TigerLily013
Aug 1 2003, 02:42 AM
I feel everyone in life, and on here (not pointing fingers but has noticed an increase in tension) has said something at least once in their lives that they regret saying to the other. Sometimes this remorse can take hours, days,weeks, months or even years till it sinks in.
What I wanna know is what have you said that you have regretted or regret now whether its RL or on here, doesn't matter to me. Voice it out people!
Logicman
Aug 1 2003, 02:47 AM
hmm... I have always tried to live my life in a way so that I have no regrets.
(By the way, my English teacher would kill you for saying "Of" on the title, not "Have.")
Sarah the Spider
Aug 1 2003, 02:58 AM
Hmm...well I don't think I have too many regrets on the forum. I think everyone likes me...*

hopes everyone likes me...

" on here.
In RL I have a lot of regrets...things I didn't say, people I didn't give a chance...
I guess one of the biggest regrets I have is that I let someone get totally out of my life, and he was the only person I was ever in love with. Or I think I was in love with. He was a friend of mine and I was so incredibly fond of him and when I stopped seeing him in RL (he used to go somewhere I hang out but he stopped; not because of me, though) I didn't even IM him or anything anymore. We just slipped away from each other. And even though it was a year ago I still kinda miss him...just a little...tiny...large...bit.
'Tis life.
candice
Aug 1 2003, 03:02 AM
i have no regrets on here whatsoever. i don't think i've done anything that i
should regret.
irl, i did have regrets...but, i've forgiven myself for all that crap a long time ago.

it's best that way...can't dwell on these things.
Sarah the Spider
Aug 1 2003, 03:09 AM
*asks meekly*
Are you all fond of me? I don't recall doing anything very regrettable on here...but if you would bring it to my attention...maybe PM me I guess...
*is very uneasy suddenly*
VVes
Aug 1 2003, 03:09 AM
I think I regret the effect that what I say has on people , not really to what I say, but hey, I'm not a gold coin, not everyone has to like me? And if everyone liked everyone else all the time it be boring???
You have a mind, use it and speak of it!!! Else you die!
wolfbane
Aug 1 2003, 08:28 AM
I don't think I have any regrets on the forum. I don't think I've got enough posts to have anything to regret on the forum! lol
I do have a couple of RL regrets - letting one of my best friends slip away from me is one. It's kinda like Sarah's regret in a way - I was head over heels for him, and we were best friends, then we just kinda started getting less close, and then last year he started going out with another one of my friends and I haven't spoken to him properly since May...he lives 5 minutes walk down the road.
I also regret going out with someone, mainly because of the way it ended. It could have been handled a lot better both on my part and his, but I suppose I'm not the one being childish about it now...
Oh well, c'est la vie.
WeeJ
Aug 1 2003, 08:31 AM
I've been recently told (by someone on this forum) that I appear to be a very gentle person.
I don't know if thats true but I go out of my way to be nice to people. It doesn't take much to just be kind to someone.
TigerLily013
Aug 1 2003, 11:24 AM
QUOTE (Logicman @ Jul 31 2003, 10:47 PM)
hmm... I have always tried to live my life in a way so that I have no regrets.
(By the way, my English teacher would kill you for saying "Of" on the title, not "Have.")
Well your english teacher IS NOT here so =P to him Logic.
Good responses indeed, keep them coming.
Sarah, I dun know you too well but I've seen you on here long enough to know that your a very nice and very cool person. Just keep on being who you are and I'll keep saying that lol.
CommieBastard
Aug 1 2003, 11:34 AM
I can think of something I said recently that didn't go down too well, and I wish I could take back...
hinsley
Aug 1 2003, 11:41 AM
meh, i have no regrets for anything that ive done. sumtimes i dont like how things have turened out from wat i have said but its jsut help me learn.
i have no regrets about wat might have effected wat people think of me. if people dont like wat i say then they dont like my personality and i dont wish to change for them.
Sir Psycho Sexy
Aug 1 2003, 12:33 PM
well i tend to have a fairly long fuse on my temper (most of the time) so anything i say in anger is usually pretty justified, at least to myself....
there are a few things i do regret though.....but they all happen when i'm drunk.....i usually make a tit of myself when i'm drunk >.<
{Gothic Angel}
Aug 1 2003, 03:54 PM
I have many things i regret saying- i have a very short fuse on my temper and people who dont know me too well take it personally. It doesn really help that i get bad hypoglycemia so as soon as the blood sugar drops, so does my tolerance level.
On the other hand, things really get to me for a while, but eventually you gotta get over them and get on with life.
VVes
Aug 1 2003, 04:00 PM
QUOTE ({Gothic Angel} @ Aug 1 2003, 04:54 PM)
I have many things i regret saying- i have a very short fuse on my temper and people who dont know me too well take it personally. It doesn really help that i get bad hypoglycemia so as soon as the blood sugar drops, so does my tolerance level.
On the other hand, things really get to me for a while, but eventually you gotta get over them and get on with life.
I don't think I'm hypoglycemic, but I understand the sugar blood stuff..I get really irritable when I'm hungry...anything you say will tick me off... but i can't control it..except to eat something...or maybe I am ??? now u got me thinking!!!
{Gothic Angel}
Aug 1 2003, 04:08 PM
Lol sucks, dont it?
VVes
Aug 1 2003, 04:25 PM
QUOTE ({Gothic Angel} @ Aug 1 2003, 05:08 PM)
Lol sucks, dont it?
Oh yeah, it's like jackyll and hyde, I have to go around apologizing for my stupid outbursts afterwards... sad really..so i try not to ever get hungry... which in a way i use food to control my mood I suppose?
{Gothic Angel}
Aug 1 2003, 04:28 PM
I keep a mars bar in my bag- the ultimate blood sugar rush

It really annoys me when people use the fact that I have this thing to wind me up deliberaely tho- the amount of times ive been in fights cos of it
Mingtea
Aug 1 2003, 04:31 PM
QUOTE (WeeJ @ Aug 1 2003, 09:31 AM)
I've been recently told (by someone on this forum) that I appear to be a very gentle person.
I don't know if thats true but I go out of my way to be nice to people. It doesn't take much to just be kind to someone.
V true.
WP
Me i've never regretted anything really, if i said anything that bad i would not have been here now.
leopold
Aug 1 2003, 08:09 PM
Gah! I've regretted sayin stuff before today... tends to happen most when I'm stressed out or if I see summat that winds me up or generally gets on the wrong side of me... I've vented off at people in RL a number o times. An here, too... so if I've upset anyone here, I'm really sorry fer bein such a jerk...
porcelainwarrior
Aug 1 2003, 09:25 PM
i kinda regret not being as outspoken here as i am in real life ... in fact im worried now in case people think iv am outspoken ... but im waaay worse IRL however you view me here

yeah ... i just think that ive perhaps not voiced my true opinion on some things or not been as honest on subjects which affect me as i could have been (not that ive lied at all ever ... just not told full story ... or something ... i cant remember where any of this was going now ...)
i just dont want to say things in case you all hate me!
QUOTE (Logicman @ Jul 31 2003, 07:47 PM)
(By the way, my English teacher would kill you for saying "Of" on the title, not "Have.")
I was going to comment on that

Well, I dunno... I do regret making Hinsley one of my estranged sisters after the whole Covert incident, but I really don't have any other regrets... x_x Except for marrying ecco in the first place.
Jonman
Aug 1 2003, 10:09 PM
I regret more the things I didn't say. Like
"No, I don't love you anymore. Moving in would be utter madness and will only end up in heartache"
That would have saved a truckload of trouble.
Tsk.
TigerLily013
Aug 2 2003, 01:39 AM
Preety interesting responses.
Leo, trust me your a good guy, you haven't said anything worng to what I noticed.
Porce, same here.
Now the thing I dun really see is elabouration. Ok, i understand if some thigns are REEEEEEEALLY personal, and that's ok but i mean explanation is key and how it made you feel...and for pete's sake, its not like i F*cked my grammar that bad did i?
talking to faeries
Aug 2 2003, 12:16 PM
I just spent ages writing a reply and then I lost the internet connection so I'll have to start again..If I can remember it all.
I don't think I've got any regrets on what I've said. I hope I haven't on here. I'm quite a passive person and it takes alot to get me angry. In real life, if I get into an argument with someone I tend to accept everything that they say and not stick up for myself very much. I'm afraid of hurting people's feelings, so I'd rather people say hurtful things to me than me say something to them (that sounds pretty stupid doesn't it?) So, if I did have a regret it would be that I don't say enough, I should say more..not to hurt another person, but just to stick up for myself.
hinsley
Aug 2 2003, 01:02 PM
QUOTE (elf @ Aug 1 2003, 10:35 PM)
QUOTE (Logicman @ Jul 31 2003, 07:47 PM)
(By the way, my English teacher would kill you for saying "Of" on the title, not "Have.")
I was going to comment on that

Well, I dunno... I do regret making Hinsley one of my estranged sisters after the whole Covert incident, but I really don't have any other regrets... x_x Except for marrying ecco in the first place.
oh yeah i kinda regret the covert thing, but we sorted it out right?
and in RL im really quiet (BELEIVE IT OR NOT!) so i dont really say anything i regret, cause i dont really speak. lol.
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