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post Oct 25 2003, 01:13 AM
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Yeah. You can say yes. Here's the deal ~

I liked this guy... he was a year younger than me. *nodnod* He was really nice, and really cute, and really cool, and we had a lot in common... and he had great hair! happy.gif; But today... he got a haircut... and suddenly... it's like... whoa there... I don't like him anymore... It's like talking to a different person now, when I'm talking to him... I've never been this shallow before... eh... Help?!

Maybe I'll just wait a few months and have it grow back. sleep.gif; (And have him cut it again...)


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post Oct 25 2003, 03:43 AM
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I take it I am, as nobody has replied yet =P


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post Oct 25 2003, 03:47 AM
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i dont know... i dont think its shallow... but i cant put a word to it... maybe its a psychological thing where you are subconciously thinking he IS someone else, and therefore, making you shy / nervous or something... i dunno.... <shrugs>


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post Oct 25 2003, 03:52 AM
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QUOTE (cheese is funny @ Oct 24 2003, 08:56 PM)
i dont know... i dont think its shallow... but i cant put a word to it... maybe its a psychological thing where you are subconciously thinking he IS someone else, and therefore, making you shy / nervous or something... i dunno.... <shrugs>

Yeah, maybe it is.

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It's really weird though. It was like he really changed ;_; I'm so weird.


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post Oct 25 2003, 03:58 AM
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is it his personality? or the way you react to him now?


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post Oct 25 2003, 03:59 AM
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The way I act to him. He's still the same nice bubbly dude nn; I just... it's like... his hair was an unnecessary good part of his personality... but it's gone now... Yeah. Like that... xx;


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post Oct 25 2003, 04:01 AM
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id say just forget about the way his hair looks/looked... and go back to acting around him like you did before... or try to... or something...


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post Oct 25 2003, 04:06 AM
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QUOTE (cheese is funny @ Oct 24 2003, 09:10 PM)
id say just forget about the way his hair looks/looked... and go back to acting around him like you did before... or try to... or something...

*twitch* I'll try... try... try... or maybe I'll just talk to him as a friend and wait until he's ... until he has good hair again.

I sound like a shallow freak! nn;


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post Oct 25 2003, 04:08 AM
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you really dont sound shallow... at least not to me.... others might disagree with me.. but whatever...

do whatever is needed to help you through this problem(?)...


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post Oct 25 2003, 04:11 AM
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Hehe. I will. *huggle* Thanks oh wise one. XD


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post Oct 25 2003, 04:12 AM
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<hugs> me? wise? are you feeling ok? <feels liz's forhead>


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post Oct 25 2003, 04:14 AM
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Lol, my forehead's a bit warm... I have a headache x_X;

But you are wise! *nodnod*


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post Oct 25 2003, 04:15 AM
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thats your headache talking... <pics liz up and lays her on a couch, and puts a blanket over her> rest, dear sis....


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post Oct 25 2003, 04:24 AM
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hehe... alright oh wise one...


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post Oct 25 2003, 05:41 AM
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personally, I'd say, yeah, a bit. wink.gif

Still, looks are very important in a relationship. You don't want to wake up next to your chosen partner/lover/one-night-stand/bed and think "Oh, god you're so beau... well, you're o.k.".


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post Oct 25 2003, 03:14 PM
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Perhaps you're relating the way his hair looked to how he expresses his personality. The fact that he cut it may seem to you like he's changing. I know from personal experience, that a few of my friends wondered why I was changing when I cut my own hair.

The thing is though, as long as he's the same guy inside the outside isn't that important. Maybe just realize that perhaps he needed a little change in his appearance for himself, which is a good thing. Or perhaps his parents made him do that. Sometimes parents can dictate what you look like.

Either way, shallow no. Shallow would be saying oh my god he cut his hair I will never speak to him again because he's just ugly now. You seem to be wanting at least to stay his friend even with his new look. It may just take a little time getting used to the change, and who knows perhaps you'll like it better after time.


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post Oct 25 2003, 03:27 PM
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personally I don't think you're being shallow. OK, you haven't said that you're attracted to this guy, but maybe his hair was something that you really loved and him cutting it made you go off of him slightly

Though I might be spouting rubbish, I usually do

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post Oct 30 2003, 01:45 PM
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QUOTE (elf @ Oct 25 2003, 01:22 AM)
But today... he got a haircut... and suddenly... it's like... whoa there... I don't like him anymore... It's like talking to a different person now, when I'm talking to him... I've never been this shallow before... eh... Help?!

If you are then I am too! biggrin.gif

I had a boyfriend at uni who had lovely long curly hair. Very ROCK! biggrin.gif I thought I loved him and in retrospect I probably did but not enough (but that's another story). Anyway, one day he decided to get all his hair cut off sad.gif No only did I say, "Please don't", coz I loved it but he had it cut so badly that it just look poo. He bumped into me in the middle of a crowded hallway at Uni with his mates and said "What do you think?" I wanted to say 'YUCK!" but instead lied outright and said "Mmmm, very nice". Does that make me evil.....probably wink.gif

Anyway my point.....I just felt so uncomfortable around him for weeks. I'd literally cry when I looked at photos or remember how he used to look with his lovely long hair. I just felt wrong about it all.

Needless to say we didn't last. We are still friends and I'm now going out with his best mate (that's another LONG story) and I'm incredibly happy with him. He looks sexy with his hair long or short biggrin.gif Actually Ed had his hair braided while I was 'seeing' him a while ago and at first it was a shock but he was still sexy! wink.gif

I think it just shows that you don't like this guy as much as you thought you did perhaps?


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