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> Am I Arrongant Or Just Down Right Loveless?, grrr jelously sux!
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post May 21 2004, 12:27 PM
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A while back one of my best mates(who is female)became attacted to me, and we started fooling around. I knew it was against my religion, so i tried to end it. But the more i tired to, the more i became attacted to her. After a while, we decided to end it. I still had feelings for her. (still do slightly) she now going out with this guy, adn they're all pushing it into my face who great their relationship is. I got so annoyed over it, that i nearly lost the lot of them. They really hurt me with what they said, adn i done the hardest thing to forgive them, But now i seem to be going through the same loop. My mate whom i am really close to, started going out with my other mate, and has pushed me out. I made a vow to not see any guys (or girls!) til i finish my exams, but its freaking hard! I don't know wht to do! Please help!


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post May 21 2004, 02:33 PM
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I don't think you are arrogant or loveless. I guess these things happen, and I think it is a good idea for you to just focus on your exams at the moment. smile.gif


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post May 21 2004, 02:45 PM
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It happens. Every now and again you get attached with someone you really shouldn't.

My advice, is to end it before it even starts. Sometimes the intial feeling is the right one to go with rather than even giving it a go.

Feeling a little meloncholy (sp?) at present, so perhaps you should ignore me... *shrug*


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post May 21 2004, 05:18 PM
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If you start sewing the 'seeds of lurve' even if you think its not reeeeally that, and it couldn't reeeeally happen, before you know it those seeds will have grown into a big fat f@ck-off pine tree thats all up your bottom and growing out of your mouth in huge sinewy mass of needles and birds nests ... don't sew if you don't wanna pay the whole range of prices involved in it ... no matter how unlikely it may seem to start off with ...

On the pain side, you may find that if you read, for example, the text on the side of a toothpaste packet, you'll feel that it's talking about YOU and YOUR pain ... Perspective at that point is right out the window ... best thing you can do is wait til you don't care that much anymore ( 6 hours, 1 day, or 3 years later) and look back on it again from an objective view point. You'll find it looks different, very different. If you find a way of achieving this please bottle it and market it at a reasonable price. You'll make a fortune ...


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post May 21 2004, 08:08 PM
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Oh Pab - could I ever have done with you boosting my sensible side about a month ago... rolleyes.gif


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post May 22 2004, 04:12 AM
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I have gone through the same situation in recent months.

I haven't been able to deal with it real well. Sometimes I cried over it, but other times I'd realize that life is too short to get really huffy over people. Yes, they may be special to you, but don't let them get you down!

I don't have any direct advice, really...

Just get through exams as best as you can.


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