This is in response to the recent fun happening the in "Self Pleasure" and "Masturbation" threads.

Just thought a poll would be fun.

Sex aides/toys = "special friends" that vibrate, dildos, beads, clamps, handcuffs, paddles, fake jewellery for private parts, and anything else I don't know about.

There's also an option if you're just into coloured/ribbed condoms and lube.

Post if you want to, but I know a lot of you have already posted in the above mentioned threads.

By the way: I firmly believe that if you don't know something and want to, the best thing to do is ask! Why live in ignorance? The same goes for questions about this topic!

I always have a packet or two of mint flavoured lube in my pencil case. Don't ask me why, its just there. People tend to steal some and wipe them on door handles...

I have a pair of fluffy handcuffs, but then again who doesn't?

The only sex aide I have are my two hands.

EDIT: And why would you need flavoured lube? Isn't the sole purpose of lube, to y'know, help to slip in easier? Surely, you would only need lube for oral sex if her mouth is the equivalent of sandpaper.

I am thinking about this too much.

Its for Oral pleasing of the womanhood area...*cough* so i've been told.

Although just normal KY lube tastes rather nice... sweet, and sorta cinnamon-ny.

I've got a pair of handcuffs, and an Itty Bitty Vibe... though it needs batteries.

I'm really not much for sex toys or any of that stuff. I gave one of my exes a vibrator for my anversary. That's about it. My present girlfriend has been talking me into using scarves and stuff to tie each-other up and blindfolds and what-not. I'm really not much for crazy stuff. I'm rather conservative when it comes to sex. My sexual exploits have all been in the save confines of a matress or the back seat of my car. I'm more for personal technique as opposed to using devices. In other words, I'm good enough without 'em!

My friend recently bought these interesting ball things... you erm.. insert them into a girl and every time she moves the make a ringy sounds and vibrate O_O *giggle* erm...

i have the hole furry handcuffs and scarfs to tie people up... but... nothing too kinky O_O

o yea... and lubericant... flavored for MY pleasure jk....

girls can use flavored lube on guys too! it taists better then skin

Blegh. Not the one I tried. It claimed to be vanilla...tasted nothing like it. I don't even know how to describe *what* it tasted like. It was absolutely disgusting.

So, that was my only experience with a flavored lube. Sort of put me off the whole thing, really.

As for other stuff...meh. I don't much care for a vibrating sensation...*shrugs* It's just never done anything for me at all.

I LOVE sugar-powder candy, so I'm thinking those "body dusting powder" kits that look and taste like flavored icing sugar that come with feather dusters for application could be loads of fun.

Jaq and Jicama, please pretend you didn't read this!

Gotta get me some of those leopard-print fun fur handcuffs, too! And one of those pillows with the secret zippered pocket in the back where you hide all this stuff from your mom if you still live at home.

If anyone wants to know just what kind of products are out there, as I once did, check out My Pleasure. It was very informative.

Why not just use icing sugar?

I want some good rope/handcuffs.

... or both.

I don't own any at the moment, but there's still lots of time for that... I was going to buy myself some handcuffs at Christmas, but didn't get around to it. Maybe I'll get them in the summer (because everyone has to have handcuffs, after all).

Who hasn't heard Mr. Vibey? I put one or two toys because some of my stuff is in storage and some of it is way to old to be of use. Things such as the flavored warming oils. I wonder if they've dried up in my storage unit? My whips in there somewhere and I hate to admit but I think my ex kept the handcuffs. I'm not sure though because the inventory of what I do and do not still have from my move 4 years ago has yet to be completed do to the fact that I still haven't gotten my own place where I can unpack my stuff.

Anyways. Me not having gotten any in almost 4 years now, (wow my anniversary is coming up soon) I don't think I would be able to survive without something to aid me.

I'd advise you to buy those from an adult gift shop. They'd be safer and more comfprtable.

Not that I know or anything...

I wish i have fuzzy handcuffs

I have this cream stuff(as i mentioned in the masturbation thread). It doesnt seem to work though. I told a friend of mine to buy me a vibrator for my birthday. I cant wait! lol

Or, if your into the pain thing you could go to Ace and get some scratchy plastic rope or chains.

Girls, don't use vibrators. Just don't

I need to get some bondage pants

All I've got now is my lube, my preciousis, we's wants it *runs of with lube*

AWWWWWWWW Why not?

I would think it would be kind of numbing. Not something you'd want in a sex toy.

It really depends on how you use it... if you're going for clitoral stimulation then you really have to stop before it all gets too tense and sensitive. If you're looking at other areas, then you're wasting good battery power, frankly.

The Rabbit type ones come highly recommended. Apparently. *cough*

Oh, just to counter what Ri said... having a large, erm, member and/or a great technique is all well and good. But in the end, there's something about using toys, clothes and tools, getting away from vanilla sex, which adds a whole new dimension to it. Just think about how much more fun you could have using chocolate body paint, removing some almost non-existent underwear, a bit of tying down, or using a gal's fave vibe on her... there's so many different things to try, it seems daft to me to not explore them.

Something like that. All well and good if you're on you're single, but not if you're with someone. I live 40 miles away from my other half so I guess people would expect a woman to have toys in my circumstance, but meh. I must be an exception. They just don't do it for me.

I would be an exception too I guess. My thing is if it ain't the real thing, it doesn't do it for me.

I do outdoor ed as part of my work and asked one of the trainers for some rock climbing rope, he gave me a funny look but let me have it!! Great stuff but kinda rough!!

Yes, I have a closet full of "equipment"!!

Ok...first off...the candle! Yes I use a candle for er ya lol. Its rounded off well at the end so theres no discomfort at all, its nice actually. Second is the vibrator. I never had that numbing affect with me, so I use it. My vibrator is a plugin with a vibrating stub so ya. The candle is easier to me anyway because i can take it anywhere I go lol. Ya I'm weird.

.......This thread is funny...........but anyways.........Well,.I see some of you aren't quite adventurous "yet"!<<<YET!!....But you will in time.

.........God,...from toys ,.to food,.....cuffs,.......rope,....you name it,.
.........I like sex and I like the girl I am with to like sex with me. I am very adventurous and thats just me.....All these things are a common thing.....Very normal.....Multiple toys,....whatever...........Please the female.........She will please you in return......

I have it from a very good authority that a little Buzz Buzz can be a very good thing! She claims that even if you're not a hard-core user of the vibrator and into full insertion, even just using it for a little bit, like, say, just against the outside of your underwear, can be very relaxing. That doesn't sound too intimidating I guess. Just like using a vibrating massager on other parts of your body. She says why shouldn't that part of you get a little nice relaxation/stimulation too? Maybe I should get one! This girl and her mom both have them, and discuss which is their favorite kind. That's a bit much for me, though!

I find the most pleasure using the remote control to scrach my ass, and that's about as much I will use with a vibrator.

........Make your girl happy!....Buy her a Pocket Rocket to keep in her purse. Its about the size of your thumb and keeps the females happy
while in a "Short Term Parking" spot..

...or you can buy her the vibe that looks like a Lipstick.....

it looks like a lipstick?? what if their mum 'borrowed' it to use and figured out what it was after trying to use it?? or a friend on one of those 'toilet trips' girls go on in groups?

oh the situations that could arise...

no innuendo intended btw

Remind me not to watch the TV in your house...

nothing vibraty in my collection yet, but there will be eventually.

fluffy handcuffs? nah! i removed any fluff right away. hancuffs and the like are great fun.

I was given a whip for christmas too. havent used it yet!

i have a purple riding crop...and some handcuffs! also, tigerlily, i know what you mean about the candle! oh yes my friend, oh yes! hee hee, i wanna get a large bright orange dildo to shake at people and stuff... woo woo!!

Fal xXx

Do to my extreme bashfulness, I can't work up the nerve to walk into a sex shop and bring something up to the counter.

"Yes, thats one disposable enema, fluffy handcuffs, furry whip, cat ears, claws, and a case of flavored lube. Got a big weekend planned, eh buddy?"

>.<

Though plenty of normal household things are good fun. Whipped cream, powdered sugar, chocolate syrup mmm..., and bananas (washed very very well).

Got any other fun ideas?

edit: forgot candles. some of my friends love having wax dripped on them, personally its not my thing.

Atari (good username BTW), don't worry about buying anything in sex shops, once you've unpacked six dozen of anything it's hard to think of them as anything other than stock. I had a friend who worked in one for years, she used to find some of the toys quite funny, but she really didn't care who buys what. Why would you really? Once you've bought one thing you get right past the nerves of it.

Personally I think handcuffs are over-rated, they chaff too much which just isn't comfortable (unless you like that...), go for the cuffs with buckles and fur on the inside (again, the fur cuts down on nasty chaffing. It's difficult to find something sexy when the upper layers of your epidermis are being rapidly worn through) or bodywrap stuff, both are secure and a lot more comfortable.

Where I use to worrk, we had an adult section with games, lube, massage oils and things of that nature. At first I was intimidated by it, but eventually I became so callouse to them. However, since I gained an appreciation for the customers and even tried to help them out. People in adult shops know and understand you may be imbarassed at buying something so they act professionally and discreatly. I've been in a few and they seem to have the most professional atmosphere of any place I've been to.

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not spam honest >.<

Forever I've been looking for a pair padded with leather on the inside...I'm sure such a thing exists, I just can't find the buggers.
As for substitutes, I use whatever spare cable/rope/string-like things are lying around. Last time was a pair of earphones and the cable for connecting a MiniDisc player to a stereo...

Those are actually a little bit larger than lipstick. It just comes in a container that is similar to lipstick so it's not as obvious that you're carrying a vibrator around in your purse. At least the ones I've seen are. So I wouldn't worry about mum trying to paint her lips with your vibey in that case.

Handcuffs and Blindfolds are good, not to sure about all this lube business though. Don't own any yet......