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post Jan 23 2010, 08:13 PM
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Hey everybody,

The basic rundown of my situation is this:
My girlfriend is doing her student teaching in Berlin. Back in December, before she left, I bought a ticket to fly over and see her. I asked if she wanted me to visit, and she said yes.

Something has changed. She told me she doesn't have feelings for me anymore, doesn't want to be in a relationship. I'm giving her space right now.

But I have this ticket to Berlin. If I cancel it I'm out $200 for cancellation fees. I still get most of the money back, but for me $200 is a fair amount of money. It's my opinion that she should be the one giving me $200 because she said she wanted me to come over there otherwise I wouldn't have bought the ticket, and her view on that is "I didn't ask you to come". But I did ask her if she wanted me to.

Spoon, ironically one of my favorite bands, is doing a European tour for the week that I'm over. Here are the dates I need people's help with! Places to stay! People to hang out with! I'll end up in Berlin on the 12th, and screw it if she doesn't want to be with me, I'm coming over anyway and I just won't go to see her.

FEB 14 - Glasgow, UK
FEB 15 - Manchester, UK
FEB 16 - London, UK

So, who has floor, couch or bed space? tongue.gif From there I figure I'll be heading back to Berlin for the 20th as they play there and I fly out on the 22nd.

I really would appreciate if maybe I could work something out with you lot. There are some of you I didn't get the opportunity to see (or saw for a shorter period of time than I would have liked) when I was over in '08.
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post Jan 26 2010, 07:43 PM
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I hope everything works out so you can at least enjoy the concert. Keep us updated, yo.
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- EvilSpoon   Forumites I need your help   Jan 23 2010, 08:13 PM
- - Tarantio   Sadly, I don't live close enough to Glasgow an...   Jan 23 2010, 08:31 PM
- - Cath   I'm afraid I'm also to far out From Manche...   Jan 23 2010, 09:54 PM
- - Ashbless   West Coast of Canada so not really able to help wi...   Jan 24 2010, 01:43 AM
- - candice   Aww, sadly we're too far from any of those pla...   Jan 24 2010, 08:33 AM
- - CheeseMoose   You're free to crash at my flat in Manchester ...   Jan 24 2010, 03:39 PM
|- - EvilSpoon   QUOTE (CheeseMoose @ Jan 24 2010, 10:39 A...   Jan 26 2010, 07:20 PM
- - EvilSpoon   Well, how 'bout you London folks? Anybody not ...   Jan 24 2010, 09:43 PM
- - Mata   Feb 16th, I can offer you a spot in Oxford. It...   Jan 25 2010, 01:59 PM
- - Mimzzy   I hope everything works out so you can at least en...   Jan 26 2010, 07:43 PM
- - Cath   Slim chance if I can find the money I can pop up t...   Jan 26 2010, 07:51 PM
- - EvilSpoon   This is, as of now, unofficial. Fly into Berlin o...   Jan 26 2010, 08:01 PM
- - candice   We can house you for a few days, if proximity to M...   Jan 26 2010, 10:47 PM
- - EvilSpoon   Anybody aside from Mata want to meet up in London ...   Jan 28 2010, 04:49 AM
- - Tarantio   Oddly, I will be south of the border that weekend,...   Jan 28 2010, 05:15 AM
- - Daria   I head back up north on the 14th, sorry   Jan 28 2010, 11:12 AM
- - candice   I don't think moop and I will be able to do th...   Jan 28 2010, 08:51 PM
- - EvilSpoon   12th - Arrive in Berlin, 11:10 am. Fly out to Lond...   Jan 29 2010, 01:04 AM
- - CheeseMoose   I can give you a sofa in my flat on those dates, b...   Jan 29 2010, 11:53 AM
- - Daria   There's a party in London on the 13th you...   Jan 31 2010, 12:49 AM
- - EvilSpoon   I just canceled the ticket... I did my taxes and b...   Jan 31 2010, 04:46 AM
- - Cath   Awww *hug* nevermind come see us another time.   Jan 31 2010, 04:40 PM
- - CheeseMoose   Ah bad times. Sorry to hear you're not coming ...   Jan 31 2010, 05:14 PM
- - EvilSpoon   Fear not, I'll be there eventually . Hopefully...   Jan 31 2010, 10:25 PM
- - Mata   Ach poop. Sorry to hear that. It would have been g...   Feb 1 2010, 01:59 PM

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