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Enslaved
This is more than likely going to sound like me dribbling sh*t again. But somtimes I feel like I just hate everyone. I don't know why. Maybe because I feel hurt from what people have done to me in the past and I forget not everyone is like that.

I just want to say sorry to everyone I've been an a**hole to. I have issues.
Ocean!
I'm the same way. I'm just not a people person anymore. Actually, I'm not much of a person at all anymore. I'm just going through a tough time I guess.

Well, I'm sure that helped you.

o_0
franken-sarah
Oh, Nat, you are a bad little fairy!! Of course you don't hate everyone, but I know how you feel!

I work with some first class a-holes and after a day with them bitching and moaning then a drive home in traffic where absolutely no-one bothers to indicate then you get stuck in the supermarket for hours cos everyone has taken 2.5 children shopping with them, well I feel like I hate everyone then too!! blink.gif

Come here, let me give you a hug!! *hugs Nat* biggrin.gif
Aria
I've felt that way for the past 3 months. No end in sight, really.
moonshine
....You guys remain in that state of mind after awhile because you chose to do so..........After a bit of letting your brain chill out after a rut of nonsense,........get out and do things that you enjoy. In time, you'll get back on track.
....Just remember mistakes caused by you,.... or another individual, and remember them......Its a good learning process for when you get older.

Trust me. wink.gif
Aria
QUOTE (moonshine @ Mar 6 2004, 12:45 AM)
....You guys remain in that state of mind after awhile because you chose to do so.........

Not necessarily true. That's like saying clinically depressed people should 'just snap out of it'. Might work for some. But not for all, by a long shot.
moonshine
QUOTE (Aria @ Mar 5 2004, 07:49 PM)
Not necessarily true. That's like saying clinically depressed people should 'just snap out of it'. Might work for some. But not for all, by a long shot.

......but then we would be talking of a health issue instead.........

.......Getting yourself motivated may be hard at times,....but it sure is a good cure once you are able to focus and get away from the deep thoughts that make you want to veg and go into hiding..........
Aria
QUOTE (moonshine @ Mar 6 2004, 12:54 AM)
......but then we would be talking of a health issue instead.........

.......Getting yourself motivated may be hard at times,....but it sure is a good cure once you are able to focus and get away from the deep thoughts that make you want to veg and go into hiding..........

As I understand, emotional health is still health. I believe that this would fall under that category. But then again, I get grouchy when I talk about this sort of thing, so I'm gonna bow out.
moonshine
mad.gif Grrrrrrr..........Me too! wink.gif
TigerLily013
QUOTE (Enslaved @ Mar 5 2004, 09:54 AM)
This is more than likely going to sound like me dribbling sh*t again. But somtimes I feel like I just hate everyone. I don't know why. Maybe because I feel hurt from what people have done to me in the past and I forget not everyone is like that.

I just want to say sorry to everyone I've been an a**hole to. I have issues.

Nah, its cool I have felt the same way.

My past has not been exactly the best either. Being picked on for years really brought me down. Obviously I didn't stay down...i picked myself up and tolerated the rest. the remaining was so weak I could just kick it off to the side. Some days I just want to strangle someone.

Hope you feel better.
Alaric
All the time. I really only talk to a select few people. I may talk to others, but they don't know me at all. Maybe a handful actually do, and its because i don like people enough to share myself with them.. its why i like this forum so much... you all don know me.. but i'll still talk to ya.
MrTeapot
I feel like that sometimes, I felt that today in the shopping centre. No one but you uses any common sense anymore.

I want to be a doctor or vet after Uni, but I'd probably end up unplugging all my patients or bining someone's "Tibbles". Sometimes people are the worst scum of the earth but you have to go through the day.

To keep a healthy level of insanity I do random spontanious things, stupid to everyone else but makes me feel alive slightly. Who knows, if I do become something in medicine I'd probably randomly run down through the wards waving a screw in the air shouting "They think I am a doctor!"
franken-sarah
QUOTE (MrTeapot @ Mar 6 2004, 04:19 PM)
I feel like that sometimes, I felt that today in the shopping centre. No one but you uses any common sense anymore.

I always feel like I hate everyone when I'm in a shopping centre!! mad.gif

I'm always polite, hold doors open n stuff and people completely ignore you and barge in to you - so I avoid shops, I prefer to shop on-line!!

I like rain to cheer me up. After a crap day at work I like nothing better than a walk in the rain - sun works too but I do like the rain. Then a hot shower and some peanut m&m's.... I'm a simple soul!!

Like Alaric I don't like too many people. I left myself very vulnerable too many times by being friends with people and them abusing my friendship. I've learnt from these experiences, though it wasn't a pleasant lesson, and it's made me wary. sad.gif
Enslaved
QUOTE (franken-sarah @ Mar 5 2004 @ 09:15 PM)
Come here, let me give you a hug!! *hugs Nat*


*Hugs Sarah* biggrin.gif

Yeh, I don't hate everyone. Just sometimes focus completely on the people that piss me off, instead of the people that make me happy.

QUOTE (Aria @ Mar 6 2004 @ 12:49 AM)
QUOTE (moonshine @ Mar 6 2004, 12:45 AM)
....You guys remain in that state of mind after awhile because you chose to do so......... 


Not necessarily true. That's like saying clinically depressed people should 'just snap out of it'. Might work for some. But not for all, by a long shot.


Yeh well I am clinically depressed and mentally ill. All I can do is wait for feelings and thoughts to pass.

Sarah - I love standing / sitting in the rain too! laugh.gif
franken-sarah
Yeah, rain is very therapeutic!!

I was on a course a few weeks ago, the guy asked us all to think of something that made us smile then get in line, alphabetically, according to the thing that made us smile.

So, I was "R" for rain. When it came to me I hadto say what the "R" was and when I said it was rain the trainer guy said no-one had ever said that before!

Hee! Hee! I'm special!! biggrin.gif
Gothymothy girl
Yeah, you mean like I want to kill everyone right now just because they exist? Yes, I know how you feel. Lets see, how do we cure it.... oh, yeah. Kill everyone. It'll make us feel better, probably. Hopefully.






DIE! mad.gif ohmy.gif BANG! laugh.gif biggrin.gif mad.gif ohmy.gif BANG! cool.gif mad.gif ohmy.gif BANG!!!! laugh.gif blink.gif biggrin.gif BANG!!!
Kamaradi
Sometimes I feel like everybody hates me, but not the other way around usually.
Pandora
sometimes i wish that everyone would just one day be gone . They don't die just, stop being there, you know what i mean???
chester
i dont think its possible for somebody to hate everybody. i sometimes get bored with the people i know. it might feel like i hate them untill i realize they really didnt do anything wrong, but im just sick of them. but i get over it. i dont think i have or ever will get bored with these swell people on the forum, though. thats why i come here.
Enslaved
otay, so "hating everyone" was taking it a bit far. I think I said I was focusing on all the people that have screwed me over and when ya only think about them... ya kinda hate everybody *hopes that made sense*. I would also like to add the fact that I was pre-menstrual. No further explanation needed. rolleyes.gif
Smee
hell yeah!
I used to feel like that all the time.
Then i found christ tee hee!

its goes back to

"Jesus loves you, But everyone else thinks your an asshole!"

Hey, smile!
Atleast someone loves you!
Rattgirl
I get these weird periods of "hating everyone"...usually at work when I've decided I've been there long enough, but the boss doesn't seem to agree 'cuz he keeps me there.......and keeps me there.....

and the last two days were all warm and sunny for the FIRST TIME this year, and everyone was outside having fun, and I was stuck in here making stupid sandwiches for even stupider people, and at that point my brain just melted down and I hated everyone who walked in the door. It's a bad thing for me to get to that point, 'cuz I'm not that good at hiding it. The best I can do is a careful and obviously neutral face that just screams "I'm pissed off at you but I'm not showing it!!"

Yah. Or the aforementioned shopping spree with screaming, fighting kids in every aisle. Good times.

I'm sure if I told a shrink this, I would be given drugs to calm my "latent violent tendencies", but I've discovered that when I get in that state of mind, I'm easiest out of it by just imagining doing some heinous things to the people who are pissing me off at the moment. For instance: I see two screaming kids in the store, I imagine stuffing their mouths with oranges and booting them cartoon-style (foot to the rear and all) across the store. It usually makes me feel better...and the weirder the solution, the better it seems to work, 'cuz then I'm laughing semi-evil laughter to myself which makes me feel less hateful. I dunno. What was I talking about again?

An' hon? You know anytime you wanna or need to talk, you can call me right? I mean, yeah it's long distance so ya probably can't all too often, but you know what I mean. Even if it's in the middle of the night here. And I MEAN THAT. Your mental health is important to me happy.gif
Dolty McDaft
You know, sometimes I get so ticked off with the world that I wish I had a really big knife, and...

Well, I did have a dream once when I went on a murderous rampage and everyone I knew either was killed by me or fell off a cliff because they were running away from me.

I know. I'm a freak. blink.gif ALL MUST KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!
Gothymothy girl
Jess, that's not like you at all. . . . it's a lie. Wha ha ha. Lies.
Sir Maxerpopple
Sometimes I feel like my close friends, particularly one, hates me. But that's a whole 'nother thread.

And yes I do sometimes feel like I hate everyone. It's a bad feeling, one I try to avoid.
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