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rabbit
You know what's sad about living where I live and going to school where I do? Lots of things, but this one really bugs me. I'll probably be the only virgin in school and a junior to add. It's sad, really. Not because I'm a virgin, but because no one else is. It makes me feel left out in a lot of ways, when I know it shouldn't. sad.gif
Edward_lover1200
how old are you? if you dont mind me asking...

and dont feel bad...it's good your still a virgin...not enough in this world as it is...*hugs* dont feel down... sad.gif be proud smile.gif *hugs*
Edward_lover1200
I looked at your profile...
are you 15 or 16 I'm half asleep so I dont feel like doing the math...but either way...dont feel bad...nothing wrong with being a virgin..*shrugs* then again I have nothing left to preach on so I should shut up lol... laugh.gif but truth is...Be proud biggrin.gif *hugs*
craziness
you know what, it doesnt matter what everybody else does. you are allowed to make your own decisions. where do you live?
deadlymittins181
be proud and say it loud !!!!!!!!!!
VIRGINS RULES THE WORLD!!!!!!!
plus in every scary movie the virgin never dies! if you r ever in a scary movie situation u have a good chance of not dieing lol, but now i have to come bac to reality..............still virgins rule!!!!!! hell yea!!!! laugh.gif
Sun Tsu
QUOTE (deadlymittins181 @ Aug 12 2003, 05:33 PM)
be proud and say it loud !!!!!!!!!!
VIRGINS RULES THE WORLD!!!!!!!
plus in every scary movie the virgin never dies! if you r ever in a scary movie situation u have a good chance of not dieing lol, but now i have to come bac to reality..............still virgins rule!!!!!! hell yea!!!! laugh.gif

Yeah, it always seems to be the slutty teenage cheerleader that dies first... huh.gif
VVes
yeah but its the virgins that the gods want sacrificed..we're all domed in some way regardless or virginity...hahahah....

but back to the point... you feel left out??? of what ??? that you can't talk about what they're talking about???

that , maybe you feel dissapointed you cant find someone with your opinions or philosophy on virginity?

keep in mind , a lot of people are "closet virgins" they just "become part of the group" because most aren't , you may be surprised how many virgins there are really... don't fret...theres always a chance you can find someone with your views and values...

and congrats...you have a choice ... choose wisely!!!
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leopold
QUOTE (rabbit @ Aug 12 2003, 08:24 AM)
I'll probably be the only virgin in school and a junior to add. It's sad, really. Not because I'm a virgin, but because no one else is.

I think wes said this already, but it's worth sayin again... I bet yer in the majority - I reckon about 90% o those who say they aren't virgins, actually are, but are too overwhelmed by the "shame" of bein a virgin that they jus say they are... it's nowt but peer pressure. I loathe peer pressure, cos it made my school life an utter misery: People decided to dislike me an bully me an such jus cos "the cool kids do it". This is one o the reasons I dun want kids, cos they might end up in the same mess I did... either that or I dun wanna kill 'em fer givin in to it...

Anyway, losin yer virginity is a big deal. Do that when yer ready, not cos some stupid kid ya dun even know or like tells ya to. Ya won't be missin out on much, cos I bet most of 'em just quote from older siblings...
rabbit
QUOTE (craziness @ Aug 12 2003, 12:28 PM)
you know what, it doesnt matter what everybody else does. you are allowed to make your own decisions. where do you live?

I live in the ghetto part of New Jersey; Newark. There were already 3 pregnant females in my school last year. Guddamn.
Edward_lover1200
3? 3?
try living in Alabama...In 6th grade I had 5..in the highschool I lost count dry.gif
rabbit
QUOTE (leopold @ Aug 12 2003, 02:50 PM)
QUOTE (rabbit @ Aug 12 2003, 08:24 AM)
I'll probably be the only virgin in school and a junior to add. It's sad, really. Not because I'm a virgin, but because no one else is.

I think wes said this already, but it's worth sayin again... I bet yer in the majority - I reckon about 90% o those who say they aren't virgins, actually are, but are too overwhelmed by the "shame" of bein a virgin that they jus say they are... it's nowt but peer pressure.

I was picked on for being a "virgin bisexual" sophmore year... Man, I can only imagine how junior year would be like. "How do you know you like girls," or "How do two girls do it?" How the snarf should I know? Really...

Ok, now I'm sounding dumb.. sad.gif
cheese is funny
you shouldnt worry about being a virgin and being a junior...

hello, my name is jon (hi jon!) im 17, im a junior this coming semester, and im a virgin (yaaaay!!) (<cough>loser<cough>)

<shoots guy who called me a loser>
Prince Aries
No shooting me, Jon. Hey I'm 21 and I'm still a virgin. How dumb is THAT? laugh.gif

I wouldn't worry about it, Rabbit (can I call you Usagi? laugh.gif) You are you and to hell with everyone else's opinions.
Jenocide
I've tried to elaborate such to her over a long period of time..Mebbe because there are other's opinions to match mine, she'll believe me and stop living and worrying about and by other's dictations. Then again, I crack down on her out of love.
magikeyes14
dont feel bad about being a virgin.. they rock! woho! go virgins! and if people tease you for it just tell them that at least you didnt lose it to someone off the street or sum slut or something... being a virgin isnt a big deal, imma virgin and if people give me s**t about it i just tell them that im not a hooker who wants to get on every guy, im waiting for the right time... if they cant excapt who you are, they arent worth your time
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