QUOTE (Free Psycho @ Apr 22 2003, 07:34 PM)
QUOTE (phoenix @ Apr 22 2003, 02:33 PM)
my parents are divorced sadly they do not date why i don't know, but i guess ithas something to do with self esteem.
And your personal views on marriage? i think real world marriage shouldn't be taken likely.
i go to a school where girls are getting married in or right out of school. i think thats to young at that age you have yet to find yourself (true self) and you still have a lot of maturing to do. (my parents married young m-16 d-18)
it is my view that people should marry someone who they can be friends with as well as cherrish, love, and respect. i think frienship is important because sex will not always be (everynight is not a honeymoon [sorry guys]) so when that fads you need to be able to just be there for each other.
i'm for long engagements and living together before marriage thats how you figure out if you can stay together, live with each other.
all in all real life marriages should be taken seriously as well as the engagements. i think friendship is key to a marrige if you can't be friends then you really can't get past the sex.
but this is just my view from observing my parents and friends.