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MAtt
sorry i wanna know
so far im straight...
all my polls go to the bottem of the topic list quick but hey
saucy_tara
It's interesting to see so many bi people in a forum that isn't supposed to be about sexual preference!! How come this never happens in real life?, like in niteclubs?? Although sayin that my best friend Emma says I could turn a straight woman queer mwahahahahah wink.gif
Sir Psycho Sexy
*kof* what?!
leopold
I just prefers women. All those soft bits an curves, an the lips an... ooh, everythin!!

Men jus dun cut it...

Me idea of paradise is a place populated wi gorgeous women, an me. Not likely ta happen tho. An if it did I prolly couldn't get a date... sad.gif
Mata
I'm actually really rather pleased to see the score so far! I always hoped that there was something of a bisexual mindset about my animations that would attract likeminded people to my site, it's cool to see that it has happened!

Of course, should there ever be a Matazone convention it could get very interesting after a few beers...

Personally I would have put a 'not explored yet' option on the poll too because lets face it, there's really no hurry to find this kind of thing out about yourself and we do have some young posters on here.
Sir Psycho Sexy
well they always say the difference between a straight and bi man is about 6 pints (of beer/vodka/whatever your poison)... i guess it could hold true for women too...maybe after less drink though


EDIT:: Convention sounds like fun too, i was just wondering how many people might recognise my mr snaffleburger t-shirt at reading this year
saucy_tara
CONVENTION!!! I'd come.....I mean, um, I'd be there( sorry, it's been too long past the age of consent for me to think innocently...)
leopold
QUOTE (Sir_Psycho_Sexy @ Mar 31 2003, 07:46 PM)
well they always say the difference between a straight and bi man is about 6 pints (of beer/vodka/whatever your poison)

LOL! Mebbe even I could get lucky then wink.gif
Sir Psycho Sexy
no mebe about it sunshine wink.gif
leopold
rawr!! biggrin.gif

NO! Stobbit leo!! Yer gettin married!
saucy_tara
Just coz u onna diet dun mean u can't look at tne menu, nest pas??
leopold
Oh yeah - ya wanna do that goin off wi women thing...

k, that's cool wi me. As long as ya dun mind me doin the same!
craziness
well as you all already know i am only 13, but i belive that i am straight. i mean, i know i might change my opinion, but i dont think i will, and i know that a lot of you are probably thinking oh she is just trying to be a conformist but i am sorry i am straight. ok. thats the story with me. hi.
leopold
QUOTE (craziness @ Mar 31 2003, 08:49 PM)
i know that a lot of you are probably thinking oh she is just trying to be a conformist

YOU!?!

Why would any o us think that about ya? I mean, it's not as tho ya come across that way... Why would ya care anyways??

Heh, a stigma about bein straight, that's precious that is!! Sorry crazi, but it is...
saucy_tara
I think at 13 you are too young to really know exactly how you feel about your sexuality anyways. My head was all over the place at 13, and I needed a lot of time to accept the fact that i was bisexual. You are the way you are Crazi, and straight, bi, gay, whatever, no one should think any the less of you or judge you for any sexual preference you may have, you are your own person in your own right. Besides, you have plenty of time to be an adult, so ride with it!!! smile.gif
Sarah the Spider
I'm straight, most certainly. Some, or, A LOT of my friends are bisexual, and they're like "Isn't that girl hott?" And I don't really see what they mean. Sure there are pretty girls, but...no, none of that for me, thanks, not in "that way"...Well, my friend Christina is really really pretty...she could turn a straight girl gay if she tried I bet...
MAtt
this has been my most sucsessful topic to date.
And i did notice some bi-sexual stuff in the animations
I didn't put a not explored thing cuz i wanted a straight (haha get it) answer
leopold
Ho ho ho MAtt!!! Very good... unsure.gif

I'm able to objectively assess guys as bein attractive - but this is as a combination of being comfortable with my sexuality an havin lots of women friends.
Mata
Crazi, like I say, there's plenty of time to settle into being whatever you are. If you're straight and you already know that then that's great for you, it takes some people a lot of messing around before that's what they decide to be.

I know that it does sometimes seem that there are issues about conformity and suchlike about gender preference, but like all things in life once you make and educated choice then there is no such thing as conformity.

All I've ever asked of people is that they can give the reasons behind the decisions that they have made whether it's buying a pair of shoes ("they are more expensive but I can afford it and they are the most comfortable" if that's true then go for it) to being gay/bi/straight. As long as people have thought about these things rather than just reacted in the way that they are expected to I'm happy to respect that decision.
LoLo
I put straight. I'm boring. I do however think that some girls are super hot, just never had the yearning to jump their bones as much as men.

Either way, any preference, everyones cool in my book!
Sarah the Spider
Mata, once again, a vessel through which enlightenment flows...
leopold
QUOTE (Mata @ Mar 31 2003, 10:34 PM)
...but like all things in life once you make and educated choice then there is no such thing as conformity.

I feel the need ta be contentious just before bedtime...

I hafta disagree with ya on this point Mata. There are areas where conformity is expected. Fer instance, me job - OK, I'm a tech of sorts, but part of the job is interactin with the end users. If I turned up dressed how I'd like ta dress, I wouldn't last 5 minutes! So I wear the suit an tie an don't colour me hair as it "presents a professional image".

Yes, ya can argue that I've sold out an that I don't have ta do that. But I like the idea of havin somethin ta do. I like havin a career, despite the stress. I like climbin that corporate ladder cos it gives me a sense o purpose an (forgive the inner narcissist here) importance. I choose to "sell out" cos I get the benefits an trappins of workin.

Yes, I agree it's bollocks. But that's the system. I could fight it, but I'm not prepared to go without money or a job. As me father-in-law says (an this is me actual one, not Tara's dad!), "Don't let your principles interfere with your welfare." I was unemployed once, I hated it, an I've no intention o goin there again!

I guess there was a point in there somewhere... unsure.gif
craziness
what i meant about the conforming thing is being so young, if i were not straight i would be teased constantly, not accepted at all, or asked to perform acts with other girls for $ constantly. i dont doubt that i do not know any people who are seriously bi or gay right now who are my age, but they are just too scared to come out. people who pretend they are bi to get $ and attention sicken me. thats like those russian lesbians.......
diceisdice
bi. ~cough~ and know everyone Knows. Except my family, but let's face it, that's not likely to happen anytime soon.

Now give me money and attention smile.gif

Seriously... just tossing this in: I've heard from some people about how they were teased in j/h and h/s about being gay or whatever else and it seems like they come out just to piss off their tormentors: yes I am, and proud, so eff you who are trying to insult me. In j/h I was called a lesbian for not having pictures of the Home Improvement boys in my locker. Anyone have a similar experience?

Also, I never heard that about bi people until coming out, such as it was...
MistressAlti
QUOTE (LoLo @ Mar 31 2003, 05:35 PM)
I put straight. I'm boring. I do however think that some girls are super hot, just never had the yearning to jump their bones as much as men.

Those are my thoughts exactly, LoLo
Jaq
I'm straight. Yeah, and boring too. Oh well. I love all my girl friends though. Meh.
jicama
QUOTE (diceisdice @ Apr 1 2003, 05:03 AM)
Seriously... just tossing this in: I've heard from some people about how they were teased in j/h and h/s about being gay or whatever else and it seems like they come out just to piss off their tormentors: yes I am, and proud, so eff you who are trying to insult me.

actually, that's how i felt about my geekism and atheism in junior high...

truthfully, i don't think of myself as gay, straight or bi. i don't get crushes, or any of that... it's like the part of my brain that is supposed to be all sexuallie seems to be stuck in childhood. not that i mind, it seems to cut out a lot of the hassel stress of adult life. it just makes it awkward when a nice guy asks me out and i hafta let him down...
Jaq
QUOTE (jicama @ Apr 1 2003, 05:34 AM)
all sexuallie

Is that even a word?
jicama
it is in jicamaland.
Jaq
QUOTE (Jaq @ Apr 1 2003, 05:34 AM)
I'm straight. Yeah, and boring too. Oh well. I love all my girl friends though. Meh.

May as well be asexual for all the action I get though
Free Psycho
Bleh
simply,I'm a spastic
i like 2 fink of myself as 'undecided' have been known 2 experimane wiv the ladies now and then,2 4 a dare,2 for fun-its all in fun though-ITS WHAT GIRLS DO!lol tongue.gif
simply,I'm a spastic
P.S-yes girls,girls ARE better kissers-they know just how 2 do it smile.gif
carly
I be straight. I like the men folk biggrin.gif
simply,I'm a spastic
men are fun 2 toy with-i like 2 hurt their brains with my twisted little thoughts tongue.gif
carly
QUOTE (simply @ I'm a spastic,Apr 1 2003, 08:58 PM)
men are fun 2 toy with-i like 2 hurt their brains with my twisted little thoughts tongue.gif

it's nice to have a hobby happy.gif
craziness
i just love boys they are so easy to fool around with. biggrin.gif
leopold
QUOTE (simply @ I'm a spastic,Apr 1 2003, 08:58 PM)
men are fun 2 toy with-i like 2 hurt their brains with my twisted little thoughts tongue.gif

An ya don't have a bloke cos...?

Sorry, that wus nasty. I apologise unreservedly, mainly cos I likes ya poetry...

/me hugs simply in a nice gesture kinda way

An yer thoughts can't hurt me brain any more than it hurts already... me got headache... me wanna drill holes in me skull... *ow* sad.gif
ravein
ahahaha.. I had to put gay.. I identify with myself more as a lesbian that bi, but like I explained in the other thread... I see the beauty in all.. but I cant be in a relationship with a man. We just don't gel.. we are great friends but that's it.
Craziness you are right.. don't conform for any reason.. follow your heart to straight land or gay land.. just do it cause it is you, and it makes you happy. Life is to short to do otherwise.. tongue.gif
Alex The Kender
I'm bisexual... but it seems like I prefer girls/guys more than the other at different times, maybe a month at a time or so. ehhh is that normal? unsure.gif
ravein
I think that is very normal Alex.. whatever makes you happy.. sometimes I like techno, sometimes I like jazz.. most of the time I like girls.. soemtimes I like boys..it just depends on the way the wind blows... laugh.gif
Smallsam
I like boys.

Im boring. I suck.

...lol, I love that everyone is so open here. If you think about it, its kind of like the opposite of the outside world. You feel almost like you should be teased because youre straight...
...I think Im just paranoid. Yeah, Im thinkin thats it.
craziness
im with you there sam
ravein
hahahaha, that is a first in this world. smile.gif
It is nice that everyone is so open. The rest of the world is just nutz.. I think that everyone would be so much happier if everyone could accept people for what they are and not what they want them to be.. **tear** singing**dream the impossible dream------- laugh.gif
craziness
you know, a matazone convention would really be great, but it would never work sad.gif
Smallsam
Sometimes I think it would be great to be a lesbian. Because I know sooo many amazing, single, funny, beautiful girls that all the males seem to overlook because their boobs arnt big enough. It makes me sick.

I have a whole bunch of make-believe lesbian relationships, though. smile.gif

I have a fiancee, a wife, a mistress, a girlfriend, a prostitute, a soul mate, and an infatuation. We scare/ turn on boys. Theyre who I turn to when I need a hug. Girls are awesome.

WHY MUST BOYS BE SO PRETTY?!?
Gah... stupid heterosexuality...
ravein
I think we should get a bio dome... have a commune... I can teach art and pottery classes... and teach how to blow glass (just as soon as I learn how).. we can have lolo music night, and noname movie selection..and smallsam can be the camp counselor...inky and leo can lead the revolution... biggrin.gif
craziness
lol the boys my age cant expect girls to have big boobs but i do and they overlook me because i am not a twig and i am not blonde and i am insane. go figure. the best girls will always be overlooked. *flips hair*
Smallsam
Woo! Im a counselor!

LIGHTS OUT AT THREE! NO BOYS IN THE GIRLS CABINS!

...oh wait... that wouldnt do anything...
Uhm...

...time for crafts?
craziness
hehehe i wanna go there!!
i dont think we would have the no boys in the girls cabin rule though.....
and oh come on 3? that is so early!!!!!!
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