2003, 11:17 PM
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I am also glad you have decided stay. The last thing this site needs is to lose awsome people like you because without you this place would not be what it is. biggrin.gif


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post Sep 12 2003, 01:12 AM
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*dances* yay! u can never leave, i wont let you *hugs tight and never lets go* it wouldnt be as much fun without you laugh.gif smile.gif


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