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post Apr 11 2003, 05:17 AM
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my best friend is moving away this weekend. she basicly got kicked out of her house, and now she is going to live with her dad who she has never met! and shes going all the way to NC (north carolina) and i am in NY and that is far and i will probably not see her for a long time even though she will come visit her mom sometimes, but they hate eachother.
the reason why she is kicked out of her house is because:
she bleached her hair one day when her mom was at church. her mom got home, got really pissed, (was pissed at her already and already hated her) and they continued fighting through monday morning. her mom hit her with a coffee mug, and then made her walk all the way to school. (the school is not close to any of us where i live, i cant belive she walked the whole way) and then my friend decided that she was not going to go home that night, and she slept over at a friends house and called the police on her mom. the next day when she went home, her whole family was ready to kill her, and her dad who she hasnt even met called and told her that she is moving with him to NC as soon as possible! so she is leaving this weekend, tommrow is the last day i will see her for a long time and i dont know what to do. also another one of my friends is moving to england from may-august just because her mom hates her, she didnt even do anything. these 2 are both very good friends. i think i will just die.


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post Apr 11 2003, 05:21 AM
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aawwwww, Crazi... that is so sad... It is hard when your friends have to move away. Maybe even though she doesn't get along with her mother, she can visit and stay with your family sometimes or other friends... that way she can visit more often!! *****************************BigHUGforCrazi*****************************
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post Apr 11 2003, 05:24 AM
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One thing I've learnt from years of moving all over the world is that you only lose touch with friends that you can't be bothered to stay in contact with. Geography ain't worth nuttin'

As an example, I've just come back from a holiday I went on with 5 buddies. 2 of them, I've known since I was 10, at school - we've not lived near each other for the last 8 years, but we've kept in contact, and still see each other a few times every year. The other two are friends from uni, who I've not lived close to for the last 5 years, but likewise, still kept in contact with, and seen when I can.

And yet all 5 of them flew halfway around the world to come on holiday together. And a mighty fine time we had too.

So the moral of the story is that while it's not as good as having your friends on your doorstep, a friend a long way away is still a friend.

Still, sounds sucky big time.

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post Apr 11 2003, 05:28 AM
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thanks, but being around all of these people i hate every day at school, i am loosing 2 of my staples of sanity.


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post Apr 11 2003, 05:47 PM
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Oh, I'm sorry to hear that Crazi. sad.gif Parents can be really awful sometimes. I hope you and your friends can still keep in touch. I know that it's hard to lose friends to moving away, but at least when they move away you can still talk to them on the phone. My best friend moved across the country a couple years ago but we still manage to talk on the phone at least a couple times a month and visit a few times a year. Rack up lots of long distance charges, but if it's worth your sanity I say go for it. Still there's no good sustitute to losing your friends especially when you're in junior high and feel like you're going crazy. Am sorry for you.


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post Apr 12 2003, 12:35 AM
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that sucks crazi <hugs crazi>

remember, this is bad, but you will make it through this, cause me, and im sure all the rest of the people here, are more then willing to help you through this... we cant go to school with you to keep you company... but we will try to help you in any way we can, stay strong crazi


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post Apr 12 2003, 12:36 AM
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I'm going to be sad that something bad happened to you..... sad.gif sad.gif


you are one of the few people that make me think that the world may be a good thing to let live.... sad.gif

I hope it all works out.... sad.gif


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post Apr 12 2003, 02:47 AM
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I'm sorry, Crazi girl. >hug<
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post Apr 12 2003, 02:51 AM
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I'm sorry crazy. Like it has been said at least you have the phone. Also thank god your friend is getting out of that horrid place. I hate absolutely hate child abusers, and I wish I could fully say how much, but that would be completely and totally violent and this is not the time nor the place.

When I moved to TN my best friend and I kept up on the phone. She was going to come and visit me and I was going to go visiter her, but then I just ended up moving home. August will be our 10 year anniversary as best friends, so see even long distance doesn't have to mess a friendship up. If you can't afford the phone, there's email if she has a comp, or even snail mail. With the invention of web cams on and microphones you can even cam eachother and talk on the comp and it will almost be like you are there talking to her.

I know I don't do this much, cept more than usual on the chat lately but, **HUGS CRAZI** Don't be scared lol.


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post Apr 12 2003, 02:52 AM
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*hug* Keep in touch with her. It'll all work out somehow.


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post Apr 12 2003, 10:22 AM
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thanks everyone
her dad doesnt have a computer but i think he is getting one. actually i am not sure if he has a phone either (neither is she) but if he doesnt she will be getting a phone soon as well. thanks for the support, but i just dont know what im gonna do in school with all of those damn hating people...


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post Apr 12 2003, 10:27 AM
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*hugs crazi*

Try not to let the other people in school get to you - that's the first thing. I know it's not a very healthy attitude, but if you really can't face talking to them listen to some headphones or something when you're not in lessons, adnw he you are just do the work...that's what I did when I was in classes without my friends!

I hope that you get something sorted out with your friends, and definitely keep in touch with them. I'm still intouch with people I've known since I was 3, so it's definitely do-able.


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post Apr 12 2003, 03:13 PM
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Perhaps you could keep yourself entertained at school, and aslo scare the hating people, by doing a bunch of weird stuff?


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post Apr 12 2003, 03:37 PM
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meh, i already do that laugh.gif
they either hate me, love me, think of me as they do of anyone else, or fear me.


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post Apr 12 2003, 03:38 PM
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I wish I could say I have stayed in touch with friends from a long time ago who have moved, etc... but I never did... I was always an awful pen pal... sad.gif
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post Apr 12 2003, 04:09 PM
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Crazi everything gets better in High School and then better in College. biggrin.gif


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post Jun 25 2003, 04:44 AM
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today i had a pool party with all of my closest friends because i am leaving tommorow. when my friend megan-the one who was leaving had to go, i just started crying. this would be the last time i would see her, except when she came up here to visit. i dont cry much. barely at all. then i went downstairs back to the party teary eyed. a few of my friends asked me if i was ok. oh god. she came back though and now she is sleeping here but stilllll.............. im going to cry all day tommorow


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post Jun 25 2003, 04:49 AM
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aawww, crazi *hugs* I'm sorry
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post Jun 25 2003, 05:41 AM
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me sad
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i am gonna miss crazi since she is one of my bestest friends and i dont know what im gonna do without her company. i am going to miss her and i want her back. i also want her friends (i know megan now) to not move away. this is a saaad day.


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post Jun 25 2003, 01:38 PM
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awwww that sucks arse... if you want give your friend in NC my e-mail addy. I am in NC to, if she needs any help or someone to talk to I am probably right around the corner from her. At leaset you will know that someone is looking out for her.


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post Jun 25 2003, 03:38 PM
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That's shitty, jecca... but it's obvious that your friend needs to get gone...

The Jonman is quite right. Geography can make things suck badly, but if the intention is there, then you'll both stay close. My best friend of roughly 13 years standing is in Tokyo, and has been for about 3 years now, but we regularly exchange e-mails. We keep the fires of friendship burning, and one day I'll make sure he shows me the sights of the city he's made home...

And anyway - you'll still have us, eh? True, it's not a substitute for old-fashioned human contact, but there's a lot of love here headed in your direction wink.gif


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post Jun 25 2003, 08:15 PM
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*huggles crazi*

One of my close friends has just moved back to Jersey and I'm not going to see her for ages sad.gif I miss her.


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I know how you feel jecca. My best friend had to move to the country last year and I had barely gotten his number. I have'nt seen him in ages. sad.gif
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post Jun 26 2003, 09:24 PM
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awwww....that sucks sad.gif

and yeah jonman is right about the geography thing. one of my best friends lives in washington state (i live in oregon)....we see each other maybe once per year if we're lucky, but talk all the time on email and phone and remain close. my other best friend i haven't seen since i was 16...since my family moved across the state. we've been friends since we were 10, and still talk all the time, though i've oddly enough lost contact w/ many of my local friends after high school ended..lol.

granted, emails and phone calls aren't nearly good enough when you're used to seeing someone every day, but it sure does help. smile.gif


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Wow this is a real mess. I've had my 2 best friends move a long time ago and now my friend Lindsey just moved away too so I know how it feels. Although this is more serious. There's really nothing you can do except email, write, and talk on the phone. Maybe later you can go visit her if it'll be for such a long time. Well I'm sorry about all the trouble you're going through. Good luck to you and your friend.


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