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CommieBastard
I'm curious as to how this will turn out - in theory it should be approximately Straight 94%, Gay 5%, Bi 1%, but there seems to be a disproportionately large gay/bi contingent here, and I'm interested as to how large.

Oh, and none of the idealistic "I nulled my vote because it shouldn't matter". I know it doesn't matter. I'm just curious.
VVes
Aries was convinced I could be definately Bi, at least, because of the fact my biological father turned out to be Gay. blink.gif

I think he's trying to "Gay it forward"...or something? tongue.gif


:unsure.gif:
Juiceisgood
Straight but I'm open to suggestion.
VVes
QUOTE (Juiceisgood @ Sep 17 2003, 10:27 AM)
Straight but I'm open to suggestion.

Ummm..so tempting... huh.gif
CommieBastard
QUOTE (Juiceisgood @ Sep 17 2003, 05:27 PM)
Straight but I'm open to suggestion.

Then on behalf of the LGBT Alliance, I'd like to send you our Recruitment Pack! You get spandex pants, a feather boa, tickets to the Rocky Horror Show and for this month ONLY you get Greatest Disco Hits of the 80s absolutely free!

Edit: Sorry, but I couldn't resist...what else are you open to, Juice? laugh.gif
VVes
QUOTE (CommieBastard @ Sep 17 2003, 10:31 AM)
QUOTE (Juiceisgood @ Sep 17 2003, 05:27 PM)
Straight but I'm open to suggestion.

Then on behalf of the LGBT Alliance, I'd like to send you our Recruitment Pack! You get spandex pants, a feather boa, tickets to the Rocky Horror Show and for this month ONLY you get Greatest Disco Hits of the 80s absolutely free!

...really? blink.gif
Polocrunch
What does the "T" stand for? Thai?
Juiceisgood
QUOTE
Ummm..so tempting... 


To suggest? Try me big boy blink.gif

QUOTE
Then on behalf of the LGBT Alliance, I'd like to send you our Recruitment Pack! You get spandex pants, a feather boa, tickets to the Rocky Horror Show and for this month ONLY you get Greatest Disco Hits of the 80s absolutely free!


blink.gif

I actually voted straight. I'm quite comfortable with the laydees (as leo would put it) but it would be rather stupid to say that I could never, ever be even bisexual.

But thank you for the pack

*struggles into spandex pants*

*fails and just goes around without pants*
CommieBastard
QUOTE (Polocrunch @ Sep 17 2003, 05:35 PM)
What does the "T" stand for? Thai?

Transgender. Actually.
VVes
QUOTE (Juiceisgood @ Sep 17 2003, 10:35 AM)
blink.gif

I actually voted straight. I'm quite comfortable with the laydees (as leo would put it) but it would be rather stupid to say that I could never, ever be even bisexual.

...agreed... then there is always Spring Break and Vodka...

"Wakes up one morning in a shady hotel room...pulls down blanket...wow, umm miss... why are there fruits between your legs???..."
Juiceisgood
Indeed.


Why, enough vodka and you wouldn't even notice. Not even in the morning... least not with the sort of hangovers I get sad.gif biggrin.gif
VVes
QUOTE (Juiceisgood @ Sep 17 2003, 10:49 AM)
Indeed.


Why, enough vodka and you wouldn't even notice. Not even in the morning... least not with the sort of hangovers I get sad.gif biggrin.gif

Ahhh...ok I'll make sure to leave a camcorder going then ... laugh.gif
MistressAlti
QUOTE (CommieBastard @ Sep 17 2003, 11:39 AM)
QUOTE (Polocrunch @ Sep 17 2003, 05:35 PM)
What does the "T" stand for? Thai?

Transgender. Actually.

Really? I thought it was "Temptable". tongue.gif
syuu
Bisexual. =) I'm very happy, comfy, and secure with my orientation. In fact, it is my friend. I love you bisexuality! *Hugs*
Alanity
I feel exactly the same as Syuu. I love being an uber perve. happy.gif
syuu
Excellent! And a hug for you too. *Hugs Alanity* =P People should never be ashamed of their own sexuality, no matter of the views of those around them.

/me removes captain obvious hat and bows
ravein
QUOTE (syuu @ Sep 17 2003, 02:29 PM)
Bisexual. =) I'm very happy, comfy, and secure with my orientation. In fact, it is my friend. I love you bisexuality! *Hugs*

*hugs Syuus Bisexuality*
I think that Bisexuality is awesome to... I wish i could open myself up to being with men.. but unfortuantly.. I cant... just doesnt feel right. I guess that is how straight folk feel about us smile.gif
WeeJ
I have problems admitting anything to myself, let alone anyone else.
I'm attracted to both male and female but how do I know this isn't just some crazy phase? How do I know that if I try and do anything about these feelings/thoughts, it won't mess up my view on sex for the rest of my life?
Luckily...I have a loving and supportive boyfriend to talk to...but I'd rather just not have these kind of feelings. It messes with your mind sad.gif
Mingtea
I'm straight.

Alot of people are not so sure of this, but i know tongue.gif
ravein
QUOTE (WeeJ @ Sep 17 2003, 02:45 PM)
I have problems admitting anything to myself, let alone anyone else.
I'm attracted to both male and female but how do I know this isn't just some crazy phase? How do I know that if I try and do anything about these feelings/thoughts, it won't mess up my view on sex for the rest of my life?
Luckily...I have a loving and supportive boyfriend to talk to...but I'd rather just not have these kind of feelings. It messes with your mind sad.gif

I am telling you... one day you will work through it.. just keep your mind open and if the opportunity arises take it smile.gif
WeeJ
QUOTE (ravein @ Sep 17 2003, 06:49 PM)
I am telling you... one day you will work through it.. just keep your mind open and if the opportunity arises take it smile.gif

Its still a mind messer upper though unsure.gif
I've had the oppertunity to kiss a girl friend a couple of times and each time I've legged it. Its the most confusing and scary-ish thing that I've ever had to contemplate. I'd rather just ignore it or maybe throw rocks at it sad.gif
Polocrunch
I suspect that if I tried to make any kind of move on any of my male friends, they would react violently. Stupid school. Stupid lack of openly gay people (said the hypocrite).
ravein
QUOTE (WeeJ @ Sep 17 2003, 02:51 PM)
QUOTE (ravein @ Sep 17 2003, 06:49 PM)
I am telling you... one day you will work through it.. just keep your mind open and if the opportunity arises take it smile.gif

Its still a mind messer upper though unsure.gif
I've had the oppertunity to kiss a girl friend a couple of times and each time I've legged it. Its the most confusing and scary-ish thing that I've ever had to contemplate. I'd rather just ignore it or maybe throw rocks at it sad.gif

*hits bisexuality in the head with a big arse rock*
smile.gif
there is that better.. it is confusing.. and it sucks to have to think so hard about it. But finding yourself is amazing.. even if you find yourself hanging on to the ground to keep from falling off the earth.. that moment is still pretty awesome.. one day it will be clearer.. it does suck to be in your postion..I wrestled with coming out... I wondered if I fell in love with a girl or was I a lesbian... 9 years later.. I am a deffinatly a lesbian.. no doubt there.
VVes
^ But I always figured either gender could be "attracted" to either gender, but we have the free will to act on it?
ravein
QUOTE (VVes @ Sep 17 2003, 03:00 PM)
^ But I always figured either gender could be "attracted" to either gender, but we have the free will to act on it?


why yes you do.. like going to the fridge to get something to drink... you can go to the bar and get yourself a man/woman/trannie/ etc biggrin.gif ..... I don't see it as much as free will as curiosity and bravery...
VVes
Well, I'm still quite hormonal ...hitting a dry spell makes everything look like fodder... Mwahahaha laugh.gif
ravein
QUOTE (VVes @ Sep 17 2003, 03:07 PM)
Well, I'm still quite hormonal ...hitting a dry spell makes everything look like fodder... Mwahahaha laugh.gif

aaaaammmmmmmmeeeeeennnnnnnn! smile.gif
I do the same thing... that is what sucks about my sexuality.. I have nothing against guys.. I could have sex with them.. but emotionaly I do not bond with them, hence.. no relationships.. so why have sex and risk STD's, babies, aids.. etc... when there really is no reason. Hence I stick with chicks (plus they are such better kissers, and they are soft.. and.. well I will just stop there laugh.gif wink.gif )
VVes
QUOTE (ravein @ Sep 17 2003, 01:13 PM)
QUOTE (VVes @ Sep 17 2003, 03:07 PM)
Well, I'm still quite hormonal ...hitting a dry spell makes everything look like fodder... Mwahahaha  laugh.gif

aaaaammmmmmmmeeeeeennnnnnnn! smile.gif
I do the same thing... that is what sucks about my sexuality.. I have nothing against guys.. I could have sex with them.. but emotionaly I do not bond with them, hence.. no relationships.. so why have sex and risk STD's, babies, aids.. etc... when there really is no reason. Hence I stick with chicks (plus they are such better kissers, and they are soft.. and.. well I will just stop there laugh.gif wink.gif )

Good, you were getting me all hot and bothered for a minute... blink.gif laugh.gif
ravein
QUOTE (VVes @ Sep 17 2003, 03:16 PM)
QUOTE (ravein @ Sep 17 2003, 01:13 PM)
QUOTE (VVes @ Sep 17 2003, 03:07 PM)
Well, I'm still quite hormonal ...hitting a dry spell makes everything look like fodder... Mwahahaha laugh.gif

aaaaammmmmmmmeeeeeennnnnnnn! smile.gif
I do the same thing... that is what sucks about my sexuality.. I have nothing against guys.. I could have sex with them.. but emotionaly I do not bond with them, hence.. no relationships.. so why have sex and risk STD's, babies, aids.. etc... when there really is no reason. Hence I stick with chicks (plus they are such better kissers, and they are soft.. and.. well I will just stop there laugh.gif wink.gif )

Good, you were getting me all hot and bothered for a minute... blink.gif laugh.gif

*flashes VVes*
dont make me post some erotica smile.gif
ever since me and Kat (new GF) started dating I have been spewing the stuff out. I am going to have a show very soon...
WeeJ
QUOTE (ravein @ Sep 17 2003, 07:21 PM)
dont make me post some erotica smile.gif
ever since me and Kat (new GF) started dating I have been spewing the stuff out. I am going to have a show very soon...

I quite like reading that sort of stuff when the mood takes me


...

unsure.gif
VVes
QUOTE (WeeJ @ Sep 17 2003, 01:35 PM)
QUOTE (ravein @ Sep 17 2003, 07:21 PM)
dont make me post some erotica smile.gif
ever since me and Kat (new GF) started dating I have been spewing the stuff out. I am going to have a show very soon...

I quite like reading that sort of stuff when the mood takes me


...

unsure.gif

I am your mood speaking...you must read erotica!!!...Mwahahah
ravein
I wonder if we would get modded???? heheheheheheh
Queenie
i'm very damn straight dry.gif sometimes i wish i could be bi though cause there are some damn foxy women around!!!

i've kissed female friends but it doesn't 'do' anything for me, i just love men too much!! laugh.gif
VVes
QUOTE (ravein @ Sep 17 2003, 01:40 PM)
I wonder if we would get modded???? heheheheheheh

Huh? I don't understand in reference to what?

blink.gif
WeeJ
QUOTE (VVes @ Sep 17 2003, 07:46 PM)
QUOTE (ravein @ Sep 17 2003, 01:40 PM)
I wonder if we would get modded????  heheheheheheh

Huh? I don't understand in reference to what?

blink.gif

I think she means if we were to post erotica.
I think we would definatly get modded for that unsure.gif
ravein
QUOTE (VVes @ Sep 17 2003, 03:46 PM)
QUOTE (ravein @ Sep 17 2003, 01:40 PM)
I wonder if we would get modded???? heheheheheheh

Huh? I don't understand in reference to what?

blink.gif

I was saying I wonder if the mods would rain fire and brimstone.. and large cookies down upon me if I started a erotica thread... cause... anytime is a good time for erotica smile.gif
Mr Fuzzy
I might rain halibut! PMing erotica to me however... That's to be encouraged. tongue.gif
VVes
^ Ah, alright then, but then again erotica is very poetic, surely with such topics on sexuality and such erotica would be the least of problems or concern???
ravein
QUOTE (VVes @ Sep 17 2003, 03:54 PM)
^ Ah, alright then, but then again erotica is very poetic, surely with such topics on sexuality and such erotica would be the least of problems or concern???

you know.. after the Masterbation thread... hehehehehe... I am amazed.. that we all didnt get kicked off for that one... but you have a point.. as long as it is not smut erotics (not that there is anything wrong with that.. I have a vast collection smile.gif ) it shouldnt be to bad... really I swear..
Polocrunch
Oh hell, we got away with a (very successful) threesomes thread, so no worries.
I do however distance myself from any actions taken to promote the cause of erotica, just in case.
CommieBastard
Well, obviously it's too early for the results to mean anything significant, but so far we have less than half the forumites as straight, which is very interesting.

/me takes notes
Polocrunch
It just goes to show that we're all Liberal Commie Homos, like yo'self. And I applaud that.
*Claps*

Is it just because we're young and uninhibited? Or are we a very innaccurate representation of the general population. Presumably the fascists have their own threads elsewhere....?
CommieBastard
The only thing we all have in common is the Other Side animations. It's by no means an ideal sample, but there seems to be a correlation between Other Side and sexuality which is interesting.
ravein
QUOTE (Polocrunch @ Sep 17 2003, 04:33 PM)
It just goes to show that we're all Liberal Commie Homos, like yo'self. And I applaud that.
*Claps*

Is it just because we're young and uninhibited? Or are we a very innaccurate representation of the general population. Presumably the fascists have their own threads elsewhere....?

I would like to say that it is sign that the next generation has learned from the mistakes of past generations. But it could be that the demographic that gravitates to Mata and his animations are more open minded, more intelligent, more in tune with the world around them.. that what I hope anyway.
VVes
QUOTE (ravein @ Sep 17 2003, 02:42 PM)
I would like to say that it is sign that the next generation has learned from the mistakes of past generations. But it could be that the demographic that gravitates to Mata and his animations are more open minded, more intelligent, more in tune with the world around them.. that what I hope anyway.

Yes, I think it's true of most of the members.
CommieBastard
Bisexuals in society as a whole: 1%.

Bisexuals on the board so far: 31.25%

Fascinating...
VVes
QUOTE (CommieBastard @ Sep 17 2003, 02:52 PM)
Bisexuals in society as a whole: 1%.

Bisexuals on the board so far: 31.25%

Fascinating...

so, of the world's Bi-sexual population most of them are here?
syuu
QUOTE (Polocrunch @ Sep 18 2003, 06:54 AM)
I suspect that if I tried to make any kind of move on any of my male friends, they would react violently. Stupid school. Stupid lack of openly gay people (said the hypocrite).

I was thinking about that at school.

Of course, it's another endless debate that would get nobody anywhere. It's not fair in the least how people can't be open about who they are for the reason of embarrassment or fear. But that's how people feel and it's how they are, so I suppose I have to live with it and deal with my own sexuality. Of saying 1% of the world is bisexual, are you sure? It's become a giant trend in these parts to go around kissing someone of the same sex. It makes you "cool". And really? That's disgusting. If people are resorting to sexuality to become popular, they need a new trend.
CommieBastard
QUOTE (syuu @ Sep 17 2003, 10:30 PM)
Of saying 1% of the world is bisexual, are you sure?

So say the Ontario Consultants on Religious Tolerance, and in my experience they've always been impartial and reliable. As to LGBT being "cool", I've never experience that in good old homophobic East London. I wish. I could do with a dose of cool. Oh well, I can make up for it with a leather trenchcoat.
syuu
You've always been cool, Commie. Nothing could change that! Even if you had sex with Margaret Thatcher, we would all love you long time.
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