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MistressAlti
post Jul 8 2003, 02:11 AM
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Apparently, I have no independent thought. I have no true concept of "reality". I am mindless and easily impressed. I am irresponsible, immature, naive, and short-sighted.

Why?

Because I am 17 years old.

I'm constantly criticized on an aspect of my life that I have no control over - namely, my age.

I've just returned from yet another lecture. My great-uncle, age 53, always feels the need to impress upon me those faults of my peers. He's not the only one, either. I feel the discrimination all the time, if not with family, then when I'm off at Academy. I am looked down upon by the college students because of my age, too. Apparently teenagers are made from a mold. We're all the same. We're all young and stupid. All of us.

My uncle's also a fan of the "I know what you should do with your life - listen to me, because I know everything about life!" sermon, as is every single adult in my life.

I swear to God, if I hear "Now Rachel, be realistic" one more time... Once again, because I am young, my ideas about the world and about my future are, quite frankly, wrong. My hopes, my dreams, any aspirations, goals, plans, are wrong. Apparently I'm supposed to want something else for my life.

I don't discount their concerns. I know they've experienced more in life than me. I recognize this and accept it - respect it, even.

But to be blatantly talked down to, for no reason? That, I will not tolerate.

Anyone on this forum who's spoken with me knows that I'm typically respectful, yet I don't take to being belittled too easily. Imagine my frustration in this, then, where I have no way out - I can sit there and be chided for things I have no control over, or I can speak up and further reinforce the individual's beliefs about teenagers!

Yes, I understand that there are a lot of mindless, irresponsible, immature teenagers out there, and almost all of us have our moments. We are not, however, all like that, and especially not all the time! And dare I even suggest that mindless, irresponsible, and immature behavior can be found in every generation of individuals - teenagers and adults!

I tried to explain to my mother how I felt. All I got was a deaf ear, a "You should do this with your life!" lecture, and finally a few attacks on my character.

I don't know if I'm really asking for any advice over this, although I guess it's always welcome. I just... want to be heard without feeling like I've been cut down.
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post Jul 8 2003, 08:11 PM
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QUOTE (gerbilfromhell @ Jul 8 2003, 12:09 PM)
THEY DON'T EVEN LIVE IN NY HOW COULD THEY KNOW NETHING ABOUT NYC SKOOLS! and skool can be the worst. if you tell a teacher they're wrong, they'll yell at you, tell you that you have no idea what you're talking about, and then when you PROVE them wrong, they say somethin short, nice and slightly condescending to you and quickly change the subject

gah i hate that..when people are so CERTAIN they are right about everything, so they babble on about a subject they know NOTHING about. kids do it too, but mostly yeah i've found it does come from older people.

my dad can be like that sometimes....he'll sit there and try to tell me about something that i am very familiar with and he just has no clue about whatsoever. of course, i could just be conceited and think that i'm always the one who is right..lmao. i don't think so though...i know what i am knowledgable on and what i'm not.

(and this is off-topic, but don't go to AP Randolph gerbil wink.gif lol and i did live in NYC, so i do know what i'm talking about. uhm, not that anyone would actually choose that school anyhow...i saw much graffiti plastered all over my old building about how much it sucked, and it was quite accurate. it's where my husband went to school, lol...horrid, horrid, horrid. omg i must be becoming an adult, cause i swear i just couldn't resist throwing that in there. wow. scary. sad.gif )

oh, and btw...for what it counts...either all of you who are teenagers on here are extraordinary or i'm just a really bad judge of character, but lol when i first came here, i just assumed that nearly everyone was older than me until i really looked at the family album (which was when lo re-did it and combined it w/ the audio fam album..before it killed me and my dial-up ways..). i never would have guessed that any of you were teenagers otherwise (well, unless ya told me, of course. tongue.gif )


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- MistressAlti   Age Discrimination Against Teenagers   Jul 8 2003, 02:11 AM
- - cheese is funny   missy, i know what your talking about... geometry...   Jul 8 2003, 02:20 AM
- - candice   i know how you guys feel.....i had to deal w/ that...   Jul 8 2003, 06:05 AM
- - MoonlightSavingsTime   I was trying to figure out how to respond to this ...   Jul 8 2003, 06:25 AM
- - candice   QUOTE (MoonlightSavingsTime @ Jul 7 2003, 11:...   Jul 8 2003, 07:04 AM
- - MoonlightSavingsTime   Ohh, that somehow reminded me of something when I ...   Jul 8 2003, 07:15 AM
- - chester   hm.... i dunno if i should be talking in this thre...   Jul 8 2003, 08:10 AM
- - wolfbane   I'm 21, have just finished university and stil...   Jul 8 2003, 11:04 AM
- - spuglet   i completely agree. i keep getting told by my mums...   Jul 8 2003, 12:31 PM
- - kidvicious2punk   people just get this idea that since i have colore...   Jul 8 2003, 05:35 PM
- - LoLo   I'm going to nit pick on cheese for a moment.....   Jul 8 2003, 06:06 PM
- - MistressAlti   QUOTE (LoLo @ Jul 8 2003, 01:06 PM)I'm go...   Jul 8 2003, 06:31 PM
- - candice   i dunno about all the different generations and th...   Jul 8 2003, 06:41 PM
- - Jonman   You think you've got problems? With my thinn...   Jul 8 2003, 07:03 PM
- - gerbilfromhell   y'know, it's not just the constant 'li...   Jul 8 2003, 07:09 PM
- - candice   QUOTE (gerbilfromhell @ Jul 8 2003, 12:09 PM)...   Jul 8 2003, 08:11 PM
- - leopold   Well, as the old man of the forum, I guess it...   Jul 8 2003, 09:04 PM
- - Sir_Psycho_Sexy   I get it too, mainly from my mum, most of my other...   Jul 8 2003, 10:57 PM
- - Edward_lover1200   i know how everyone feels...I'm 13 so I know n...   Jul 9 2003, 09:51 AM
- - The.Wheezing.Ghost   I agree entirely with mistressalti. I sent a lette...   Jul 14 2003, 12:45 AM
- - The.Wheezing.Ghost   My cousin also sent an entire idea for the school ...   Jul 14 2003, 10:08 PM
- - Skiz   I run a brownie pack and one of the big reasons wh...   Jul 14 2003, 10:12 PM
- - The.Wheezing.Ghost   wow.. thats basically what i have been saying to p...   Jul 14 2003, 11:07 PM
- - Mr Fuzzy   You know, I've always discriminated about age ...   Jul 15 2003, 12:24 AM
- - gerbilfromhell   i've tried to make ppl not think of me as the ...   Jul 15 2003, 02:55 AM
- - Sun Tsu   I hate the lectures and tags that are put on teens...   Jul 15 2003, 05:57 PM
- - gerbilfromhell   i think it's hilarious when whever there's...   Jul 15 2003, 06:06 PM
- - Sun Tsu   QUOTE (gerbilfromhell @ Jul 15 2003, 07:06 PM...   Jul 15 2003, 06:27 PM
- - gerbilfromhell   no, i just mean that ppl just say either 'it...   Jul 15 2003, 07:27 PM


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