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DocBrown1985
you know people have al llot dif differnt tastes, and i was wondering what one finds attractive in the member(s) of sexual prefrence group you find attractve.\
I know that i am drawn to symmetry and sleek curves i am espesially found of the little s curve that can be seen from the lateral view of the female thorax.
basicallty the line of muscle where the pectoralis inserts into the soulder.
Please keep all discriptions apropriate pictures are welcome but must be in good taste.
WeeJ
Boobs. To be blunt laugh.gif
{Gothic Angel}
How they carry themselves, eyes, mouth, hands, stomach. Ususally in that approximate order...
phoenix
well if i have to say anything physically, its deep stare eyes..... *melts*
but personality is the biggest thing... funny, intelligent, sweet... i could go on for hours... lets just say amazing..
magikeyes14
well, if anything physical it is the eyes and lips.... gotta love the way their silky lips touch mine *shudder* yummm.. and the eyes becuase of the way they stare and it feels like your falling into their heart even if only for a second..... and im s cuker for a nice stomach... *shrugs* i like kissing it laugh.gif
Pixelgoth
In men it's their lower arms. You know what I mean?! biggrin.gif Also I like their butts, kissable lips, hairy chests, 'come to bed eyes' but most important of all......he gotta make me laugh biggrin.gif If they can't make me chuckle and be a bit silly every now and then they can forget it.

In women, I like em petite, small boobs, slim, perhaps athletic but not too much. I guess it's the opposite of me. I'm curvy so perhaps I prefer something different?

This goes for both sexes they have to be intelligent with some common sense. I want someone I can have a conversation with not just sex.

Hope that makes sense? It's almost home time on Friday and I'm knackered!
Spacehappy
Intelligence, long hair (prefer dark), glasses, slim figure and short. I love a woman to be polite but strong in personality, so she can shut me up. I tend to go for a woman who can play a musical instrument as i can't (And i have tried alot).
Monkey the Rabid Red Rabbit
In males, I like big hands. I take a good look at their palms, then think about it. I like eyes. I mean, there are some really pretty eyes out there. Other than that, I don't pick based on appearance, but I do kind of like pretty guys.

Personality wise, someone who talks a lot is awesome. And I prefer people who are physical in a good way, not like abusive physical.

I hope I explained this comprehensively.
monkey_called_narth
guys: tall, shaggy hair, biger then me, the kind of eyes you can fall into, chritian (dont ask), makes me laugh, is the kind of guy that would call you just to hear your voice, is very over protective of his hat but will still let me wear it... and so on

in girls short, dark hair, med-to large breasts, the way she dresses, what music she listens to, younger then me, how she carries herself, yeah and so on
Sir Psycho Sexy
QUOTE (Monkey the Rabid Red Rabbit @ Oct 31 2003, 05:56 PM)
I like big hands.

really? wink.gif tongue.gif

anyway, I'm not totally decerning of women by looks, of course they'd have to be cute, physical attraction is vital to anyone (i don't go for stunningly beutiful...never have done) I suppose ideally she'd have dark red hair, not vivid of course, green eyes of course, tallish is preferable...though small definately adds to the over all cuteness, nice body...but nothing too special, a pretty face what i like to look at wink.gif, course we'd have to be compatible similar sense of humour etc, yanno, the usual

oh...and there seems to be a theme, i've never really met a guy i've been physically attracted to
VVes
If finding the person with the right "look", it would most likely be someone that has these big expressive eyes, color does not matter, small pouty mouth, skin color doesn't matter.

Small to average height, preferrably not too small or larger than myself, great legs+butt+feet. Slim mid drift. Thin svelt arms.

As far as personality and the rest... very chatty, random, sweet, with a pinch of wickedness. Good self esteem, and can carry themselves well. Goofiness is a must!


Yes, quite attractive to me.

Then of course anyone's humanity attracts me.
Sinewmire
Quite small, dark. Long hair, preferably black.
Cheekbones.
And, yes, boobs. 'course they're just the icing on the cake, so to speak.
cheese is funny
personality. getting along with someone, to me, is the greatest form of beauty. sure, we would all like someone physically beautiful, but i think that is just a luxery of sorts.
acidteardrop
cheese...yes...that about sums it up for me...

as for physical attractiveness...lol, ask pheonix! shes my dreamgirl!

[edit]meh, why dont i jsut say it:

green eyes...green and deep (like pheonix's)

red hair...kinda crimson preferred, and naturally often looks better, but ive seen soem VERY nice dyed red hair, so it doesnt matter really

hair also short...meh, not really one of my bigger issues, but i like hair to be about chin-1.5" in length, uber long hair jsut doesnt seem right to me...too much

hourglass figure...i guess im kinda old skool in that the marylin monroe type figure is more my type-physically anyways

not too thin...not exactly really overweight or anything, but i guess kinda, well, erm, pudgy? ya know what i mean? ex: something like height 5'2" and 130 pounds or something


yeah, thats about it. in that order too, though the hourglass figure and short hair fall in the same place. keep in mind, this is just what, if i could have someone look to my preferences. ya know. oh well, ive found one p[erson who falls into all these categories. ah yes, and one very lovable peronal;ity trait i adore...

a child-like innocence...they can be as permiscuous as w/e, but if they seem like they havent seen the real world yet (and they are of a proper age)...its like orgasm on the spot!

again, none of these are mandatory, at this point anyone who loves me is welcome.
elf
not much physical. they have to be cute i guess.

i like guys with maturity, nonsuperficiality, nonconformity, and who hate MTV.

that's about it biggrin.gif
acidteardrop
QUOTE (elf @ Nov 2 2003, 03:25 AM)
and who hate MTV.

i dont watch TV, but back when i did i never liked MTV

*sigh* you little nonconformists are all alike.
elf
wtf is that supposed to mean? i hate mtv, i hate hot topic, i hate every store in the mall except for starbucks coffee and waldenbooks... i am one of the few people who hate hot topic... i also like christina aguilera. capische? biggrin.gif
acidteardrop
calm down, i was being sarcasmic. im sorry i brought up such a painful subject for you.
Xandra the Blue
at the risk of being rude, can I say what I like in a guy? hmm........big beautiful eyes, y'know the kind that you just want to watch for hours, prefereably with a slightly odd patern in (mine do. most people just have sorta lines, but I have a sort of flower thing. Its hard to explain. mebbe it's a gray eye thing.....), body wise, I'd perfere a very thin and tall person, I'm not into muscles and stuff, and I suppose I like very pale skin (yes, interpriete that as rasist if you will, but leave your judgements 'til the end) and black hair, maybe shoulder length black hair. I suppose it's kinda an ethral look I like.

BUT!

(and this is a big but)

I'd rather have a man who is none of the above and loved me. hehe. love's attractive to me.

(yep, sorry about this, I'm being romantic again)

coversely, I rather like chubby guys as well smile.gif
Sir Psycho Sexy
QUOTE (Xandra the Blue @ Nov 2 2003, 12:07 PM)
BUT!

(and this is a big but)

I like big butts and i cannot lie,
you other brothers can't deny,
when a girl walks in with an itty bitty wait,
you get.....

i forget the rest
acidteardrop
QUOTE (Sir_Psycho_Sexy @ Nov 2 2003, 02:27 PM)
QUOTE (Xandra the Blue @ Nov 2 2003, 12:07 PM)
BUT!

(and this is a big but)

I like big butts and i cannot lie,
you other brothers can't deny,
when a girl walks in with an itty bitty wait,
you get.....

i forget the rest

*sigh* i think ive lost all hope for humanity at this point.
Xandra the Blue
Ack. Efect doesn't work. But I'm going to laugh, then eat my pipe.

(You will never know the joys of monkey physics!)
vicrawr
QUOTE (Sir_Psycho_Sexy @ Nov 2 2003, 10:27 AM)
QUOTE (Xandra the Blue @ Nov 2 2003, 12:07 PM)
BUT!

(and this is a big but)

I like big butts and i cannot lie,
you other brothers can't deny,
when a girl walks in with an itty bitty wait,
you get.....

i forget the rest

I like big butts and i cannot lie,
you other brothers can't deny,
when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist,
and a round thing in your face you get sprung!

So, I like girls who like me. And I like 'em curvy with pale skin. Good sense of humor is a MUST.
Cath Sparrow
I'm drawn to people I can talk to. Niether of of my last 2 boyfriend were anywhere near what could be called good looking. But cause I could talk to them I was attracted. dry.gif
SteelWingedCherub
For me a guy would have to be intelligent and cultured preferably dark hair, long short doesn’t matter, not too thin but also not to look as though he has completely let himself go! I usually go for those with a gothic side to themselves or personality Humour is important I like people with a sick sense of humour
elf
QUOTE (acidteardrop @ Nov 1 2003, 10:02 PM)
calm down, i was being sarcasmic. im sorry i brought up such a painful subject for you.

hehe. dry.gif; were you being sarcastic again? sleep.gif;

anyway. yeah. i like mature guys that i can talk about philosophy with.
acidteardrop
i am ALWAYS sarcastic. and i ADORE philosophy. have you read sun tzu's "the art of war"? i found it VERY enlightening...VERY.
elf
hehe, no, i'm more into existencialism (sp?) and such. i'm going to see "waiting for godot" this week.
DocBrown1985
QUOTE (acidteardrop @ Nov 2 2003, 06:16 PM)
ADORE philosophy.  have you read sun tzu's "the art of war"?  i found it VERY enlightening...VERY.

Just to say wow. If anyone says that matazone isn't diverse then they just don't know what they are talking about. This has been very educational.. Oh and by the Way I Have the Complete Art Od war. Sun Tzu and Sun Pin on the shelf.
Im going to let this thread continue, it might be useful if matazonians want to hook up.
elf
Hehe... hook up? As of now I don't want to hook up with a Matazoner XD I'll stick to real life, thanks ^^;
Pikasyuu
Oh! Good topic, Doc. ^.^


I can't say much in the way of looks since that really doesn't matter to me.

But for personality, I tend to go chasing after people completely opposite of myself. Usually serious, and with a very dry personality who know what to say at the right time.

Then again, I go running after what I can't have lots. Makes it fun I suppose.

QUOTE
at the risk of being rude, can I say what I like in a guy? hmm........big beautiful eyes, y'know the kind that you just want to watch for hours, prefereably with a slightly odd patern in (mine do. most people just have sorta lines, but I have a sort of flower thing. Its hard to explain. mebbe it's a gray eye thing.....), body wise, I'd perfere a very thin and tall person, I'm not into muscles and stuff, and I suppose I like very pale skin (yes, interpriete that as rasist if you will, but leave your judgements 'til the end) and black hair, maybe shoulder length black hair. I suppose it's kinda an ethral look I like.


I'll be shipping you my 110lb 6'4 gothic ex boyfriend in six to eight weeks. Sound good?
chester
huh.gif

uh... im going to post my opinion on what attractive now, if thats ok. tongue.gif

with guys... i like tall guys. thin, but strong. a guy that makes me see the best in the world, but needs me to cheer him up, aswell. big light eyes.. blue or green. dark, long soft hair... in fact... i love hair. it doesnt need to be long or dark, it can be short and blonde, but please let it be soft. the guy has to be competitive. very smart, and knows things that i dont... but not smarter than me wink.gif . he has to like good music. he has to always try to be himself instead of changing his personality depending on his friends or "group". hes gotta have a lot or friends. i like guys who are... pardon the term, "drama geeks". i have a lot of friends like this and thats what i (and they, too) call them. i have to like his family and always feel comfortable with them. he better not have a problem with my friends. uh... wow... i just realized how picky i am... maybe thats why i never get a boyfriend...

ive havent met a girl that im attracted to yet, though i AM openminded. i think that if i did meet a chick that i was attracted to, it wouldnt be for looks. i have plenty of really good looking friends that im not attracted to. so... does anybody see what im talking about? ah... nevermind...
magikeyes14
hm. ok long explination time......

i LOVE the chase.. i like not being able to have what i want, and trying to get it even tho it pisses me off after a while >_< i mean, i like having what i want but, the chase is the best part...

PHYSICAL:
dark hair and dark eyes. hair doesnt matter the lenght as long as my fingers go through it. I love dark eyes becuase its like swimming at the bottom of a pool and looking up, its amazing, i mean, i like blond/blue eyed guys to, but its rare when i do. erm... i like my guys bigger then me but still fit and small, becuase, i am small. Erm.. i ike my guy taller then me, but not like A Giant compared to me. Im rather short (5'4) and i like looking up at him, but not like, straining my neck just to see him. lol... I like him strong enough to pic me up and play with me, but not like, so that he could break me. erm..... and he has to be cuddly, i love cuddling and its just so intimate. its one of the best things in the world, deffinatly on my top 10 list.

PERSONALITY:
outgoing and slightly odd. has to have a good ((odd)) humor and has to be able to know when i am kidding around. Sarcastic and sumwhat a smart ass... also sweet, kind, gentle, caring, optimistic, loving and him. I cant stand guys that are one way while they are with you but a totaly different way when they are with their friends. I want him to just be him and thats it. he cant be fake, or lie. i hate lies. he has to be honest and strait forward. He cant like, hint at stuff becuase he doesnt wnna say something, her has to be able to tell me what he has to say and be confident about it. erm.. if he lies he has to understand that i wont forgive him totaly and that it will take a lot to get my trust back. erm.... and if he breaks it off with me, he has to do it strait up. just tell me why and that its over ad i'll respect that. He has ot respect me and himself.
porcelainwarrior
ok here goeth...now i change my mind on this sort of stuff all the time but this is my right now explanation...

physically i like guys (i reckon im straight, the whole idea of girls is ok by me and i go for personality more than anything but ive never really looked at a girl and thought "wow shes hot - i could fall in love with her" etc etc...). im kinda tall (5'10") but i like guys about the same height as me or a little smaller. long hair is cool, nice eyes are important to me as well, i like someone who can hold my gaze, not be intimidated by me. erm...skin tone doesnt bother me but i dont like really thin pale guys cause im afraid ill break 'em. i like guys who are stronger than me, not to the point of breaking me but...erm...i dunno...the rest of thats going to sound wierd so ill stop now...

for their personality i like outgoing guys who can be a little crazy and not worry about what people think, they have to be able to get sarcasm (and use it too). i like guys who know when its time to be serious as well, and i have to be able to talk to them. i dont want to sound mean, and i mean no offence to anyone by saying this but in a way i like guys who are of equal intelligence with me (and i dont mean to sound like im bragging when i say that but i am academic, i cant help it), i have to be able to have a decent conversation with them about something other than cartoons, video games and bands. and thats about it...

i think i might expect too much but all of that describes my current boyfriend pretty much, hes a 5'9" indian/scottish expro-wrestler with really intense brown eyes and shoulderlength undercut black hair. hes doing a degree in business/computery stuff and he's almost definitly clinically insane judging by his actions at parties (including putting his head through a ceiling)...except for the conversation thing...just how much does one girl really need to know about the hulk, heman and the xmen? argh....
Mingtea
Slim Tall girls with.. Glasses, I always notice glasses.. dunno why.

Glasses!

Nice bottom and a small chest does me...
Rattgirl
Y'know...I used to have this long, long list of things that my ideal mate would have to be. Over the years, it's been getting shorter and less involved in the physical, much more in the mental and emotional. But hmmm...I guess for physical, I can just go with the kind of guys who instantly attract my gaze when I'm out wandering about...you know, the kind that make you perk up internally and make your heart beat a little quicker even though you don't know them and wouldn't dream of talking to them? So here's that kind of guy:

Average height, maybe a little tall, say 5'11" to 6'4"...lean and lanky, with that sinewy, whipcord look but with natural flowing grace to their movements. Strong hands. Medium-length hair, doesn't really matter what color but usually brown catches my eye fastest...long in the front, with those bangs that frame the face and fall over the eyes...can be either long or short in the back. Curly hair excites me, but I like straight hair too. Huge eyes; color doesn't matter so long as they're deep, soulful and expressive, with long lashes. Full lips, good cheekbones...one of those "soft" looking men. But a little grungy. I don't like Abercrombie Ad boys...they're too fake. I like the kind that look like slightly down-at-the-heels musicians or artists.

Those are the guys that catch my eye first.

But for me, it doesn't matter how good-looking they are if their personality sucks. I've had boyfriends that looked gorgeous to me, even though everyone else thought I was nuts when I said that, just because their personalities were wonderful. Sense of humor is FIRST and foremost..it has to be similar or at least attunable. I love guys who don't mind being goofy in public. I especially love guys who don't feel like they have to treat me differently in public than in private. I mean, there are of course things that shouldn't be done in public, but I like it when they're willing to treat me equably with their friends when in public. I love it when the guy I date is my friend and can be my friend when around our other friends.

There are a lot of other things but this is a long enough post wink.gif
Xandra the Blue
ThaNKS Syuu............wait.........thats was sarcasm........ tongue.gif
the lil' pie fairy
QUOTE (Mingtea @ Nov 3 2003, 11:54 AM)
Slim Tall girls with.. Glasses, I always notice glasses.. dunno why.

Glasses!

Nice bottom and a small chest does me...

ooo if only there were more like you!!! lol i'd have no problem then!
William Wallace
Boobs, curves, lips, and p****.

Uhm, "axe wound". Like those hedgehogs. biggrin.gif

That's what I like. I'm a shallow bastard, yarr. Ahoy dar! Surrender da booty! ph34r.gif
spiffilicious05
Hmm, when it comes to stating what I like about a person, or find attractive it basically comes down to everything. The first thing I look for though is a good personality, none in particular, just not the IM GOING TO KILL THE WORLD BECASE EVERYONE HATES ME AND IM A DRAMA QUEEN...lol Im in theater and I get way too much of that

But jeez, I love the line of a guy's face. Their hair; straight, curly, spkied, whatever first their personality best. They eyes, wow I love eyes because they lead you right down into the person's soul and show you what they're really thinking, eyes are gorgeous no matter how they come. Then the lips, I love lips...I guess its just a fettish but I love to trace the outline and curve of a man's face with my fingertips and my favorite part is when i get to their lips. Their shoulders, broad, small...I don't care. Hands, I really love hands because they'll be what holds you, hugs you, caresses you and tickles you, dries you tears. And a guy can be any build, from small to medium to large (as in overweight) to large muscular.

Looks are just a plus of things...but no matter who you have as long as you love them then they are beautiful, thats what makes them attractive - your love for them



:::Takes in a deep breath:::
wow did i say too much? tongue.gif sorries
Jonman
What's attractive?

Me, that's what. I'm blimmin gorgeous, me. S'a good job I've not got a pair of ladies fun-sacks, or all the straight lads'd be chasing me around'n'all.
Mr Fuzzy
Just have a heap of pies and you'll have yourself a cracking pair of manboobs on no time.
Jonman
QUOTE (Mr Fuzzy @ Nov 10 2003, 04:39 PM)
Just have a heap of pies and you'll have yourself a cracking pair of manboobs on no time.

mmmm.







pies.
Jaq
QUOTE (Jonman @ Nov 10 2003, 05:15 PM)
What's attractive?

Me, that's what. I'm blimmin gorgeous, me. S'a good job I've not got a pair of ladies fun-sacks, or all the straight lads'd be chasing me around'n'all.

I just can't stop laughing at the phrase "fun-sacks"

I keep getting this picture of women walking around carrying bags of sweets and toys on their torsos...
Mr Fuzzy
Ooh... I can see it now... Norks with these things built in.



Tactile, yet memory improving!
Mingtea
QUOTE (the lil' pie fairy @ Nov 8 2003, 09:22 PM)
QUOTE (Mingtea @ Nov 3 2003, 11:54 AM)
Slim Tall girls with.. Glasses, I always notice glasses.. dunno why.

Glasses!

Nice bottom and a small chest does me...

ooo if only there were more like you!!! lol i'd have no problem then!

Perfect girl alert? tongue.gif
acidteardrop
im changing my entry:

my perfect person is....

KRYS! i love you my kryssie darling!
Starfish
QUOTE (elf @ Nov 2 2003, 11:21 AM)
hehe, no, i'm more into existencialism (sp?) and such. i'm going to see "waiting for godot" this week.

What did you think of "Waiting for Godot," Polaris?

I've always enjoyed it. The thearte company I work for is producing a new play called "Godot Waits for Homeland Security" in January. Heehee. My boss just gave me the script, though I haven't had a chance to read it yet. smile.gif
MarJ
QUOTE (WeeJ @ Oct 30 2003, 09:33 PM)
Boobs. To be blunt laugh.gif

Well your f*@!$d then!!!!! biggrin.gif
Fandangohead676
Uh...They have to be tall(cuz i am) and strong but they dont have to be too buff. uh i no preferance on hair color but i seem to fall in love with red heads. i usually like hair at least shoulder lenght or shorter. they HAVE to have nice soft hair (yet i dont pet them Kelly maybe thats one of your problems tongue.gif ). they need an ok liking of music. they HAVE to understand that i have a horse and need to divote some time to him.they can have some pericings but no so many that you feel like your making out and working on a car at the same time. and tattos are ok.
They need to at least have an ok IQ
they have to be funny at least to make me giggle laugh.gif
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