I was wondering if i was the only deviant on here, so i thought i'd do a rude poll. I have lots of experience with 3somes and wondered if any of you guys did, or if you believe strongly in monogamy. I voted two girls one guy btw.....

I have no current experience of 3somes but it's something I'd very much like to try. Firstly, however, I'd need to get more experience with the girlies

Plus I want to be 100% secure in my relationship with Ed before trying anything otherwise I might just get a tad jealous

Yeah, i think if you wanna threesome you need to be stable in your relationship first, otherwise all sorts of jelousies can happen. I'm very lucky in the fact my bf accepts my bisexuality, and he doesn't mind what i get up to with the girlies!!!! Tee hee!!!!! I'd rather have a threesome with a girl that i know and trust rather than a stranger tho...

Yeah that was what always put me off. Do you have one with someone you know and trust and possibily make thngs awkward in the morning or do you do it with a stranger, feel a bit awkward during but be able to walk away and forget it in the morning

I have met very few women that I would feel comfortable with. Some of my close friends don't even know I'm bi-curious. I don't think I can claim to be bi-sexual as I've never actually had sex with another woman

It's also really hard to pick up women! It's easier with the men coz you can pretty much guarantee they are hetero but you've got very little way of telling with women if they are bi. Unless of course they are wearing dungarees and have crew cuts

P.S. Only joking, don't lynch me!

Hee hee, i've never had a crew cut in my life!!!!!
I have a "gaydar", i can just tell who's up for a bit of lezzie luvin.....

Do they sell those in Argos

Seriously, I'd love to be able to tell but have never really been out and had the opportunity. I've had cyber sex with a girlie (fun, fun, fun) and kissed a coupla girls but nothing more than that

Yeah,they are £9.99 with a free double ender!!!!
Ooo cyber sex with a girlie sounds cool, i've not done it with a girl yet, just the one guy. I'm sure you'll get the experience tho, you just have dance sexily with your mates when you go out, then you'll be noticed!!!

Wish I could but very few of them know about my bi status and I don't really feel the need to tell those that don't (wishing I hadn't told someone specifically but can't take it back now)

I need to go to a gay bar, gay bar, gaaaay bar!

I'm very much into monogamy but that may be because everyone I've gone out with tends to have a bit of a jealous streak so I've not really considered trying anything else because I don't want to hurt the person I love.

yeah i believe in the whole one personness too, but im very open to things like that. currently i have an amazing guy - but would be more than willing to have a little fun if he wanted to bring another girl along.... hehe. but i wouldnt want to use toys i dont think...just old fashioned techniquesxXx

it's never really appealed to me a great deal, i've set my sights a little lower, one girl would do me for now.... if i could find one, i'm not sure what you could do with two girls...wouldn't the guy get left out?? still it'd be fun to watch i guess and i wouldn't wanna do it with a girl and a guy because well....oh....it could work i supposed....i'd just have to be in that mood

My boyf is fine with me fancying girls in fact he actively encourages it! Can't think why

I was cracked onto by a girl in a gay bar once and it just freaked me out My boyfiend knew I was there, knew what I had gone there for and was happy with it (as long as I gave him details ). It just felt wrong. It felt like I was cheating. I would never do it with another man and it just felt like I was being dishonest. It didn't help however that I didn't know the girl, didn't feel comfortable, was relatively knew to my bi feelings and didn't fancy her

There will come and time when I am comfortable and then and only then would I consider moving onto a threesome.

I am currently inexperienced in that area, but I have tentative plans to remedy that. You know who you are.

I nulled my vote because two other girls, two other guys and a guy and a girl would be equally appealing depending on the guys and girls in question.

I'd like to try with a guy and a girl sometime, although I'd be worried the girl might feel left out...

What commie, all at once??!! You have been eating your 3 shredded wheat in the mornins....

i agree with you... it depends on the peple... i am curently inexpierenced, and i dont know if i ever weill be in that area... i get sorta jealous easily... *shrugs* but it depenes... 3 guys, 3 gurl, 1 guy 2 gurls, 1 gurl 2 guys.... its all good lol

What can I say, I have a lot of stamina.

Yes, you proved how much stamina you had when you came at the back (of fifty people) in that cross country run two years ago.

Wouldn't a threesome get complicated? My hand eye co-ordination is bad enough as it is, without having to worry about a third person.

omg! that was funny! it probably would get comlicated.. and one person would probably be board...

I've always been curious as to what it would be like. I was once in a "make-out orgy" with my best friend/exgirlfriend, her exgirlfriend and her best friend. It was interesting. If I were to engage in a threesome, it would have to be with a girlfriend I'm really devoted to and a dear, perhaps mutual friend of ours.

I got lost, [COUGH! - Mata], shut up.

Yes, that's the corporate lie you fed to the teachers.

Rory and I wandering around suburbia asking people if they'd seen people in rugby kit running past...that was f*cking traumatic, I can tell you.

Do you want the number for a good psychiatrist?

My heart bleeds for you, by the way.

*Heart bleeds unenthusiastically*

I currently have no concious memory of any such events , but then again I've been know to get plastered to the point of losing moments in time...

I would probably be open to anything, I'm willing to try it.

But, if I were in a serious commitment, it's off, it's me and my "beloved" and nobody else...

..ok I just gave myself a headache...

the first three are such a touff choice i dont really know what to choose its like a apple a pear and a orange all yummy but wich would you rather eat?

That's a very good way of putting it narth. Though personally I'd definatly prefer a pear in this case (and an orange would be impossible....)

Mmmm...fruit...

Have many people here actually had threesomes? Bearing in mind that a lot of people seemed to be virgins, this does seem unlikely.

i havn't had one but i'm no virgin....having said that i think it's grown back...... >.<

I heard the hymen can actually grow back if the girl has a long period of celibacy...

I have in the past, but it didn't really do my brain any good. It's one of those things that a lot of people think is great in theory, but the reality of it is that not all that many would find it healthy for their heads.

I personally have never seen the attraction. It's hard enough keeping a conversation going with three people, let alone sex.

Oh, it's easier to keep the sex going. You don't need to think as much...

Threesomes are my thing. I've been in one, they're lovely and all, but it isn't as though it's a neccessity. Well, now you all know a bit more about me ..

Ok....right...
I have the whole 'bi curious' bollocks going on and my boyfriend also feels very much the same as Sam's boyfriend does.
Its a very sexy idea but probably impractical when serious thought is put into it. Like Sam said, what if I was to sleep with someone I was close to and screw up that friendship? Then again, I couldn't sleep with some random stranger.

If its any consolation Sam...I fancied the pants off you when we finally met at the Mata meet *blush*

/me brain explodes

see...now that...that....it's just...whooo...i mean....gosh...uh....

And after those last few posts a contemplative silence descends across the keyboards of matazonians around the world as pictures appear in their minds without volition...

Mental images of Sam and WeeJ.......*Sigh*

.. Oh hell!

<Tries desperately to tear her eyes away from the forum and .. not have naughty ideas!>

...and roughly 10 to 15 minutes later, the silence is broken by many odd noises...

/me looks around

What?!?! She is hot!

I've talked to Sam a bit about this whole fancying women thing and she's been helpful in as such as she's listnened to me rant.
I've never had an oppertunity to act upon it as it still scares me and I think it will up until something (if it ever does) actually happens. If anything does happen, its going to be in the right context. I love mat and would never hurt him.

O_O


*goes to find Kleenex*

aahhh...us girls have it SO much easier in that department

Mmmm, Syuu and Weejyness, today is a good day to be alive...

Yeah...no standing over a sink for you...you have all the luck, convenience and multiple orgasms...damn you.

Ok...quit having your perverse thoughts of various female formuites you lot

Sorry Jenneh, but you brought up Sam in a post about threesomes. It's beyond our control.

I feel so used

STOP UNDRESSING US WITH YOUR EYES!!!

Eyes is allowed