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simply,I'm a spastic
im sorry but i need help.i am not my usual happy self.i've kinda been left heartbroken,and the twat ex has gona and pulled 2 people who i thought were my friends.we broke up over 2months ago and nothing i do gets him out of my head.any advice?
ravein
I find that tequila, a travel bag of limes, your own personally salt shaker and a really good friend to drive you around and hold your hair works wonders. If that doesnt work.. write your ex phone number on the walls of all the porn houses you can find.. biggrin.gif
simply,I'm a spastic
smile.gif lol thnkas thats actually the best advice i'v had so far.
simply,I'm a spastic
actually,my mate gave me a pretty good offer-he said he' poo through my ex's leter box laugh.gif but i said i'd rather put dynamite through blink.gif MWHAHAHAAHAHH (evil laugh)
leopold
/me drags on sensible overcoat an such, goes into pshy... psi... erm, head shrink mode

I understand and can feel your pain, Simply. In fact, I'm writing this in grey just to demonstrate the degree of empathy I feel with you right now.

The sad fact is, people can be cruel and heartless. And in this case, stupid. This ex of yours obviously fails to see what an ubergroovy and ultrafunky kind of chick you are. It's their loss, and you're gonna go out an pull someone 10 times more attractive, who'll be more in love with you than anyone has ever been, an will know a good few tricks in the bedroom.

Then you'll dump him and find your soul-mate.

That's what happened to me anyways. Except the him was a her. But it's pretty much the same deal...

In the meantime, get drunk an snog guys at random. You have the power and freedom to enjoy yerself. Go do it!!
spuglet
i had a similar situation recently and i found that the best thing to do was what uve already been told, get drunk and pull random guys until your feeling better then get urself a new bf....
spuglet
off the subject here but, YAY i finally reached 100 and worrying!
ravein
woooo den you is in deep dodo... : )
Honestly I think that is the best thing to do really.. sometimes you just have to get out of the house and get trashed... you may not do anything to solve the problem.. but you will have something to talk about the next morning that does not include your ex....

Let me tell you a little story.. I dated this girl once for about 4 months.. I was so in love I couldn't sleep at night. She left and went to Brighton England for 9 months.. the moment she got off the plane she was sleeping with anything she could get to lay down or sit still for a moment. I did not find any of this out until she came back to the states 9 months later. After I had waited and put my life on hold for 9 freaking months. Needless to say I was pissed. So I went to the local bar and proceeded to ask the Bartender for the cheapest drink with the most liquor.. He kept them coming all night (for free..I love him) and I proceeded to tell the whole bar about my ex.. by the end of the night I had people hugging me, buying me drinks, threating to beat her arse for me, offering to take me out or hook me up with there friends... I ended up finding out that I could walk across a street and barf at the same time.. I even had a cop buy me a shot that night. It was fabulous. See.. you just need to get trashed and talk about it to anyone and everyone who will listen. biggrin.gif
leopold
Oh yeah - as fer those peeps ya thought were ya friends, tek em to one side an tell 'em yer off ta the clinic cos yer not happy about summat.

I had a lay-dee friend who pulled that on one of her mates after datin the same guy, fooked her up good n proper!

Dun get mad, dun get even, get REVENGE!!!!! dry.gif
ravein
get drunk and get revenge...
craziness
LOL! great story!!!!!!! SOUNDS FUN!
Industrial Kybosh
I had an odd relationship situation earlier...

A girl who I'd known for a while called me so that I could comfort her now that her boyfriend of roughly 3 1/2 years had dumped her after they 'went on a break'. He, apparently, had found another woman, but didn't tell her straight away. Rather, he left it up to my consolee to find out by accident. Cue much embarrassment and grief.

The odd part of this comes when you consider the fact that the girl I was consoling did the very same thing to me three and a half years ago - almost down to the very last detail.

The irony was not lost on me, I can tell you...

I am proud to say that I did not point this out, or shout "HAH! HOW DOES IT FEEL, BITCH???" down the phone at her, because I am beyond that now. Water under the bridge, doods and doodettes.

It just amused me to see karma at work...
MistressAlti
Gah. Karma. I hope it works that way for me...

Last summer, the guy I had been dating on-and-off for several months suddenly got married to his ex-girlfriend. He did this without telling me. I wasn't even in town when it took place. All I got was an email with a vague apology for something I didn't even know had happened. I got to find out (over a phone, long-distance) about all of it.

I know y'all probably would like to know why he did that. I can't give you a very good answer. His ex was pregnant and needed someone to be the father for the baby. His grandmother was dying, and one of her dying wishes was for him to start a family (he was 19 at the time). His and my relationship wasn't always very stable...

He said he'd always love me and all that jazz, but...
Even so...
It was a slap in the face
How quickly I was replaced
And are you thinking of me
When you f**k her?
leopold
He's married to a woman who was his ex, with a kid that might not be his, jus cos his grandma wanted him ta start a family... an he lost ya into the bargain...

I'd say karma wuz at work there biggrin.gif
prezgfish
karma owes me big time due to many bad thing that have happened 'coincidentaly' including relationships
NoName4444
Hehehe, I think a lot of the advice here has been to lick a vodka imp and summon the hangover Yak.

One way to help speed the healing process (though very hard to do), is just not associate with him anymore for a long time. After the first week or two it starts getting a lot easier... sad.gif
LoLo
Think of numerous and painful ways to castrate him. biggrin.gif
Industrial Kybosh
Nice to see you back in the flow, LoLo - testicles in one hand, knife in the other.

Classic!
LoLo
I personally perfer a spoon or a piece of paper over the knife!
Industrial Kybosh
How do you stand on the use of sporks?
LoLo
Sporks are very cool as well, but the Tick never yelled out spork he yelled out spoon so I have to go with spoon over spork.
Industrial Kybosh
QUOTE (LoLo @ Mar 25 2003, 05:55 PM)
the Tick

Yaaaaaay!

The Tick is pretty cool, it has to be said.
LoLo
The Tick is one of the most awesome characters out there. Too bad they canceled the animated show about him.
MAtt
HUg hope u feel better

o and the tick rocks
talking to faeries
Life can be such a bitch sometimes, but the only thing you can do is grin and bear it.
It sounds like you're better off without him and the "friends" who he pulled.

Move on to bigger and better things smile.gif


(hope you feel happier soon)
LoLo
I just wanted to say that Simply Spastic, you rock for putting reference to llamas in your sig. That is all.
simply,I'm a spastic
huh.gif id like 2 thank u guys so much!!!!! smile.gif smile.gif smile.gif smile.gif smile.gif smile.gif smile.gif smile.gif i've gone and got myself a new man wink.gif who is sweet,kind and i connect 2 him,not even in a sexual way!thank u soooooooooooo much 4 all the hugs and support u really helped biggrin.gif biggrin.gif biggrin.gif biggrin.gif biggrin.gif
simply,I'm a spastic
P.S-LoLo,LLAMAS WILL ALWAYS BE COOL!1 DAY,THEY WILL RISE UP AND SEIZE POWER FROM TONY BOLLOCKS-4-BRAINS-BLAIR!!!!!!!!!MWHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAH
spuglet
bloody hell that was fast! good on ya gal!
simply,I'm a spastic
lol i waste no time dude wink.gif
spuglet
best way to go!
Sarah the Spider
Let's see, this is a depression board thing, right? Okay, I am depressed over things that end before they start. Which is the last two did-not-happen-relationships I have not been in. Yeah. Apparently, I am "so cool" that guys want to be best friends with me and don't want to date me. This is driving me batty. Unfortunately, I have been attracted to two friends (different times, mind you. I don't juggle.) who think I'm really "keen" but not in a "girlfriend" way.

Yeah.

*acts like Steve Martin in his new movie and screams into a large pillow, then takes many sleeping pills*
Debaser
i don't say anything until it's too late, and therefore screw up any friendship-thing we had going...
spuglet
ok depression? with my last boyfriend all my mates hated him for pretty much the entire time, a year, then just when i realised what a schmuck he was and the decided to like him. so now when i jsut want nothing to do with him theyre all buddy buddy and asking me why i dont like him!
and they say i dont spend enough time with them when i talk to other people but then say im annoying when i do talk to them a lot. and they always bitch behind my back when they know it will get back to me, but never actually tell me themselves
oh, and whenever anyone new and 'cool' comes along they immediately follow them round like sheep and have bitching sessions at whoever doesnt wanna worship the new person (usually me)

so yeah, theres the moan for the day from me. just had 2 rant there a bit...sorry, ill go now.
Sarah the Spider
We're such happy people...

*loads shotgun*
LadyDarkPeach
finally back-grounded from the internet-
depression...
I'm in love with my ex and i don't know why, i broke up with him. I also love one of my best guy friends who was no clue how much i love him. I don't know what to do. My best friend just confessed to me how depressed she was this afternoon and spent a few minutes crying till she had to go in for sectionals. sad.gif
things really suck.... dry.gif
MAtt
my life sux to. but hey gotta get through and you could always check out the official website thread and go to that website cuz it might cheer you up
prezgfish
don't let relationships get you down if you love someone TELL them overwise its going to kill you. if you loved some who betrayed you kill them otherwise you'll end up being depressed and women shouldn't cry it defeats there true beauty
talking to faeries
I agree with you prezg...you can't not tell someone how you feel about them...you'll only make yourself go mad.

That happened to me last year...I really liked my best friend, but didn't have the guts to tell him, cos I didn't think he'd feel the same. I kept it hidden for a while and didn't tell anyone, in the end he told me that liked me...we've been together for over a year now and I couldn't be happier. I'm just glad that he had the guts to tell me cos I know that I wouldn't have been able to tell him first, and I would have missed out on something truely amazing.
spuglet
that post did make me seem depressed didnt it? well im not really, just my friends are being a loada schmucks...but i got other friends as well...and a new bf biggrin.gif
i had that trouble with him though, we were really good mates for ages and it took so long of me working at him to get him to finally stop being so shy and stuff

but yeah, you gotta tell people, share the love!
Sarah the Spider
I guess I am depressed. Not severely, I suppose. It's weird, I don't cry or anything, I just kinda zone...Anyway, I can't tell these people this, because that would make it weird because I know for a fact, 100%, that they don't feel the same way.

Where did I set that shotgun down?
ravein
when in dought get drunk... I was in love with my best friend for a year... never worked out.. I started dating someone new.. and I hookd her up with a chick I had been dating to get her off my tail.. nothing ever panned out between the two but they did have sex which is farther than I ever got with her. But thats okay .. it turns out she was a real freak in bed and almost bit off my ex's nipple ohmy.gif ... she was black and blue after they had sex hehehe... so see sometimes things just work out. biggrin.gif
Sarah the Spider
Thaaaaaat's...um...*cough*...yeah...ouch...and...blargh...OUCH...that would...yeah...

*nonsensical ramblings for three minutes*
craziness
um.........
Jaq
Er...
Sarah the Spider
...I don't think anyone knows what to say to that...I sure as hell don't...
cheese is funny
i get depressed alot... always with a broken heart... some of my friends have the best relationships... so loving... so happy... i can barely get girls to talk to me... its hard being different then everyone else... this thread makes me feel so alone... yep... now my day is ruined...
Sarah the Spider
QUOTE (cheese is funny @ Mar 27 2003, 01:11 AM)
i get depressed alot... always with a broken heart... some of my friends have the best relationships... so loving... so happy... i can barely get girls to talk to me... its hard being different then everyone else... this thread makes me feel so alone... yep... now my day is ruined...

No, do not be sad! Well...you already are...but I'm sad too. Want to borrow my gun?

*hugs for the lonely penguin*
cheese is funny
QUOTE (Sarah the Spider @ Mar 27 2003, 01:12 AM)
Want to borrow my gun?

*hugs for the lonely penguin*

ive thought about that... but i figure that if i died today, so many people would be happy, and i couldnt have that, so i figure i will make them feel bad too... plus... i wouldnt want my grandparents to see my funeral... that would suck way too much...

<cries on sarah's shoulder>
Jaq
I don't know penguin, the rest of the people on the board might have relationships but it doesn't seem to me to be that great of a thing. Correct me if I'm wrong but being jerked around by insensitive boors doesn't sound like my idea of a good time. Although I'm the first person to admit that I'm a freak.
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