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Mata... Could I interest you into a trip to the Outback to show you some shadows that were blasted into the ground by nuclear testing done by your country? Maybe introduce you to some aboriginals who might like to tell you a thing or two about how wonderful England is? Or maybe take a trip to Africa and you can explain some of the things your country has done there. In the name of what? The "Crown"? A bloated egomaniacle figurehead with no real reason to exist other than to give your tabloids something to write about. National defense maybe? Oh, no, we wouldn't go there would we? England has never done anything bad to anyone in the name of national defense.
Cthulhu:
Where did you see me anywhere saying that Britain has not done these things?
Nowhere.
Where did the British royal family come into this argument?
Nowhere until you just brought it up.
At what point did you see me insult all Americans?
Nowhere. You've made rather a lot of blanket statements yourself. If you've not read it, then I refer you to
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You Europeans,
At what point did you think that anti-European sentiment would help your case against what you perceive to be anti-Americanism? I've never raised historical cases of human rights abuses by either of our countries into this discussion because I don't see how they are relevant. This is (now) a discussion about whether you are justified in saying that everyone else on here is inexperienced and therefore wrong to disagree with you. The historical truth of the cruelty of every nation on this earth to it's own and other people has nothing to do with you saying that we are inexperienced, so frankly I have no idea what your point was with this anti-European rant.
Where did you see anyone say that all Americans support an unjust war?
Nowhere. There has been a lot of discussion over whether or not it was unjust, ie. morally right or wrong. It would be extremely daft to say that all Americans felt this way considering the number of Americans on here who objected to the recent Iraq war.
At what point did you see me say that Britain/Europe/anywhere is better (or worse) than America?
Nowhere. That really would be rather offensive. If you have interpreted things that I have written as saying that then maybe you should go back and re-read those posts.
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have any of you ever been to Iraq? Or even to the Middle East at all? How do you know what the heck is going on there or what's right and what's wrong from the comfort of your living rooms? I suggest you do more than read and watch tv and just believe whatever you want to pick and choose to believe.
I know two people who have worked in Iraq since the time of the defeat of Saddam Hussein. Their first-hand accounts tell me that it's going to hell in a speedboat. The news tells me the same. What's your point? Are you trying to tell me that my friends and the news reports that I see daily are all wrong? Really, I'm not sure what you're trying to argue for here.
British imperialism inflicted a lot of suffering on other nations (it has helped some too, there are several nations that currently would not exist without continued association with the UK). The British government has issued apologies to the nations that suffered. Let's not forget that the British imperialist age was well over a hundred years ago. I certainly don't want my country to start invading others again.
You say you don't like imperialism, neither do I. 'Imperialism: a policy of extending a country's power and influence through colonisation, use of military force, or other means.'
Guess what just happened to Iraq?
That's why I would have fully supported the recent Iraq war if the UN was involved, because it's not imperialism if it's not a mechanism to extend a country's power. The purpose of the UN is to prevent that kind of thing. That's why I'm sick that my own government went to war without a UN mandate, and it's (one of the reasons) why I don't like George W Bush, because it wouldn't have happened without his decision to go to war without the UN.
Do I blame Americans for this? No, because I know that my government ignored me and the US government ignored the huge amount of Americans who did not support the war in Iraq. Do I blame 'America'? No, America is the people, not the government. Do I blame the government of America? Hell yes. Why would I place the blame anywhere else? Do I think that the war in Iraq was just? The aim was just, the method was not. Make of that what you will.
I don't recall that you have directly stated that you supported the war, but you have implied it. The war was an imperialist action. It was a way of extending US power into the Middle East. The British government came along for the ride, but it is apparently the American government that gets to make all the decisions about who gets into power in Iraq next. Maybe the British government really did believe that it was about liberating a country. Maybe they're just fools who can't hold on to power even when they've gone to war to get it. Who knows?
The point of this is that you feel that people disagreeing with you is a demonstration of their inexperience. I say you cannot say that, you have no idea what experience or knowledge we have. You are only saying that because we disagree with you, and that is very offensive.
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I said that a lot of you have a lot yet to experience, be you 14 or 114 and that I'd like to talk to you again in 20 years because people's opinions and ideals change over time. Regardless of what age they are now. You ASSUMED I was suggesting that you are all young and inexperienced.
So you said that we have a lot yet to experience but we 'ASSUMED' that you said we were inexperienced? Either you said it or you didn't.
Fair enough, you didn't explicitly state age as a factor, but when your message boils down to 'you'll think differently when you grow up' it's not surprising that people assumed that you were talking about the teenage members of this group (who I suspect make up the majority, I've not done any assessment of average age for a very long time).
You do say in your most recent post that you know you will hold different opinions in 20 years time, so why is it that you believe that it won't be you who is remembering this discussion and thinking how right we were? It is arrogant to suggest that everyone else will change their mind to agree with you.
You say that we have ideologies, yes, of course we do, and so do you. Ideologies make you assume that you are, by necessity, correct and that everyone else is deluded. If you know that you have an ideology too then surely you can recognise the possibility that maybe you are deluded (as well)? I'm happy to say that my opinions _may_ change in 20 years, but they might not. Maybe I will agree with you. That's what ideologies are about, they tell you that things are fundamentally true, but this is just a social construct (good ol' Marx). Your ideology is just as prone to change as ours is.
I can't see what could change my mind. I don't know how old you are, the older members on these forums are usually in their thirties. I know at least a few are older than that. If I work from mid-thirties, that gives you possibly eight more years of adult life than I have had. Having already had around that many myself, I can't really see anything looming in the next few that will suddenly make me change my mind. Please feel free to tell me what these life changing experiences might be, or even what they were, in case I missed them and remained a deluded liberal

Like I say, I can't see what these experiences might be, but I'm not denying that they couldn't happen.
We are like-minded because we believe in freedom of speech with mutual respect. We are Christian, atheist, Wiccan, and many other faiths. We are Liberal, Conservative, Anarchist, and many other political affiliations. We are straight, gay, bi, and probably a few other things too. We are male, female, and intersex. We don't agree on everything, but we have a shared respect for the rights of others to believe what they do if they have the same respect for us. People are disagreeing with you for being disrespectful towards the opinions of others, they are not disagreeing with your right to believe what you want. This is not a forum for voicing disrespectful beliefs. If you do not understand Anarchism that's fine, but just because you do not understand it doesn't mean that others don't. Frankly, I don't think I really understand Anarchism either, I'm for democracy personally, but maybe that would change if I understood it better. Just because I don't understand it, it doesn't mean that it couldn't work as a system. Some very intelligent people have believed in it as a philosophy and I'm sure that they had good reasons for doing so.
Anyway, to summarise:
You believe that life will change our minds. Do you accept the possibility that you could come around to our way of thinking? Or even that we might all swap sides?
Don't be so patronising, especially to teenagers (you weren't explicitly so originally, although that we all read it as that could suggest that your language implied it. Your most recent post is explicit). It's very disrespectful. They have just as much right to discuss these issues as you. Don't tell them to be quiet and listen. You are welcome to discuss things on here, but a discussion means that you need to listen to others as well as they need to listen to you. If they hear you disregarding their views when you speak they will get annoyed and with good reason.
On the subject of paying attention: Stop saying that I have a grudge against America/ns. Stop saying this forum has a grudge against America/ns. We are not anti-American. We are pro-freedom. We believe in freedom of expression and mutual respect (I guess you're get the respect theme by now!

). That means that if we disagree with the way that a country is being run then we are free to say it. The people are not the government. The government is not the people. A person who dislikes American foreign policy is not anti-American, they want American policy to be better. That's what caring about a country is about, wanting it to change for the better. Patriotism is about loving your country, this means defending it against those that would harm it, especially if those people are supposed to be acting in your name. Considering the large amount of Americans on this forum, the questioning of the US government's choices shows you how patriotic they are.
You do not have the right to tell people that they are ignorant for not agreeing with your beliefs. If you want to do that then go somewhere else.
Your knowledge and understanding of the world is limited, just like everyone else's. Respect the rights of others to understand things in ways that you do not. If you are not offensive about their understanding of the world then they will respect yours. If you say that everyone who believes something different from you is definitely wrong then expect them to be annoyed. And expect to get banned.
Seriously, read through this. Does it make sense to you?