Leading on from Logic's virginity poll, I was wondering: for those of us who aren't virgins, how old were you when you lost it? I was (and still am) fifteen.

I was 18, and wish I'd waited. I'm 23 now, and still crave to find my cherry again!

16

16

I was 17 (blimey that's 10 years ago! ). I waited until I was ready with someone I loved at the time, my boyfriend. We'd been together over 6 months and we both felt it was time, etc., etc. It was memorable (we did it on a boat holiday!) but it wasn't particularly fantastic but then I don't know anyone who's first time was

Sam
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Yeah, mine was in my college lunch break.

i usually pretend i lost it with my first girlfriend....but there was a time before that....either way i was 16

I was 18

15...with my current boyf...like pixie, it wasn't earth-shattering, but it has improved a lot since then!

18... a drunken one night stand... *sigh*

i was 17 (still am) , and OH the consequences!can't argue it was great but i'm not quite sure it was worth what i went through!

*agrees with Lil Pie Fairy,yes,things certainly have improved!*

Cool I'm the oldest yet! 19

15. i was drunk but for me knowigibly i would had lost it when i was 16.

oooooooh juicy explain..............

dude-lol EARLY STARTER!nowt wrong with that-just-lol rather bewildering

Sexualy I haven't lost my Virginity and still proud

well,why do you think it's wrong?was the guy like 30???

*eeeeeewwwwwwwww!*

it was your choice,your decicion

*i know thats the same thing but i was trying to make myself sound intelligent-didn't really work though did it?! *

well-do you mean it wasn't your choice as in u were pressured into doing it,or do you mean it wasn't your choice as in u were forced into it whether u liked it or not..................

*whispers* rape???

jesus

shit i'm so sorry,if i'd had known i wouldn't have kept on about it

sorry

*laughs* no harm no foul I'm fine...I'm over it...I'm 13 I'm a big girl

sorry to hear that

and the award for dropping one's foot in it goes to.................

*drumroll*

ME!

You couldnt have known, so don't beat yourself up.....

*sighs* guys dont worry I'm fine *laughs* really no one start beating yourself up..I'm fine really

okies,i apologise,and me thinks its time to DROP this particular subject!

Yay I'm the oldest at 20.

It was to a guy I was seeing who I no longer speak to...

The current boyf I'm more comfortable with in a lot more ways.

@...........14 i think,,,it was a blurr...it was one of my school teachers...


..sorry bout that E-L1200... glad your doing fine now!!!

how do you mean?

*apologises for slowness-it's been a long day*

lol Slowness is forgiven!

I'm just happier with my current boyf - he's a bit more...mature shall we say, than the old one, and he's pretty damn good in bed as well.



(Was that too much information?!)

It was on my 18th birthday to my best friend/fiancé-at-the-time (long story).

Name the one who has violated you and, at your command, he will die by my hands.

umm wow...I'm not gonna ask...



if I knew his named I'd tell ya...hell if I even knew what he looked like I'de tell ya lol...

Damn.

i was 15 - i am now 19. yeah......that's it really.

*sigh* i was 3 months to 18...i dont regret it..but it was a very fubarred situation.

Ok, I have a question...what's the legal age that you can have sex in America?...I was just wondering if it was different than in Britain

americas 18 i think.

It depends actually, in some states , wi th parental consent u can be active at 16...the rest is at 18...

lol good enough reason!

i've only ever had the one lover,and i'm damn happpy with him

i was 18.....was to the guy i'm now married to.

Personally, I won't be losing my virginity til I'm married, or so I plan. I don't know when that will be.

Yay Logic... thats nice, I dont envy you , I understand the Catholic ways...oh no sister Olga..not the gold metal ruler on my knuckles again!!! ahhh!!!!



No seriously , it's sweet ....

i was nearly 18, about 6 weeks before my 18th birthday so it's not fair saying it was 17, now is it? i've only ever been with that person and my now husband and i'm 21 now yay for being a happy housewife!

check out this site. it will give you specifics. it doesn't rely on "parental consent" ever (as far as i can tell from the site anyway)
http://www.ageofconsent.com/ageofconsent.htm
also shows alll the other countries of the world ages of consent too, mostly these days it's 16 for hetero sex in america but some places are still at 18. and some are 16 if the over16person is only a few years difference (eg you can't be 30 or 40 and have sex with a 16 year old in some states)

17. stupid EDITing mistake.

I like to think I grew my viginity back (ew!) and let my boyfriend have it.

Makes sense.

I have this odd system of virginity. Try to hear me out on this.

I believe there are four types of virginity: Guy virginity, girl virginity, guy-emotional virginity and girl-emotional virginity. When I had sex with Harmonie, she had already lost her guy virginity while she was wasted (grrr). When she had sex with me, it had actually meant something to her, so she lost her guy-emotional viginity to me. SHe had already lost her girl virginity and her girl-emotional virginity a long time before to one of her earlier girlfriends. I guess it goes the same for guys. Now, I'm not saying you can't lose your specific gender virginity and your specific gender emotional virginity. I knocked out girl virgintiy and girl-emotional virginity at the same time. I feel that thet's the best way to do it personally. I kind of wish that Harm would ahve been a physical virgin when she and I made love so that at least we could have shared that. She is my best friend, after all.