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post Dec 4 2003, 04:17 PM
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When you ask a guy out, and they reply "Well, I would, but--", cut themselves off, the bell rings, and he leaves (not until after you ask him to give you a hug, though smile.gif) ... what does that mean? And what if it's been quite a while (a few days) since that happened, so you're not even sure if he fricking remembers anyway and if you should approach him about it?

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post Dec 4 2003, 04:48 PM
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it means he didn't know what to say and *slash* or he's a coward. but not that he doesn't like you. and he will remember but again not know what to say *slash* too scared of embarrassment etc etc....i'm crap at advice, but just go for it and ask him "what are you playing at biatch??"
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post Dec 5 2003, 01:12 AM
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i'm a guy and i never do that
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post Dec 5 2003, 04:12 AM
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what it means is that either 1) he wants to, and he has something stoping him. or 2) he doesnt want to and hes kind enough to not just flat out say no... i would suggest not bringing it up as if he doesnt want to, you might make an awkward situation. how about forgetting about it for a short while, see if your friendship grows with him a little more, and ask him again if you think you see things looking up a bit. if you wait a bit, his "well, i would, but--" might change to "sure smile.gif " you never know... good luck, liz. bag yourself a winner (lack of a better phrase) biggrin.gif


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post Dec 5 2003, 04:34 AM
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When you asked him out, did you ask him out for a specific date or just a general date? Because if you asked him out for a specific day, maybe he just had plans and couldn't make it that time, but would go out with you otherwise. I don't know.... lol I'm awful at giving advice. I actually agree with pretty much everything Cheese said! smile.gif
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post Dec 5 2003, 05:36 AM
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QUOTE (CrissiLove @ Dec 4 2003, 08:43 PM)
When you asked him out, did you ask him out for a specific date or just a general date?  Because if you asked him out for a specific day, maybe he just had plans and couldn't make it that time, but would go out with you otherwise.  I don't know.... lol  I'm awful at giving advice.  I actually agree with pretty much everything Cheese said!  smile.gif

General. Just a simple "Will you go out with me?" And... yeah. >_<;

I'm going to talk to him about it anyway, but not upfront ~ in a note, methinketh. happy.gif; It's cowardly, I know, but... bah. That's how I do things. biggrin.gif;


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post Dec 5 2003, 06:05 AM
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Good luck! smile.gif
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post Dec 6 2003, 12:27 AM
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No response... I saw him after school today... and we didn't say anything... just passed each other awkwardly... ugh. happy.gif; I'm so pathetic!


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post Dec 6 2003, 02:46 AM
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No response... I saw him after school today... and we didn't say anything... just passed each other awkwardly... ugh. ; I'm so pathetic!


You're not pathetic for that. Because pathetic is when the person you love sits next to you every single day on the bus and you can barely speak a sentence to them (as is the case for a certain matazonian who happens to be called Fluffy rolleyes.gif ).


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post Dec 6 2003, 04:49 AM
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QUOTE (Fluffy @ Dec 5 2003, 06:55 PM)
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No response... I saw him after school today... and we didn't say anything... just passed each other awkwardly... ugh. ; I'm so pathetic!


You're not pathetic for that. Because pathetic is when the person you love sits next to you every single day on the bus and you can barely speak a sentence to them (as is the case for a certain matazonian who happens to be called Fluffy rolleyes.gif ).

Aww... that sucks. sad.gif Get the courage to speak up!

Actually, I did scream what it said on his hat to my friend... with him right there... so I bet he thinks I'm a freak now. happy.gif;


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