For those of you that take it seriously and don't just marry for the joke of it, do you really have a strong friendship with all of your spouses? Is it really right? Do your spouses get jealous of each other? Do you think about their feelings when remarrying again and again and again?!

I dunno. x_x. *sigh* /me stalks off and ponders

i'm sad to say that..even though i be ambiguous..i enjoy me e-marriage to me e-spouse espresso_bean

however it's hard to carryon a relationship/friendship whatever with someone who isn't around anymore...

so in that case, if i do decide to get an e-divorce and e-remarry...since espresso isn't around anymore, she wouldn't really know of it and then i would be an e-polygamist...

i guess it would be ok once everything is explained if espresso is ever seen again, but i do see where you're coming from...there have been many multiple spouses/marriages lately with forumites having more and more e-spouses...it depends i guess on how you and the spouse feel about it i guess...

if you have an open relationship and have both agreed...then it's ok...if not then ask...if your espouse doesn't like it..well..you've been emarried so honor those emarriage vows

(although espresso and i didn't have a ceremony...we eloped...)

well, i just do it for the joke of it now....cause it's funny to come up with themed weddings....but.....

i met my husband online...and we e-dated and had an e-wedding. i would have been devastated if he'd gone and e-married someone else, quite honestly. but i don't think most people on here take it that seriously.

i do have a good friendship with lindy, but as we're just friends, i can't see either of us minding if the other is e-polygamous. as for jaq...well that was just for the joke of having a caveman themed wedding....and she was the only one willing who i was talking to in IRC, lol.

i think those of us on here who do take it seriously don't do other e-marriages....so i don't think it's even an issue with them.

well cheese married someone else but our friendship iso close that one other person never hurts.... he has become my best friend and i love him again...i would like to e-marry again just to have somethin fresh.. hehehe,,,,, but theyll never replace cheese.. and only one more.. no more than 2

um well im married to Jaq, Syuu and the other person is D right?

um that was jsut for some 4 way wedding i think. i dont even talk to 2 of them. lol.
i talk to Syuu but only on the forums.

woohoo arnt i so close to my spouses?

he he.

Spuglet and I are married and we hardly even speak to each other

It'd be interesting to get leo's and cheese's opinion on this...

But anyway, as for me, the Kybosh and I are e-married exclusively to each other, so I don't know how much help I'll be to you here. (Don't know why I'm posting then....) All I can say is that him and me are very close friends, and although I probably wouldn't get e-married to anyone else, I can see why someone might want to. InKy's not always here, and sometimes it'd be nice to have someone e-around more often. But could I e-marry anyone that I wasn't pretty good friends with? No, probably not. The list of people I could even think of as a second e-spouse is very small, and that person could never replace what InKy is to me, although they'd be a welcome addition. Also, would I get e-married again without considering his feelings? Absolutely not.

I'd tend to agree with Cand that "those of us on here who do take it seriously don't do other e-marriages....so i don't think it's even an issue with them", although I would really like to hear what leo or cheese would say about any of this.

so u wont marry me then?

erk! Can't imagine why...

Well, I e-wed saucy tara partly as a bit o fun; we were flirtin in a thread one time, an I said summat like "oh, I'm so gonna marry you!" an she agreed! So we did! We were pretty close fer a while, an we still keep in touch sometimes. I'm hopeless at e-mail relationships though, an I never seem to get round to it...

It's a similar deal wi pie an the, erm, number 2 wife who remains nameless (except to clever ole inky, who figured it out in chat last week, an those who were there at the time)... we had a sorta friendship buildin anyway, an the e-marriage was part o that. Number 2 has long since replied to any message I sent her, sadly, but I do speak with pie when she's around.

Jaq was, I admit, a weddin fer a laugh. I do adore her, though, an I dun regret it fer a moment - especially since it was such a blast! An of course, jaq is super great

It's odd, though, that the people I've been closest to here (apart from Tara) never actually got e-wed to me...

*raises eyebrow* wow this is an intrasting topic...but no I'm not jealous of Kid or Ghost lol...I'm not the Jealous type..I have even told my In real life GF that she can see other ppl as well...I cant lol and if she ever finds this board all i have to say is "RUN LOGIC RUN" lol...I'm j/k but no i dont feel at all jealous I'm quiet happy and I still love everyone

I thoroughly enjoy my e-marriage to Narth and I do take it seriously, but I think there's nothing wrong with e-polygamy. I dunno if she thinks so...

Cheese and I were in e-love and then I went on a trip out of town and came back to see he was e-married to a newer member on the forum. And I was very very sad. But I thought, "Hey, why not marry him anyway and make it a big happy family!" but that didn't work either, even though I love you Nummy dear. So now I'm e-alone.

*sigh*

ok...someone point me in the direction and history of e-weddings???


...thanks!

Aww. *pats Sarah on the back* x_x

It's okay, Sarah. We all love you.

Thank you. *hugz back*

All the e-weddins are stuffed in the Daft forum, somewhere.

Start at the beginnin, which was mine to Saucy Tara. After that, it's a bit of a blur...

i married kidvic out of boredom...first time we talked, she im'ed me and then she proposed...eh, why not?

i was friends with the ladies i married... and i do love them... its sorta hard to explain how i feel on e-marriages though... just because... well... im not good with putting my thoughts into words sometimes.... i dont take them too seriously... and i dont get jealous... i can sorta see why someone would get jealous... and i can see why sarah left me... despite her leaving me, i do still love her alot.. and she will always be my e-wife at heart.... but marry again, is something ill never do..... afterwards when i felt like i betrayed sarah, that hurt... and knowing that i could have lost nummy as well... that hurt me too.... sure... an e-marriage is great... 2 might be ok, depending on people... but.... i think 3 might be too much.... thats just my opinion...

*cough* Exactly.

Fuzzy's me only remotely un-daft e-marriage. =P I actually fancy him and look up to the guy a great lot, I think he's indeed one of my closest friends on here, and absolutely awesome to talk to when he's up and about.

Jaq, Debs, and Hins? So daft. So joking. But I'm pretty sure Fuzzy doesn't care. o_o

i only have one e-spouse ... and i married him after a drunken session in the matazone singles bar the first night i met him but i love him dearly - id give up both earlobes for my dayan i would ... he is the only reason i survived without the internet ... mainly cause he was the only person whos phone numbers i had extracted

i love all my other e-people too though ... hinsley, lil pie fairy, syuu et al ... but i have boundary issues ...

Well reaper and I e-married for three reasons:

1. We're too young to get married right now, we got our whole lives to get to that, what's the hurry?

2. We're boyfriend and girlfriend.

3. We love each other very much.

E-polygamy is fine as a joke but I would not do it myself, I have an angel I dun need another guy that's for sure..or a girl. Sometimes I do question to myself about this whole multiple e-marriage thing. Eh. Anyway I am happily in love and am not interested in another hubby, thanks.

I guess basically unless it is mutually agreed upon to be exclusive, e-marriages should be taken as a fun and light-hearted "relationship". I shouldn't have thought so much about mine. I am just a rather non-desired female in reality so when I got asked to be e-married I thought too much. Eh. I am not sad that I'm e-alone again though because Cheese is still my numero uno amigo.

Summat I forgot to add before...

As I'm married in RL, e-marriages ain't entirely serious fer me anyway. I do like the people I tie the e-knot with, but it's pretty hard ta say it's serious wi someone I never actually met in person.

too true - - it is all fun and games. i don't think anyone takes it seriously though..........at least i hope not. hehehe

Ofc some of us dont even have one e-spouse

You greedy lot!

i'll marry you if you want ... D has enough wives and i need someone to make me happy and snuggle while hes away

Lol awww

Ok

Yaay i feel so loved

yay!!!


ok ... we need a wedding pronto ... can we dress up? are you a girl? whats happening?

i need to go do my hair ...

Yes im a girl

I dunno what happening

Listen to the pixies...

Some people DO at least have bonds of friendships between them and their e-spouses, so I dunno what to tell ya...

And... asking people to marry you is NOT the point of this thread

sorry elf ... i was overcome ...

i seem to be forming a pattern ... i marry a total stranger in a drunken and debaucherous ceremony and then realise that they are lovely people and pine for them whenever theyre not here ... i dont see the point in e-marriage if youre not at least gona be forum buddies